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JARROTT P. COX (#46518980)
 member for 14 years, 28 days
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Bio Photo Jan.2016

No good deed goes unpunished. So true these days.

All photos submitted by me are copyrighted. No use of photos for personal use is given without prior consent. No use of photos for any other website is given W.O.P.C. None of my family photos are to be used in any way.

It is poor genealogical practice to allow others to use your information and photos with out credit why because they lose there source ,future researchers are robbed of that valuable resource and connection. Lifting photo is out right theft.

All sir name and first name edits sent by edit and not documented will be rejected.

Please do not leave transfer request on my public messaging, they will simply be deleted. Its your responsibility to do it through the memorial.

Do not be deceived. God will not be made a fool. For a person will reap what he sows. Gla.6:7. Other words what you are dealing out good or bad will some day come back on you its the law of GOD.

Please remember my photos are embedded with a copyright. Request permission be for using any Head stone photos or cemetery photos. If I find them on another web site I will take action. None of my family portrait photo's are available for use at all.

Please be aware I take screen shots of search when creating a memorial(as proof they were there first) as many are moving them into cemetery after creating them in friends and family and claiming mine are duplicates.

I'm getting a great amount of conflicting edits every week major changes require a source.( other than I will reject conflicting edits. Head stone markers take priority. I'm getting nasty emails for adding incorrect info. but actually its the edits changing info.

This new edit system like many other things has got out of control at first it was only with contributors permission then they started automatic approval after so many days it is impossible to keep up and it is to time consuming, my memorials are getting to be a mess ,everyone else I know is complaining to.

Requests and Transfers Please see below in my bio:

I have been a genealogist for 49 years and feel we owe it to those who have passed to preserve there memory and tell there story. For most of my entry's here Iv walked the cemeteries rolls and have more photos then I will ever be able to add. I have a collection of 100,000 + obituaries in eastern Ks. and western Mo contained in binders and now put them on flash drives of witch number about 10000 + . Many have wondered were my source is so there you are. I am the author of several books on my family and I and my cousin are the keepers of the family archive directors of the family reunion and am passing it down to my daughter. Iv been to cemeteries in at least 35 states tracking down my ancestors.

Messaging is not the way to make request or changes to a memorial use the edit tab on the memorial please. As a link is sent and many changes can be be made with approval from edit tab.

Fed up with the drama and hate on this site.

Everyone deserves respect.
Rude/demanding request will be reported and automatically rejected.

Sorry I have to sound so strict but the atmosphere on here now demands it.

On the other hand kindness and politeness will get pomp and priority attention.

If you need to contact me personally use my friend and mentors memorial.
Paul J. Lake

A great big thank you to the many hard working contributors & photographers we all owe you a great deal you are very much appreciated by me.

Quote from Jim Tipton Founder after Ancestry acquisition."It will still be wrong for someone to 'steal' a photo from Find A Grave and post it other websites as if it were their own".

Please do not leave transfer request on my public messaging they will simply be deleted. It is your responsibility to read transfer guide lines and to use the edit tab on memorial and state relationship if not stated request will not be considered.This is not a refusal it is your failure to follow Find A Grave guide lines.

Please include your member number. Also the public messages below are not intended to request suggestions or changes to a memorial because no link is generated to memorial when the edit tab on the memorial is used a link is sent so I know who you are talking about. Many new features are there also to actually add links and changes to a memorial with contributor approval.

It is not necessary to manage a memorial to add to it I am willing to add any information that is allowed & correct. The ultimate goal should be to have meaningful, accurate memorials that honor those who have passed away, regardless of who created the memorial or who maintains it. Virtual cemetery was created so family inveigles can be placed in them.

As many of my friends and I have noticed lately attacking and toxicity is now alarmingly on the increase dealing with this is not only stressful but time consuming and emotional & physically draining causing the following to be necessary.

If your message or email is rude,accusatory, bulling or harassing in any way it will be sent to find a grave. If it continues other steps will be taken.People attacking someone and hate mailing making false claims is unacceptable.

My advice is just troll along down the line,because one way or the other its going to stop life is to short to be harassed.

I've worked hard on this project for many long years as has many others members, I'm proud of my efforts ,any one says I'm in for the numbers is just sick or jealous or simply has a mean spirit.

