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First, my deepest thanks to those who have kept my spirits up by being supportive friends and who have honored my dear ones so faithfully.|
I still find myself trying to focus on the theme of rebirth, and trying to shake the gloom of close losses in the past few years.
Our Romberger Family Association founder, the gent who found our original immigrant ancestor and his family home in Germany, a friend and genealogical mentor has passed. Thank you if you can honor Dr. John A. Romberger. The day we laid Dr. John to rest, another Doctor left us - my dear godfather, Dr. Edwin R. Baldrige. Since then my silversmith teacher, some of my favorite school teachers, and guiding figures from my church have also passed. It sort of feels like my mentors are all taking flight.
I'm finding using the site difficult right now. Some people have found it very therapeutic after a loss. Unfortunately, it has the opposite effect on me; I see all the losses of my fellow contributors, and it makes me feel terrible. I see your now-gone loved ones, and in a small way I re-live the loss of my loved ones. I think my feelings are still too close to the surface to be so easily stirred.
If you have a moment, would you kindly visit Randall Buckley? This is our friend Paula's brother.
If you are wondering whom else to visit, perhaps you'd kindly look in on my dearest.
If you have a moment, would you please send prayers to fellow contributor Ann H?
And if you have another moment, please consider leaving a token for our fellow contributor, White Light.
Picture use: You are welcome to use pictures for personal use, but I do NOT consent for their use online or on commercial or paid sites. FindAGrave is about sharing what you know, and I will not have my good will co-opted and monetized. I saw some of my pics stolen from here and put on ancestry.com and I am taking action to correct this.
Transfers and suggestions: Forgive me, but experience has been a harsh teacher. I used to be very cool about transferring, but I've had about enough of being easy about this. I'll gladly transfer the memorials of anyone not related or without meaning to me in a heartbeat, and I have hundreds to give away. But on family, I'm adopted, working on both birth and adopted families. I have a lot of family to cover, possibly double the size of yours, and I have not articulated my relationship to the subject of every memorial for privacy reasons. Rather than quibble, I would be gladder still to improve a memorial with your suggestions sent via SAC. Let's do the right thing and make the memorial accurate, suitable and a reflection of that person's life. You can put the improved memorial in a "virtual cemetery" without needing ownership of it, as I have done with relatives that other contributors have added to the site. I can add links or the info you wish, and you are welcome to add pictures.
On the other hand, if the memorial is one I have added by chance or the subject is no one related to me or is one to whom I have no attachment, I will offer to transfer instantly.
FindAGrave memorials are online representations of real graves, not trading cards. I don't collect them for numbers and am frankly relieved to see them go to family if they have no connection and meaning to me. There are relatives of mine another contributor has memorialized on the site that I do not "own" and have not asked for, content that I have added the info I have, and linked them to their kin.
"Many African societies divide humans into three categories; those still alive on earth, the sasha, and the zamani. The recently departed whose time on earth overlapped with people still here are the sasha, the living-dead. They are not wholly dead, for they still live in the memories of the living, who can call them to mind, create their likeness in art, and bring them to life in anecdote. When the last person to know an ancestor dies, that ancestor leaves the sasha for the zamani, the dead. As generalized ancestors, the zamani are not forgotten but revered. Many can be recalled by name. But they are not living-dead. There is a difference." -- from "Lies My Teacher Told Me" by James Loewen
So perhaps the progression of the living to the sasha to the zamani cannot be helped, but we record here those we knew, both sasha and zamani, and leave some record of them. And if they are sashas to us, perhaps our record keeps them sashas longer as we offer our first hand accounts of them.
It bothers me that time passes, because I sense my friends and family members moving out of sight as they pass through the celestial plan, or whatever you like to call it. I am just conscious that our grip on those we know and love is constantly eroding. I think this is why I have been drawn to FindAGrave; I can't stop people from dying, but I can stop them from being forgotten, and can see the lives of people other contributors feel the same about, those they don't want to shift out of focus as time clouds memories and people who knew others pass on. Here, at least, we can freeze them in time and recount all that made them good or special.
