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Bob & Sue (#47206658)
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Taking a break from this wonderful website due to the rudeness of the users. I am old school and the new school theory is lacking manners.

The letters that were sent to my private address were getting rather rude. "Please" and "thank you" have been replaced by "I want" or "gimme" the Memorial. Users are purposely creating duplicates without checking established accounts.

No appreciation is shown for the many thousands of photos we had taken or data placed on our created Memorials. Our photos are being used without permission on their newly created duplicates.

I just need a break.
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Louise Urban
Lizzie Gentry at Evergreen Memorial Park
Bob and Sue, thank you for all your hard work on findagrave. It can be a thankless chore sometimes.

I've been searching for an Elizabeth Lowry Gentry whose daughters moved to Arizona from Missouri. The Lizzie Gentry you have listed as the wife of Washington Frances Gentry is not Elizabeth Lowry Gentry hence not married to Washington Gentry. I checked Arizona's Birth and death database and it would appear Lizzie Gentry you listed was born of Indian descent and is not Elizabeth Lowry Gentry. Please correct me if I am wrong. Thank you. Louise Urban
Added by Louise Urban on Oct 20, 2016 5:27 PM
chris clapsadle
I too have gotten tired of some of the gravers that are so rude and thankless. I do hope you come back, there are still wonderful gravers continuing the work of documenting memorials. We appreciate you!
Added by chris clapsadle on Sep 22, 2016 8:45 AM
Rev. Daniel Lanigan
He is buried in Holy Sepulchre
Added by brknhrt on Sep 10, 2016 8:12 AM
Brian Scott DONOVAN
Terence Bergin, Find A Grave Memorial# 73758286
Bob & Sue,

Thought the information in the second paragraph might be useful to your research.

Edward P. Bergin, March 28, 1860 - Feb. 9, 1904 [Find A Grave Memorial# 169122480]; Mary Bergin, 1866 - 1955 [Find A Grave Memorial# 169122774]; Marilyn McGlinn 1923 1928 [Find A Grave Memorial# 169122821]; Frank McGlinn 1891 1970 [Find A Grave Memorial# 169122906]; Julia Bergin, died Nov. 13, 1904 [Find A Grave Memorial# 169122958]; Catherine Clear, 1878 - 1926 [Find A Grave Memorial# 169123088]. (Tom Cook, Mt. Olivet cemetery inscriptions)

His brother, Terence Bergin, [Find A Grave Memorial# 73758286] born Jan. 9, 1873 in Mt. Mellick, Queen's [now Laois] Co., of Terence Bergin and Julia Maloy, married March 24, 1913 to Hannah Fitzgerald [Find A Grave Memorial# 73758285], born Aug. 30, 1888 in Co. Cork of Simon Fitzgerald and Bridget Callaghan, witnesses: Charles Brick, and Mollie Fitzgerald. (Records of Holy Name parish, marriages 1908-1913).

The information should now be on Previously it had be on the Ireland at Home Abroad website(now no longer active). They are from Tom Cook's compilation over 7,000 abstracts of death notices from 31 sources "Chicago Irish Families, 1833 - 1910."

Added by Brian Scott DONOVAN on Aug 30, 2016 8:03 PM
Phil Carter
Found one of my displaced relatives, Charles Freeman Lifsey, thanks to your posting efforts. Your work is appreciated.


Phil Carter
Added by Phil Carter on Aug 21, 2016 5:26 AM
Vicki Edwards
Geneva Cristman - FAG # 51016648

Hello Bob & Sue,

I read your note and appreciate your comments on some things I too have run into!

I would like to pass along the first name of Geneva's mother which you currently show with a "?". It is Ella. Full name is Ella Nora Sloan.

I am a Sloan descendant, researching the line, now back 5 generations. Ella is a recent "surprise" distant cousin. Have not found her grave but have found the graves of her husband, son, and now this daughter, Geneva.

Thank you for creating her memorial and including the info you did from her Death Certificate. I'll also put Ella's name on an "Other Correction" edit for her memorial, may make it easier for you to add the name.

Thanks again for the nice memorial you created for Geneva.

Vicki Edwards
Sloan Researcher
Los Angeles
Added by Vicki Edwards on Aug 06, 2016 11:59 PM
Ruth Speer
Thank you for making the connection to her parents.
Added by Lee on Aug 02, 2016 9:03 AM
Hubert Burris
I never thought you were disrespecting in any way. I know how hard it is when I take photos as well, I was just letting you know so you could update.
Added by cllfdl on Jul 18, 2016 2:43 PM
Rene Curry
Hi, I am just getting started with Find-a-Grave. I have found that you did a page for my dad. Victor H Perry. It is awesome what you did. I would like to manage her page so that I can attach other memorials that I have found for family. I did start a page for my grandparents.
Rene Curry #48980755
Added by Rene Curry on Jul 09, 2016 1:13 PM
Rene Curry
You took picture of my parents grave> Thank you. I was Just wondering if you took a picture of my grandparents grave that was to the left of this one. I would like to link them together. The name on grave is LaCoille. Henry and Gladys. They are Jacqueline's parents
Added by Rene Curry on Jul 08, 2016 4:43 PM
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