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Bonita Olmer (#46798970)
 member for 10 years, 9 months, 29 days
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Bio Photo When I was young, my mother had a shoe box and a shirt size gift box full of photos that she kept in the linen closet. Every so often, I would ask if we could get them out and go through them. We would sit at the kitchen table with the photos in a heap. My sisters and I would ask who the people were, and Mom would tell us about them. That was probably what first sparked my interest in genealogy.

I began actively digging for information to put my family tree together in 1981. My Aunt Frances Herbold had been at it for decades by that time. A lot of time and legwork was involved when she was doing her work. There was no Internet. She wrote scores of letters to people, asking for information. She must have spent hours and hours looking through old rolls of microfilm, which could easily cause a person to go blind or insane, or both. Aunt Frances, God bless her, furnished me with a bare bones genealogy to start with. When she passed away, my Uncle sent all of her genealogy materials to me.

Many years passed, and little by little my family tree grew. Then one day I was watching the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina on CNN. I was horrified to see the devastation, but what struck me most was that so many people had lost every picture, every slip and scrap of paper they ever had. I thought of all the family photos, letters and documents I had accumulated over the years. It was hard for me to imagine I could experience such a loss, but it got me started looking for a way to preserve and share these things with others who might be interested.

A short time later, I discovered findagrave. While I haven't posted everything, a large part of my family tree is here. Findagrave is a wonderful place to preserve and share information and photos and to honor those who came before us. That is the reason I do what I do here. I have also met a lot of new cousins here.

My husband and I live just north of Seattle, Washington. I have adopted Holyrood Catholic Cemetery as the one I work on almost exclusively now. I finished entering the names, burial dates and grave locations (from the Catholic Cemetery website) for all of the burials there in late February, 2012. Now I'm working on taking and posting grave photos. As of

May 21, 2013, 29%
August 29, 2013, 37%
September 14, 2013, 38%
October 2, 2013, 39%
October 18, 2013, 40%
November 9, 2013, 41%
December 1, 2013, 42%
January 8, 2013, 43%
January 25, 2014, 44%
February 10, 2014, 45%
February 28, 2014, 46%
March 10, 2014, 47%
March 21, 2014, 48%
March 31, 2014, 49%
April 10, 2014, 50%
April 20, 2014, 51%
April 28, 2014, 52%
May 8, 2014, 53%
May 16, 2014, 54%
May 26, 2014, 55%
June 6, 2014, 56%
June 22, 2014, 57%
July 7, 2014, 59%
July 23, 2014, 61%
July 27, 2014, 62%
August 4, 2014, 63%
August 11, 2014, 64%
August 21, 2014, 65%
August 30, 2014, 66%
September 5, 2014, 67%
September 14, 2014, 68%
September 25, 2014, 69%
October 3, 2014, 70%
October 12, 2014, 71%
October 19, 2014, 72%
October 27, 2014, 73%
November 4, 2014, 74%
November 13, 2014, 75%
November 21, 2014, 76%
November 29, 2014, 77%
December 7, 2014, 78%
December 24, 2014, 79%
January 3, 2015, 80%
January 15, 2015, 81%
January 30, 2015, 82%
February 11, 2015, 83%
February 19, 2015, 84%
February 28, 2015, 85% *
March 18, 2015, 86%
April 19, 2015, 87%
May 10, 2015, 88%
May 18, 2015, 89%
May 25, 2015, 90%
May 31, 2015, 91%
June 9, 2015, 92%
June 17, 2015, 93%
June 25, 2015, 94%
July 2, 2015, 95%
July 7, 2015, 96%
July 14, 2015, 97%
July 29, 2015, 99%

of the memorial pages at Holyrood include grave photos or, when there is no visible marker, an area photo.

If you have suggestions or requests for transfers, please contact me using the "Edit" tab toward the top right hand corner of the person's memorial page. Making your request this way gives me all the information I need to fulfill your request. Please keep in mind that I will add any information or corrections you send me, but I will also credit you as the contributor of that information. I do this because I don't have time to confirm all the information people send to me, and the question, "Where did you get your information?" is answered right there on the page. If you don't have a findagrave ID, I will use your email address when crediting you as contributor of information.

I love taking grave photos at Holyrood. You can contact me directly if you would like for me to get a grave photo, or you can make your photo request from a person's memorial page. If you see an inferior grave photo that I have taken, feel free to ask me to try to get a better one, and I will.

For me, this is not about collecting a huge number of memorials. It is about trying to help people find their loved ones. I hate to think anyone is forgotten. It is, as I said before, about memorializing and honoring those who have gone before us. I would like nothing more than to see all memorial pages in the loving care of family or friends.

If I'm being honest though, I have to say my least favorite transfer request is: "Please transfer my relative." I have transferred to people based on this kind of request, and the result is less than satisfying. No information or photos are added; no family connections made; they do not respond to edit requests, and I wonder why the person thought they wanted to maintain the memorial page in the first place.

