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Mary (#47037674)
 member for 8 years, 1 month, 22 days
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Bio Photo Please visit my great-nephew FAG #170268882 Aaron and his friend Beau FAG #170630145 who was recently murdered by being shot in the back and then put in a vehicle in a salvage yard and then the car was crushed by the murderer who had the only key to the crusher to hide his crime.

Albert Einstein~
Our death is not an end if we can live on in our children and the younger generation. For they are us, our bodies are only wilted leaves on the tree of life.

“To everything there is a season, a time for every matter under heaven, a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant and a time to pluck what has been planted; a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance; a time to keep and a time to cast away.”

My intentions are not to disrespect anyone living or deceased. Myself, like most people on FAG add information for personal reasons, genealogy purposes, and to preserve our past for future generations. I document your loved ones with respect, but if you want one removed or would like me to transfer memorial ownership to you, in order to add more information, please let me know, I will be happy to honor your request. My hope is to connect family with family and provide new information.

Sometimes there are mistakes in the cemetery records that we document, sometimes we make a typo mistake. It happens! I will correct my mistakes if you will let me know. FAG is like a big puzzle that we all work on together. If you do your part, the puzzle starts fitting together


I started on Find A Grave on a mission to find out information on my Grandmother(Dollie Coffer Apple)and her family, I am at the same place now that I started, but hopefully that will change one day. Along the way I hope to help create a historical recording of those who have passed, especially for those with nothing but their name written on a piece of paper somewhere noting their final resting place. Hopefully my effort will help with not letting them be lost forever.

THANK YOU to all of you for your many kind visits and messages. I so very much appreciate our wonderful family here at Find-a-Grave and every visit and token left at my family FAG sites! I would like to say very special "Thank You" to Patty Valentino. Patty makes many many visits to my family members and leaves some of the sweetest notes. It really makes my day to see she has made visits to family members.

Remember me as you pass by,
As you are so was I.
As I am you soon will be.
Prepare in Life for Eternity.


Time may hide our sadness like a smile can hide a tear, but memories last forever no matter how many years
When the tears start falling and you dont know what to do, Think of all the tender moments your Angel spent with you
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Julie A (Eskridge) Taylor
RE: Great Nephew
I sure will and I am so heart-broken to hear their story. This is so sad, Mary. Our Lord knows all, and he knows who did this treacherous murder, and to crush their bodies. He will answer to the one who really matters one day, and the Lord is the only one that really matters, as he holds our breath and our souls. I will visit them with sadness. Your friend/julie
Added by Julie A (Eskridge) Taylor on Sep 30, 2016 1:52 PM
RE: Great Nephew
Mary, How terrible. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope they get the guy who did it. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family and also your nephews friends family. Yes I will definitely visit the memorials.

((Hugs)) Melissa
Added by melissaღ on Sep 30, 2016 12:46 PM
Esther Kinder
RE: Great Nephew
Mary: I am so sorry for the loss of your great nephew and his friend. Such a terrible tragedy. I have left flowers and added them both to my birthday and angel day lists. Know that others care.
Added by Esther Kinder on Sep 30, 2016 12:04 PM
Mo Crawfish
Catching up
Hello cousin Mary,
To refresh your memory, I'm the daughter of your cousin Mary Nell. It's such sad, sad news about Aaron and his friend. I hope you're all bearing up as well as can be expected at such a sad and shocking time.

I was looking at a memorial for a John Scott in Oak Ridge Cemetery in Dardanelle and I noticed you had left flowers for him and a note that stated that he has no marker. His memorial is # 93493726. I'm trying to figure out if he's my 3rd great-grandfather. If so, he would be my grandmother Bonnie Smith Madison's great grandfather. Do you have any further information on this gentleman? It will be very surprising to me if you're also related to him - that would make us cousins not only through my Pa Buck but also through my MeMa!
Added by Mo Crawfish on Sep 29, 2016 9:46 AM
Forever Pop
So sweet
Very kind that you took the time to remember Pop on his angel day. I don't visit the site like I use to, but so remember and appreciate you Mary. God Bless, I hope you are doing well. Thank you so much. Your friend Carla
Added by Forever Pop on Sep 29, 2016 5:47 AM
D. Singleton Shell
your sorrow
Mary, I just saw your message. I'm so sorry. I couldn't find Aaron's memorial. I put Beau in my 'so sad' virtual cem. Such a tragedy.

My email and spam got ahead of me almost a year ago. A guy sent me around 40 edits at the time I was unable to sit at the computer very long. I didn't get them done and was off the computer after having back surgery. I started deleting a few at a time and found several messages from you tonight. I'm sooo sorry. I'll do my best to go through them, make edits, if they haven't already been made, and transfer any you want. I don't remember Sarah York Johnson's conversation but I'm anxious to get back to it. Again, I'm so sorry. My bad eyes need a rest now. Tomorrow! Darla
Added by D. Singleton Shell on Sep 27, 2016 9:33 PM
170268882 Aaron
Mary...I am so sorry for your newest grief - terrible things happen. God bless your family in this time of sorrow....Love~ Shirleen
Added by history4sure on Sep 25, 2016 10:31 PM
Kim Costantino
Thank you. Sincerely.
Added by Kim Costantino on Sep 22, 2016 6:24 AM
thank you
A special thank you for visiting my Papi, Cosimo on his Angel Day. I am so blessed to have such wonderful friends such as yourself through Find A Grave. I am truly honored that you left such a beautiful remembrance for him on his special day. Blessings to you and your family.

Your friend, Anna
Added by ANNA~💙 on Sep 21, 2016 3:57 PM
Patty Valentino
Thank You.....
...Mary for remembering Sgt. Manno on his Angel Day. Your visit was appreciated so very, very much. God Bless you and yours, and have a happy day.
Patty :)
Added by Patty Valentino on Sep 20, 2016 1:49 PM
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