Your visits to my loved ones mean a lot to me. They mean my folks here are not forgotten, and honor people I really loved or respected or took the time to research, so thank you. I enjoy honoring people remembered on Find a Grave, and do take the time to read bio info on memorials. I appreciate knowing about the people other folks want remembered.
Every memorial entered here has been done with respect and good intent, in the hopes dear ones will not be forgotten. Any concerns, additions and so on are most welcome here on this page.
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|MARY C||KARL OTTO PFEFFERLE|
Thank you for your transfer. You know that I consider him to be both of ours. Mary C
Added by MARY C on Jan 31, 2016 3:28 PM
You're most welcome for the transfer! I'm sorry I didn't have a moment to reply before I sent it your way. I'm sure it must have seemed to come out of the blue. To answer your earlier question, I'm not related at all. This record is one of many from Lakeview that I've been adding to Find A Grave. Very glad that it's with a relative now. Happy new year to you!
|Noelle||RE: hello, a question|
Hi, I'm sorry, but I have no info aside from the cemetery about Maria. I added her cemetery info a few years ago when I was adding older burials at Our Lady Help of Christians Cemetery.
Added by Noelle on Nov 25, 2015 6:27 PM
Hello. I am quite interested in your grave for Charlotte Pfefferle, who was interred in your family plot with Henry O Clauss in Lutheran All Faiths Cemetery. Have you found the relationship to your family? I have recently found my great grandparents Frank and Frances Pfefferle, my great uncles George and Anthony Pfefferle, and my gg grandfather's grave Christian Pfefferle, as well as Laue(Lane)(cousins) all to be in All Faiths. The last name is not that common, and Charlotte has to be a relative, although I don't know how.
I am coming for the Thanksgiving holiday and will place a pink flower on the grave if I can find it. I will post the photo for you.
It could be that Henry was a kindly soul who offered a grave to a child who needed one and that there is no relationship, but I am interested to find whether or not there is a relationship. Regards, Mary C
Added by MARY C on Nov 23, 2015 9:31 PM
|Joe Nihen||RE: correction|
Good hunting! I'm happy to help when I can.
|Glenda Sheaffer||RE: Meckleys and Schells|
Anything you would like transferred? I have flowers on my ancestors, everything else is available.
|Carl Catherman||RE: Samuel Greenhoe|
I've been working with the Pennsylvania death certificates and have uploaded memorials # 154350632, 154354583, 154358533, 154359161 and 154359383. I'm almost positive that 154354583 (Mary Catherine Greenhoe Aigler) is an unmarked grave. Her husband Jacob was related to me and I never could find her grave when I searched some years ago. I intend to check this again and if there is no marker I'll add that information to her memorial.
|Carl Catherman||Samuel Greenhoe|
Thank you very much for the quick update on his memorial.
Are you related to Matilda Jane Diehl Meckley?
|Sandi Gill||Seazholtz Obelisk|
You're welcome. I am going through each section of Mt. Zion, photographing everything, so if there were recognizable (or even unrecognizable) stones, I would post them if I can in any way identify them as belonging to a neighbor's family. That said, I haven't yet seen Erbs or Gilmores in Section A1, but six rows remain.
I also have a partial burial register that does tell me that Wm H. Erb, 3 mos., was buried on April 15, 1912. He must be the child you mentioned. I did not see his stone. I will look again. On occasion, I miss an inscription on the back.
I have posted the larger view of the obelisk on George Abner Seazholtz memorial. I will take a different view of it so you can see the position of the footstones. They are not exactly "around" the obelisk, but in the two rows of the plot.
In the meantime, you may want to remove the cemetery photos from your memorials, so you have more room for photos. There wasn't room for footstones on some memorials. If you write me at my email address, I will send you the photos so you have them for your family tree.
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