My favorite transfer request goes something like this: "So-and-so was a family friend. We lived next door to her for many years. She was like a second mother to me. I remember when... Birth Date: xxx; Birth Place: xxx; Maiden Name: xxx, etc. I have also added a photo of her." Transfer requests like this will be made in a heartbeat. I love learning something about every person in Holyrood (my adopted cemetery). I smile every time I think about the feisty little lady in Holyrood who stabbed her abusive husband in the neck, and the photo on her memorial page is a mug shot (although you can't tell at first glance). And there are others... so many others.

Names I am working on:

~ Every Herbold group I can find ~
Berardi ~ Nigro ~ Zeek ~ Ellis ~ Edgerton ~
Lytle ~ Olmer ~ Vassar/Vasser ~ Dowell ~
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Messages left for Bonita Olmer (1223)[Leave Message]
Karen Frederickson
RE: Seeking an Area Photo in Lakewood Cemetery
I'm inclined to say yes, I can do this... but it might be faster if you contact DaveVangsness (16959198) who visits Lakewood much more often than I do! If that doesn't work out, leave another message - with the names.
Added by Karen Frederickson on May 27, 2016 12:59 PM
Hi Bonita, Thank you for letting me know you added a photo of his memorial. Always adds to one's "story".

You do a great job on the F>A>G> site.

Best regards.

Andi- klassikat
Added by klassikat on May 22, 2016 7:29 PM
Linda Monroe
William Edgerton
I was updating and came across photos that do not belong to the William Edgerton in North Carolina. They belong to the William Edgerton whose parents are Owen Edgerton and Mary Rich Edgerton. I compared the dates for the Wm. in North Carolina to the Wm. in Nebraska. The photos attached to William in North Carolina do not match the gravestone. The William in Nebraska fits the death date of Nov 25, 1912. Please have these photos removed from the Wm. in North Carolina. The individual who too the photo must have assumed they were the correct date. There are so many "Williams" in the Edgerton line, its hard to keep track of all of them without middle initials. Just thought I would bring this error to your attention. Also, I would like to ask you to transfer the management of the Memorial to me, if you are willing. Thank you for your help. Linda Monroe/Linda Johnson
Added by Linda Monroe on May 18, 2016 12:57 PM
vicki curtis
Alan Blair Curtis
Dear Bonita, Thank you for the picture of my great uncle Alan's resting place. I see my cousin Kate also felt saddened that there was no marker so I know she will be thrilled when I tell her that I am going rectify this situation any way that I can.I am going to start with questions for you. Would you know who to contact to get at least a temporary marker until I can get a proper marker. If I need to deal directly with the cemetery is there a location of the plot that I need to tell them? I know very little about Uncle Alan's life. I never met him but I did meet his older sister, Aunt Margaret Evelyn Curtis Walters in 1963 when she was the Dean of Women and English teacher at the University of Washington. I haven't found out where she was laid to rest. You may transfer his memorial to me and I promise to do what is needed to be done.I live in California so I'll have to do this online. Alan had two brothers, my uncle Baldwin and Rowen Doust Curtis, my grandfather. My Father, Robert Rowen Curts passed away just recently on September 11,2015 so I need to work on his memorial also. Alan's father was Heber Doust Curtis the famous astronomer of the Lick Observtory in California who was a participant in the 1920 debate on the nature and size of the universe.I am very proud of my family heritage as you can probably tell. Thank you for any info you may have for me.
Added by vicki curtis on May 14, 2016 12:53 AM
Elnora Bello
Thank you Bonita.
Added by Papawraith on Apr 12, 2016 7:22 PM
Thanks for the transferes.
Added by Kathy on Apr 06, 2016 9:39 AM
RE: Frances Margaret (Angus) Droppelamn #159604346
Would you please transfer all the Droppelman's to us. I'll then check with Ken or his daughter & see if they want to maintain them or not. Thank you for the work you have accomplished. It is a great feet to have it done. We wish you well in your endevors to help family members who can't travel & want to remember long lost & now found family members.
Have a great week. Take care & God bless.
Added by Kathy on Apr 05, 2016 4:53 PM
Frances Margaret (Angus) Droppelamn #159604346
Thank you for putting an up dated photo. We are brother-in-law & sister-in-law to Kenneth Robert Droppelamn Jr. Ken married Rod's sister Lorna. The marker is a beautiful one. May I please ask how your related? I'm just curious. Have a great week. Take care & God bless.
Added by Kathy on Apr 05, 2016 4:43 PM
Thanks 4 the Update-Add a another Stone Pic when it's finished with Inscription. John
Added by JBXBJKS on Apr 02, 2016 12:40 AM
RE: James Walsh and Mary Ann Mulvaney
Yes, I am, distantly. I'm just so curious as to where you would find all that info on Jim's life and ancestry!
Thank you for doing that. Do you know the family somehow?B'bye for now. Take care. PJM
Added by PJM on Mar 31, 2016 12:44 AM
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