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Delita (#47315206)
 member for 6 years, 2 months, 28 days
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Bio Photo Amelia, Debbie's granddaughter

Debra Lynn Barwick

Grandson TJ Parham
April 17, 2016 Suicide victim

New Memorial
Sister-in-law Nell Martin August 4, 2016

September special days

Edwin Angel Day Sept 26

October Special Days
Nephew ParkerHendley Birthday Oct 3

Valencia Ramirez Birthday Oct 21

Cousin Maxie Carter Birthday Oct 28

My Family
Louis Wisenbaker
Mama Cuba Wisenbaker
Baby Brother Donald
Brothers and Sisters-in-law
Bobby and Coretha Wisenbaker
Wesleyand Gail Wisenbaker
Richard Harold Wisenbaker
Niece Allison Wisenbaker
Alton John Jerrold Parker
Husbands Parents
Father Bruce Barwick Mother Elsie Barwick Step Mother Lena Barwick

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Mary Ann Barrowman
RE: Thank You Mary Ann
Hello Delita,
I'm so sorry for your sad and tragic loss of TJ. My heart weeps for you. It's a dreadful loss of this wonderful young man whom you loved so dearly. I pray you never had to suffer this tragedy. I'm almost 32 1/2 years into my journey now. I remember that day that my beautiful sister Alice died, just like it was yesterday Delita. My stepdad died, then my father, then my mother and then five weeks later, my young brother died. Sadly my extended family are dwindling away. My tragedy now is that Alice's name is very, very seldom mentioned , and this hurts me so much. One thing Delita is that Alice, my gorgeous big sister, was born on Easter Monday, 19th April 1954, and she also died on Easter Monday, 23rd April 1984. This has always troubled me. I have actually ordered a copy of Alice's death certificate, along with a copy of my daughter, Amanda's death certificate today. I have never actually seen these documents with my own eyes.
My love, thoughts and comfort are with you as you learn how to adjust to life without JT. Please feel free to contact me, anytime you feel you need someone to share your sorrow, I'm more than willing to lend an ear. I would never wish the pain of Alice's death by suicide on anyone. As I said Delira, your pain is new, it's red raw, but with support, it does become more bearable, but you will never forget this very talented young man. I'm also saddened to hear of the loss of TJs mother, absolutely terrible. I send your so much peace, love, warmth and comfort. Hugs, Mary, from Clydebank in Scotland. X
Added by Mary Ann Barrowman on Sep 30, 2016 3:59 PM
Thank you Delita for visiting my Grand-daughters page. Mac.
Added by Mac on Sep 22, 2016 9:34 PM
Thank you!
I so appreciate you leaving flowers for my family! You are awesome :)
Added by Busybee on Sep 15, 2016 5:24 PM
theresa wilson
RE: Delita
Your Very Welcome Dear, I know how hard these things are, My Grandad took his own life. Its been hard on the family. My only comfort from it was from the Lord. I had to give it him cause it was too heavy for me to carry in my Heart. I Pray The Lord can help you find that Peace too. Give it to the Lord in Prayer. Lol Theresa
Added by theresa wilson on Sep 05, 2016 7:22 PM
In Memory of Ana,Ruvi and My Dad
Thank you for wishing my daughter Ruvi happy birthday!!!
Added by In Memory of Ana,Ruvi and... on Sep 01, 2016 9:26 PM
Thank you, Delita, for remembering my Grandma with flowers on her Angel Day. Thank you for all of your thoughtful visits.
Added by WillsOfTime on Aug 31, 2016 5:05 PM
Dr. William McDonald
Nell Barwick Martin
Hi Delita

Nell was my mother's (step) first cousin. I have always been very close to John, Nell's step brother.

I always check to make sure there isn't a duplicate memorial page, but the findagrave feature for checking this just doesn't work properly.

I will remove my memorial page for Nell.


dr. royce mcdonald
Added by Dr. William McDonald on Aug 31, 2016 8:53 AM
Francesca Josephin
Dear Madam,thank you very much for beautiful token for my Grandma on her birthday on August 21st,it means a lot for me and I'm very thankful.My Grandma is happy in Heaven that you remembered her,Madam.Best wishes from Europe
Added by Francesca Josephin on Aug 30, 2016 9:32 AM
Thank you for leaving a token for Chris! I really appreciate it. God bless :)
Added by Ace on Aug 30, 2016 12:01 AM
Valenciaღ Asiaღ Angel of Mine💕
Dearest Delita,

Thank you kindly for remembrance of my sister, Margaret and her fiancÚ Dwayne for their Heavenly Birthday, much appreciated

Valencia's mom

Added by Valenciaღ Asiaư... on Aug 23, 2016 9:11 AM
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