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HJ (#46937296)
 member for 8 years, 7 months, 17 days
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Bio Photo 1. SEND SOURCE INFO!!! When sending info for inclusion on memorials I have entered, please include your source (where you found it, or how you know it). This is important. If I think the info is questionable, I might not add it, or will note who sent it to me. I decline to perpetuate errata and will NOT post anything from an unreliable source.

2. MANNERS COUNT. I appreciate POLITE requests and corrections. If you don't know how to use the words, "please," and "thank you," or can't be bothered, then please don't bother at all. If you send extremely rude, or threatening messages, no matter how subtle, I will forward them to the Find A Grave administrators, without exception.

3. I TRANSFER. Aside from my own family, and close friends, I do not hoard memorials. POLITE requests for your family (close, OR distant), and close friends will all be considered. If I am even remotely related, I will not transfer. I will keep my friends, unless your relationship is significantly closer. If you are prone to entering sloppy memorials with incorrect info, I will think twice about a transfer.

4. YOUR PHOTOS: Please don't add bad photos to memorials I have entered, i.e. photos where you can be seen reflected in the stone, your car is in the background, the stone is covered in bird poop, or leaves, or dirt, your dog, or kid can be seen, or photos taken at a carelessly crooked angle, or ones with more "white space," than gravestone (NO need to crop ALL the white space out, and photos of entire family plots are the exception). Please do not add photographs of new graves in their entirety, with no grass growing on the freshly up-turned dirt. Please do not add photos of the temporary plastic grave markers placed by the funeral home, or photos of the gravestone, prior to inscribing of the DOD for new burials--if you do, please anticipate that I will request a removal when a photo of a fully inscribed gravestone has been posted. I spend a lot of time to make attractive, respectful memorials. Your help with that is appreciated.

Note: If the persons grave has no marker, please at least add a photo of the area where the grave is located.

5. MY PHOTOS, those of gravestones and cemeteries, may be used without my permission, EXCEPT on ancestry.com, or any site which requires an exchange of money. There is no need to give me credit and in fact, I would prefer that you don't. However, please do not post one of my original photos to a Find A Grave memorial yourself. Politely make a request and I will gladly add, if appropriate.

6. CAUSES OF DEATH are a matter of public record. If you are related to an individual who has a cause of death posted in their memorial, and you are disturbed by the posting of that cause, I will remove it, upon polite request.

7. I VOLUNTEER. As another member has noted on their profile, I'm not getting paid to do this. Nope, not a penny. I sometimes get behind in doing corrections, updates, etc. Your patience is appreciated. Please remember that edits take time, no one is entitled to my time, and demands are wholly unappreciated (please refer to point #2 above). If you can't wait, you may send the edit request to Find A Grave.

8. LIVING PEOPLE: Please don't add memorials for them, especially, if you haven't yet entered a memorial for YOURSELF. Not only is it against policy, but it's just a horrendous thing to do to someone, without their consent.

9. LIVE & LET LIVE. I am all for receiving and sending updates, corrections, etc. I appreciate notification when I have added a duplicate and will notify others of duplicates. Beyond that, I do not consider myself to be on the Find A Grave police squad, and neither should you. Please allow me to tend to the memorials I have entered. If I add something you don't like to a memorial you have entered, or to that of a family member's, please point it out to me POLITELY. Vague references to Find A Grave policies are not helpful in specific instances--I have entered hundreds of memorials and manage hundreds more. Above all, please remember that Find A Grave IS NOT REAL. The internet is NOT TANGIBLE. What does that mean? In the grand scheme of life, this is small stuff and could go "poof" in an instant.

10. To those who are all about the numbers: THERE IS NO END TO DEAD PEOPLE. Just because I might enter a memorial you wanted to enter, doesn't mean you can't enter one for someone else. There are plenty for all.

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In Honor of Our Fallen Brave . . .

In Flanders Fields, 1919, by John McCrae

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie,
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

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THANK YOU to everyone who sends info and corrections for memorials I have entered. Time does not permit me to thank everyone for each individual contribution, but please know that they are appreciated!

