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DebRob (#47945281)
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We Are The Chosen

My feelings are in each family we are called to find the ancestors.
To put flesh on their bones and make them live again,
To tell the family story and to feel that somehow they know and approve.
To me, doing genealogy is not a cold gathering of facts but, instead,

Breathing life into all who have gone before.
We are the story tellers of the tribe.
We have been called as it were by our genes.
Those who have gone before cry out to us:
Tell our story.

So, we do.
In finding them, we somehow find ourselves.
How many graves have I stood before now and cried?
I have lost count.
How many times have I told the ancestors
you have a wonderful family, you would be proud of us? How many times have I walked up to a grave
and felt somehow there was love there for me? I cannot say.

It goes beyond just documenting facts.
It goes to who I am and why I do the things I do?
It goes to seeing a cemetery about to be lost forever to weeds and indifference and saying I can't let this happen.
The bones here are bones of my bone and flesh of my flesh.
It goes to doing something about it.
It goes to pride in what our ancestors were able to accomplish.
How they contributed to what we are today.
It goes to respecting their hardships and losses,
their never giving in or giving up.
Their resoluteness to go on and build a life for their family.
It goes to deep pride that they fought to make and keep us a Nation.
It goes to a deep and immense understanding that they were doing it for us
That we might be born who we are.
That we might remember them.

So we do.
With love and caring and scribing each fact of their existence,
Because we are them and they are us.
So, as a scribe called, I tell the story of my family.
It is up to that one called in the next generation,
To answer the call and take their place in the long line of family storytellers.
That is why I do my family genealogy,
And that is what calls those young and old to step up and put flesh on the bones.

[Author: Della M. Cumming ca 1943.]

Della Commings
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Charlene Kimpler
Maud Chapman
Thank you for full filling my request for a gravestone photo.
Added by Charlene Kimpler on Mar 25, 2015 1:51 PM
Photo of tombstone
Thanks Deb for your time and effort in taking the tombstone photo for Cordelia. Much appreciated!
Added by D.D. on Mar 25, 2015 1:30 PM
Patty Ruffing
Burlie M. Pearce
Thank you so much for the picture of my Great Grandmother's headstone.

God bless you for all the wonderful work you do.

Thanks again!
Added by Patty Ruffing on Mar 25, 2015 9:24 AM
Gwen Menz
Edna Brennan Cobb
Hi Deb, thanks so much for the great photos of Edna Cobb's gravestone - much appreciated!

Added by Gwen Menz on Mar 25, 2015 7:44 AM
Ann McCormick Lake Co., Il.
#126229827 Mae Garrison
I would like ownership of 126229827 Mae Garrison. Thank you
Added by Ann McCormick Lake Co., ... on Mar 08, 2015 12:28 PM
Ann McCormick Lake Co., Il.
Tanner Cemetery
Could you tell me exactly where the Tanner Cemetery is located. Do you know if this is the same as "GREENBRIER JIM TANNER CEMETERY". Thank you for any information you can give me.
Added by Ann McCormick Lake Co., ... on Mar 08, 2015 12:13 PM
Thanks Deb! Great pictures.

Happy hunting,
Added by YJL on Feb 02, 2015 6:05 PM
Gravestone photo
Thanks, Deb
For your time and effort in taking the photo.
Thanks, DD
Added by D.D. on Jan 20, 2015 8:16 AM
Candis Owens
Hello DebRob,

Thank you for the photo of the Owens' marker. I greatly appreciate it.

Kind regards,
Ken -
Added by KPS on Jan 06, 2015 7:07 AM
Jamie reed
thanks visiting my granddad grave
Added by Jamie reed on Jan 04, 2015 10:03 PM
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