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Butterfly~Kisses (#46994799)
 member for 7 years, 3 months, 21 days
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Bio Photo Credit Respectfully given.....
Bob Carlisle, "Butterfly Kisses"
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There Is No Greater Sacrifice, Than To Lay Down Ones Life, For Another..........

Please take a moment and leave a flower or token, in Respect for those who have given the greatest sacrifice one can give for another, their Community or Country.

Thank You.

Officer Daryl R. Pierson
R.P.D. Officer, Badge # "46".

Lieut Michael J. Chiapperini
Webster Volunteer Fireman.

Tomasz Marian Kaczowka
Webster Volunteer Fireman.

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Not a Word Spoken......None Needed.
Please remember our Veterans, Service Men and Woman.

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MY WORK IS AN ON GOING PROCESS.

I DO NOT LIVE HERE & I AM NOT HERE 24/7/365...&... I AM STILL ACTIVE!

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MY MAIN OBJECTIVE: is 2 fold:

1. To preserve our Cemetery Histories.

2. To help those, who may never be able to get to the cemeteries their family members are buried in. Adding the documented final disposition, with or without a headstone, will at the least, let a family member know where that final resting place is. Headstone photos if there are, is a plus.

There are many unmarked graves in any given cemetery and I try to to mark them in the "Add Note" section:

NO HEADSTONE - UNMARKED GRAVE.

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DO NOT POST IN THE PHOTO SECTION:
1. Birth Certificates
2. Marriage Certificates
3. Death Certificates

I DO NOT WANT THEM ON "MY" MEMORIALS.

I DON'T put crap on your memorials,
DON'T put crap on mine!!!!

Smearing B. M. & D. certificates all over an international web site is not kosher...... it's beyond tacky!! It lends absolutely nothing further to enhance the memorial and each memorial already has a place provided to record the Birth & Death stats. Marriage information can be recorded within the Bio section. In 56+ years of research, I have NEVER found a single B. M. or D. certificate attached to a headstone or burial site.

It takes away at least one photo slot meant for PHOTOS. B. M. & D. certificates ARE NOT PHOTOS.

THIS IS A FINAL DISPOSITION SITE, AND SHOULD BE DONE WITH RESPECTFUL TASTE, WHEN CREATING A MEMORIAL TO HONOR A PERSONS MEMORY.

ANYONE WHO HAS PLACED ANY OF THESE 3 ITEMS ON ANY OF MY MEMORIALS, WHETHER YOU ARE RELATED OR NOT, PLEASE REMOVE THEM.

If you are related......Put this type of information in your personal records and show some class.

WHEN YOU DESECRATE A MEMORIAL, YOU DESECRATE THE DISEASED.

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DO NOT POST IN THE FLORAL SECTION:
1. Newspaper Obituaries
2. Any Bio Information

This is a "NOT TO DO", requested by Find A Grave.

I support this wholeheartedly!!!!!!

Regarding obituaries and bio information in the Bio section, I do and will add, as "MY" time permits. ALL material is to be sourced, if I can not validate the information, it will never be added. Any reputable researcher, and or reputable genealogist, knows this is an ABSOLUTE.

ALL INFO THAT HAS BEEN SHOVED INTO THE BIO SECTION OF "MY" MEMORIALS, BY OTHERS, "WILL BE REMOVED", IF NOT SOURCED, OR IF "I" DO NOT APPROVE OF INFO THAT WAS SHOVED IN.

I DO NOT & HAVE "NEVER" HAD ANYTHING SHOVED INTO SOMEONE ELSE MEMORIALS!!!!

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This is a FINAL DISPOSITION site, NOT a genealogical site, regardless of your proclamation, that this is what you are using the site for.

We are volunteers...... helping others to locate that FINAL DISPOSITION of relatives, friends, etc.

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I WORK AT MY OWN PACE, THINGS WILL GET DONE, WHEN THEY GET DONE.

RUDE, MEAN & NASTY, WILL NOT IMPROVE THE PACE......

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REGARDING "MY" cemetery photos, posted to a memorial:

Please feel free to use them in your family history programs, which ever they may be, with credit stating:

"Respectfully by Butterfly~Kisses,
Find A Grave - #---------" (Include Memorial#)

Just stating "Find A Grave" won't cut it. I am more than glad to allow the use of my photos for your family genealogies, with appropriate credit. They are my photos, thus I hold copyright. Credit should always be respectfully noted, where credit is due.

My Photos ARE NOT for reuse here at Find A Grave, (will be reported if & or when found) or to be published in any format for profit or non profit without my WRITTEN consent.


REGARDING filled photo requests by me:

"You are very welcome and I am glad I could be of help." And as always:
"The Best to You and Yours", Butterfly~Kisses


REGARDING photo request found or even unable to be found, due to, never has been a marked grave to begin with, elements, vandals, etc.:

"I Respectfully Thank You, for your time, effort and endeavors to fill my request."


REGARDING the use of "MY Family Photos", on any memorial I have made:

NO!!! It's as simple as that.


REGARDING the new photo transcribing system:

"You are welcome and I am glad I could be of service to help with your endeavors."

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I have been asked why my profile page is closed.

Answer:

Someone who clearly has NO respect for others, and obviously NO respect for the deceased, left a "two daisy floral token",
with a death wish for me, on my husband memorial page, stating:

"Hope You Join Him Soon".

After I alerted Find A Grave about it, they were very quick to remove it, NO fault on their part and I am grateful for their quick action.


CLOSED INDEFINITELY......

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