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Carol & Mel Hochstetler (#46859544)
 member for 10 years, 3 months, 19 days
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Bio Photo Find A Grave contributor Anonymous 2 -
this is for you: sense you have your messages turned off, I have no choice but to leave you a message here in hopes that you see it. This is what I received today, 7/4/16


Find A Grave contributor Anonymous 2 has made a suggestion to you regarding your Find A Grave memorial for Stephen Abel.
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This is in regards to "H RAY SWANK".

I don't know WHO you are, however, I have sent FAG a complaint asking who you are and what gives you the right to go into one of my memorials and make changes. According to the obituary all that is listed is H Ray Swank, NOT Harold Ray "Ray" Swank. I'm responsible for his memorial not you. Please DO NOT go into my account again and make changes to anything. I will be declining everything from you from here on out. I don't appreciate deception. How many other memorials have you gone into and made changes without permission?"

My response:

I'm sorry you're so upset. I didn't think I had such powers. All I did was fill our an edit request to inform you what his name was and that they called him by his middle name. Isn't that what the edit button was made for? I realize I'm old and only been a member for 9 years but this has never happened before that I know of. I thought we were suppose to help one another and share the information we had. My memorials are not mine, I'm simply a care taker while I'm here, until someone who loves them wishes to be their caretaker and request a transfer.

Thank-you for the blessed holiday.
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Beth Thompson
Addison Jerue
Thank you for transferring Addison Jerue to my care. I appreciate it very much. Have a great day.
Added by Beth Thompson on Dec 06, 2016 2:20 PM
Karen K
RE: 109835854
Bio transferred
Added by Karen K on Dec 05, 2016 9:36 AM
Beth Thompson
Jerue transfers
Thank you so much for the transfer of Annadelle and Milton Jerue's memorials. It was so nice of you to do that. Milton Jerue was my husband's great uncle. Wishing you the best.
Added by Beth Thompson on Nov 18, 2016 8:34 AM
Donna Roginski
Walter Earl Williams 26804163
I see that you left a note on his memorial saying he is your grandfather. I have information about is wife, Grace Almeda Baker, going back many generations, if you are interested.
Added by Donna Roginski on Nov 12, 2016 5:31 AM
Barbara A. in CA
Robert Bienz
Please send the obituary to Karen who manages his memorial. I did not locate the memorial.
Barbara A
Added by Barbara A. in CA on Nov 09, 2016 5:56 PM
Barbara A. in CA
Please send the Correct obituary to Karen who owns and manages Robert Bienz memorial. I did not locate the correct one. Thank you.
Added by Barbara A. in CA on Nov 09, 2016 5:30 PM
Barbara A. in CA
Larry Bienz
I have linked Larry as requested.
Also sent a message to the contributor Karen who actually manages his step fathers memorial. I found the obit and sent it to her. Hope this helps. Wondering what relation you are to this family also.
Added by Barbara A. in CA on Nov 09, 2016 11:39 AM
RE: Smith family
No I don't, she was cremated. If I find out I'll let you know.
Added by IndigoJoy on Oct 27, 2016 6:34 PM
Smith family
Can you please edit Naomi A. Smith (find a grave ID 169714779) to link to her mother (168723766).
Added by IndigoJoy on Oct 25, 2016 12:47 AM
Raymond Hayden Nixon & Betty Ann Adkins Nixon
Thank You.

Added by seedsofcuriousity on Oct 16, 2016 12:32 PM
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