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JARROTT P. COX (#46518980)
 member for 13 years, 10 months, 11 days
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Bio Photo Nov.2015

All photos submitted by me are copyrighted. No use of photos for personal use is given without prior consent. No use of photos for any other website is given W.O.P.C.

It is poor genealogical practice to allow others to use your information and photos with out credit why because they lose there source ,future researchers are robbed of that valuable resource and connection.

All sir name and first name edits sent by edit and not documented will be rejected.

Please do not leave transfer request on my public messaging, they will simply be deleted. Its your responsibility to do it threw the memorial.

Do not be deceived. God will not be made a fool. For a person will reap what he sows. Gla.6:7. Other words what you are dealing out good or bad will some day come back on you its the law of GOD.

Please remember my photos are embedded with a copyright. Request permission be for using any Head stone photos or cemetery photos. If I find them on another web site I will take action. None of my family portrait photo's are available for use at all.

Please be aware I take screen shots of search when creating a memorial(as proof they were there first) as many are moving them into cemetery after creating them in friends and family and claiming mine are duplicates.

I'm getting a great amount of conflicting edits every week major changes require a source.( other than I will reject conflicting edits. Head stone markers take priority. I'm getting nasty emails for adding incorrect info. but actually its the edits changing info.

This new edit system like many other things has got out of control at first it was only with contributors permission then they started automatic approval after so many days it is impossible to keep up and it is to time consuming, my memorial are getting to be a mess ,everyone else I know is complaining to.

Requests and Transfers Please see below in my bio:

I have been a genealogist for 49 years and feel we owe it to those who have passed to preserve there memory and tell there story. For most of my entry's here Iv walked the cemeteries rolls and have more photos then I will ever be able to add. I have a collection of 100,000 + obituaries in eastern Ks. and western Mo contained in binders and now put them on flash drives of witch number about 10000 + . Many have wondered were my source is so there you are. I am the author of several books on my family and I and my cousin are the keepers of the family archive directors of the family reunion and am passing it down to my daughter. Iv been to cemeteries in at least 35 states tracking down my ancestors.

Messaging is not the way to make request or changes to a memorial use the edit tab on the memorial please. As a link is sent and many changes can be be made with approval from edit tab.

No good deed goes unpunished. So true these days.

Fed up with the drama and hate on this site.

Everyone deserves respect.
Rude/demanding request will be reported and automatically rejected.

Sorry I have to sound so strict but the atmosphere on here now demands it.

On the other hand kindness and politeness will get pomp and priority attention.

If you need to contact me personally use my friend and mentors memorial.
Paul J. Lake

A great big thank you to the many hard working contributors & photographers we all owe you a great deal you are very much appreciated by me.

Quote from Jim Tipton Founder after Ancestry acquisition."It will still be wrong for someone to 'steal' a photo from Find A Grave and post it other websites as if it were their own".

Please do not leave transfer request on my public messaging they will simply be deleted. It is your responsibility to read transfer guide lines and to use the edit tab on memorial and state relationship if not stated request will not be considered.This is not a refusal it is your failure to follow Find A Grave guide lines.

Please include your member number. Also the public messages below are not intended to request suggestions or changes to a memorial because no link is generated to memorial when the edit tab on the memorial is used a link is sent so I know who you are talking about. Many new features are there also to actually add links and changes to a memorial with contributor approval.

It is not necessary to manage a memorial to add to it I am willing to add any information that is allowed & correct. The ultimate goal should be to have meaningful, accurate memorials that honor those who have passed away, regardless of who created the memorial or who maintains it. Virtual cemetery was created so family inveigles can be placed in them.

As many of my friends and I have noticed lately attacking and toxicity is now alarmingly on the increase dealing with this is not only stressful but time consuming and emotional & physically draining causing the following to be necessary.

If your message or email is rude,accusatory, bulling or harassing in any way it will be sent to find a grave. If it continues other steps will be taken.People attacking someone and hate mailing making false claims is unacceptable.

My advice is just troll along down the line,because one way or the other its going to stop life is to short to be harassed.

I've worked hard on this project for many long years as has many others members, I'm proud of my efforts ,any one says I'm in for the numbers is just sick or jealous or simply has a mean spirit.

Mistakes happen Find A Grave is a work in progress if you do not understand that you are WAY out of line.

Demeaning someone has no place anywhere.This does not mean you can not correct me, I make many mistakes and as long as your nice about it we will work together to fix them and move on.

As in the past most of you kind folks have done an exultant job.

Reporting A Duplicate. include the numbers of both and send it via edit on dup. memorial.If I duplicate a memorial, please know that it is unintentional as I check before posting.

The memorial pages I create are done so with the utmost respect as I try to always leave flowers and establish links.