In case I have missed anyone, THANK YOU to the PHOTO VOLUNTEERS who have fulfilled my requests--much appreciated!

MANY THANKS to those MEMBERS who have entered memorials for members of my family and who have had the kindness to transfer them to me--you're the BEST!

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PRIVATELY OWNED CEMETERIES & PHOTOGRAPHY Privately owned cemeteries may regulate the taking of photographs by persons physically within the boundaries of the cemetery property. Please refer to the laws of the relevant state. More discussion may be perused here:
http://legalgenealogist.com/blog/2012/10/22/cemetery-photos-permission-required/ (Courtesy of Find A Grave Member Diehard, profile # 46809256)
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Finally, when I die, please no one euphemistically assert that I have "passed." It sounds so impolite, as though a catastrophic gastric feux pas has occurred, and won't fool anyone into thinking I have done something other than dropping DEAD. Geesh, we all do it, so I don't think it is taboo to say it. Furthermore, I shall haunt anyone designating my date of death as an "angel day," or similar nonsense. How presumptuous it would be for anyone, except God, to make such an assumption.

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Messages left for HJ (1124)[Leave Message]
john santa cruz
RE: Hi.
What do you mean, the site or the contributor? because I can't message Contributor #8.
Added by john santa cruz on Apr 27, 2016 6:43 AM
john santa cruz
RE: Hi.
She was only 34. I'm asking you again. Can you manage her memorial, please? She was family to me.
Added by john santa cruz on Apr 26, 2016 6:54 PM
john santa cruz
Hi.
Do you want my sister's memorial?
Added by john santa cruz on Apr 26, 2016 5:11 PM
Leland Bottomley
RE: Brookside Cemetery, Tonica, IL
Thanks for the reply.
Added by Leland Bottomley on Apr 26, 2016 4:16 PM
Leland Bottomley
RE: Brookside Cemetery, Tonica, IL
If You had Turn right on leaving Fairview and crossed the bridge and taken the first Street and than the first right on that street that Cemetery will be on the right at the stop sign. It was the first Cemetery and the one across the street the 2nd with Fairview the 3rd. FYI I have taken Pictures of all markers in Brookside and entered the legible one in Find A Grave. Should I continue taking Pictures in Fairview or are You working it?
If You come via 178 South as you go through Lowell take the first right and when you see Tonica turn left by the Village Building Brookside will be on the left by church.
Added by Leland Bottomley on Apr 26, 2016 11:17 AM
Kim & Virginia Vaught
re: Lettie Littlefield #37506249
Thank you for informing us about the duplicate memorial for Lettie. We appreciate you letting us know in such a pleasant way. We gladly deleted the duplicate. Thank you for your dedication to accuracy and details. You are very much appreciate. It is good to have a second set of eyes.
Kim & Virginia
Added by Kim & Virginia Vaught on Apr 25, 2016 9:12 PM
Kim & Virginia Vaught
re: Fred H Clark #37504334
Thank you for providing the information about Fred Clark. Your dedication is appreciated.
Added by Kim & Virginia Vaught on Apr 25, 2016 9:06 PM
Leland Bottomley
Etta Ebner
I noticed that You claimed the above Photo request in Fairview Tonica are you working that Cemetery?
If you are I have Photographed every Marker on the left side from entrance to storage building and the first section on the right. I did get Etta's Marker and She is located in the South East corner of of first section.
Added by Leland Bottomley on Apr 25, 2016 7:48 AM
John Sloan
Dimmicks in Deer Park Cemetery Ottawa IL
Thank you for trying. I was hoping they might have a stone. Probably buried with out one. Thanks again, John
Added by John Sloan on Apr 24, 2016 9:19 AM
IrishMcC
Alice Edwards Photo
Oh...also thanks for Alice Edwards photo request also.

Thanks again

Blake
Added by IrishMcC on Apr 23, 2016 2:32 AM
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