Demeaning someone has no place anywhere.This does not mean you can not correct me, I make many mistakes and as long as your nice about it we will work together to fix them and move on.

As in the past most of you kind folks have done an exultant job.

Reporting A Duplicate. include the numbers of both and send it via edit on dup. memorial.If I duplicate a memorial, please know that it is unintentional as I check before posting.

The memorial pages I create are done so with the utmost respect as I try to always leave flowers and establish links.

I am now saving sir name searches before & after adding a memorial to a cemetery as proof it was the first entry, because many are using the non cemetery method and moving them in cemetery later.

Please use the edit tab and be very plain about your suggestion. I can not take an hour to figure out who and what you are talking about.

Marker transcription-- ONLY Marker transcription INFORMATION GOES HERE no other.

Confusing and non understandable request, I receive theses ever day please make them clear and don't assume I know who or what you are referring to.

No link no reply,I simply do not have the time.
Many edits I'm receiving are not correct, do the research do not assume. Due to this I'm going to start rejecting edits that are not sourced or do not match my information. I sorry but I'm tired of the misinformation I'm receiving.

Please do not use statements made here as ammunition to harass or bully as is the case anymore with some.
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RE: Find A Grave Memorial# 89258088
No Edit button for this fix. Your memorial Mary Virginia Wirt Enlow 89258088
Has a link to parents 119529174 Russell Clark Wirt and Lucille C Behnen Wirt 119529530.

These are not her parents as Lucille and Russell were my great aunt and uncle and they DID NOT have any children. Can't send you proof of a child they did not have.

Don't know if you were sent this edit or what but it is not correct.

Thanks for setting this right. Have a great day!
Added by LSB on Feb 11, 2016 7:55 AM
Judy K. Roberts
RE: Find A Grave Memorial# 104728188
You are very welcome, if I have any other family members of yours just send a request with your contributor number and I will gladly transfer. Have a great day!
Added by Judy K. Roberts on Feb 09, 2016 3:00 PM
Barbara Chisler
Lwrence Ray Hoglen
Very sorry I forgot his number #93291650
Thank you again
Salem Church Cemetery
Ex Springs, MO
Added by Barbara Chisler on Feb 06, 2016 3:04 PM
Barbara Chisler
Lawrence Ray Hoglen
I believe you may have the wrong state for Lawrence's burial. You have listed AR for his burial and we have no record of him being buried here. He may have died here in Ex Springs but not buried.

Thank you
Barbara Chisler
Caretaker of Salem cemetery records
Added by Barbara Chisler on Feb 06, 2016 2:56 PM
Mary Joan
RE: Ernest Brayton edit
I understand it may take awhile, that's ok. Just wanted to let you know why I had added his death certificate to his memorial #98386366. The death certificate proves his parents. I will remove it once he is linked. Thank you for the recent flowers on the Brayton memorials and for all of your great work on this site.

Added by Mary Joan on Feb 06, 2016 8:43 AM
Chris L
RE: Find A Grave Memorial# 127225158
The only records available are readings done years ago provided to OMC manager that I compared to entries on Find A Grave. There is no "JE" buried at that cemetery according to those records. The middle photograph is MEW if that's what is being called "JE".
Added by Chris L on Feb 05, 2016 5:12 PM
Chris L
Find A Grave Memorial# 127225158

There is no burial record of a JE Williams in the Williams Family Cemetery. If the above # is referring to the second headstone in the picture, then it's actually MEW. What are your thoughts?
Added by Chris L on Feb 04, 2016 11:48 AM
Mary Joan
Ernest Brayton
Sorry I misspelled Ernest and forgot the memorial #
98386366 in my initial message!
Added by Mary Joan on Feb 04, 2016 10:38 AM
Mary Joan
Ernast Brayton edit
I sent an edit for Ernast Brayton to be linked to his parents but you have not yet accepted it. I have added his death certificate as a photo on his memorial as proof they are his parents. Once you have linked him I will remove the death certificate unless you tell me to leave it there? I did not know how to get the death cert to you any other way?
Added by Mary Joan on Feb 04, 2016 10:18 AM
carol white
RE: Joseph Amazeen #93788442
Thanks, i appreciate it.
Added by carol white on Jan 26, 2016 2:21 PM
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