I am now saving sir name searches before & after adding a memorial to a cemetery as proof it was the first entry, because many are using the non cemetery method and moving them in cemetery later.

Please use the edit tab and be very plain about your suggestion. I can not take an hour to figure out who and what you are talking about.

Marker transcription-- ONLY Marker transcription INFORMATION GOES HERE no other.

Confusing and non understandable request, I receive theses ever day please make them clear and don't assume I know who or what you are referring to.

No link no reply,I simply do not have the time.
Many edits I'm receiving are not correct, do the research do not assume. Due to this I'm going to start rejecting edits that are not sourced or do not match my information. I sorry but I'm tired of the misinformation I'm receiving.

Please do not use statements made here as ammunition to harass or bully as is the case anymore with some.
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Sandra McLoud
Martha Creveling Siegfred
I am descendant of Martha Creveling Siegfred Memorial # 140828531. I am looking for more information. Are you a relative?
Added by Sandra McLoud on Nov 27, 2015 12:31 PM
c white
Adell Adams
Thank u so much for posting the picture of my gran as headstone. I actually had given up on one being there. I am happy to know this is her because she always said 'read your bible daily. My mother, her first born daughter now is with her, as of July 2015...Louise Adams Deavens
Added by c white on Nov 23, 2015 1:06 AM
Diane L. Webb
"Lizzie" Seamster 25165983
Pressed the enter button to fast.
Thanks for your help.
Diane L. Webb
Trabuco Canyon, CA.
Added by Diane L. Webb on Nov 22, 2015 2:39 PM
Diane L. Webb
Lizzie Seamster #25165983
Hi Jarrott
It has benn a while since I worked on Stephen Sallee Seamster 1/w Minerva Jane Peak and 2/w Etta Mariah Pate. Stephen and Minerva Seamster were my husband Jake D. Webb's great grandparents.
I just got a picture of Stephen Sallee Seamster and 2nd wife Etta M. Pate Seamster and children and put it on their memorial sites in Find A Grave.
I have a correction/deletion I think you need to make. You have a daughter of their's: Lizzie Seamster died 25 Sep. 1883 age 8 years old
#25165983 who is Susan Elizabeth Seamster
#9560259. Would you mind deleting your Lizzie Seamster entry since it is a duplicate. I have asked the person that has the memorial site for Susan Elizabeth "Lizzie" Seamster to LINK to her parents Stephen Sallee Seamster and Mineva Jane Peak.
I have also made a correction edit on Susan site
because they had her name Seamster, Susan Elizabeth Seamster. They had her married to a Seamster. Which we know is wrong and ask them to correct.
Added by Diane L. Webb on Nov 22, 2015 2:37 PM
Roy Fredrick
RE: 110631199
Thanks, I will check them all out and see. I like your statement and agree with it 100%
"I have been a genealogist for 49 years and feel we owe it to those who have passed to preserve there memory and tell there story. "
Added by Roy Fredrick on Nov 20, 2015 7:17 AM
Dan Wesonig
Transferr 73941761 me Dan 48868503
I will you go ahead and transferred the memorial to me My Wife Marilyn Wesonig 73941761, Thanks
I am full time now, until I go see her.
Added by Dan Wesonig on Nov 18, 2015 12:19 AM
Leroy Coffman
Thank you for your time in taking and posting all the beautiful headstone photos on Find A Grave!!!! blessings, Betty
Added by Betty on Nov 14, 2015 6:47 AM
Pearce Family
Just wondering if you are related to the Pearce line?
Added by Stevi on Nov 13, 2015 9:03 AM
Joni Rabena
RE: Lyda Doak Snedler
Jarret, Sure, you can add that. You might want to also add that John Schnedler was the informant on Lydia's death record. Thanks, Jarret

Added by Joni Rabena on Nov 12, 2015 9:43 PM
Joni Rabena
Lyda Doak Snedler
Hi, Jarrott,

Hoping you can help me. I had contacted the DeepWood Cemetery years ago to find the gravesite for my great grandmother, Lydia Doak Lee Snedler; she died on May 29, 1918, in Vernon. They sent me an actual cemetery listing all of the gravesites.

I then contacted the caretaker at that time. He went out to the gravesite number on the listing that I had and told me there was no Lyda Doak Snedler buried where they said she was. He surmised she may have been a pauper and was buried in the pauper gravesite with no marker.

Has any new information came in about Lyda that you are aware of? Her death certificate no. is DC 19282. Her Find A Grave Memorial is 15658333.

Thanks for anything you can offer. I live in Calgary, Alberta, Canada, and we don't get down to that area often.

Joni Rabena
Added by Joni Rabena on Nov 12, 2015 1:21 PM
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