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Thebodells (#46497553)
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Bio Photo September 12, 2013, my best friend and reason for living had passed away, my Mother Vivian McLaughlin- McCarthy passed away so very suddenly and un-expectantly in my arms at home.

It was beyond a shock for me. But if I have anything to be grateful for to God is that I did not see her suffer or cringe in pain. I truly believe Angels came to take her. My mother was there to help bring me in this world and I was there for her to leave.

Like I tell my friends and coworkers, the only thing holding me up, is the fact that she passed so peacefully and we were together. I'm being the selfish spoiled brat of missing my mommy and I find myself walking around the house talking and hoping she could hear me.

Since her passing the weather has been beyond gorgeous and perfect for the first 3 weeks since she passed, perfect fall weather which was her favorite season. I love & miss my Mom and know she is finally reunited with her son, my brother John and with all her loved ones.

It was back in February 2004, I had lost my older brother only 39 years old John McCarthy,Jr (9/25/64 - 2/24/04) which was a major shock to our small family. You are always prepared to loose an elder but never think when someone dies young before their time, how much pain you feel and how hard it hurts.


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I have always had a facination with visiting graves and leaving flowers for abandon ones ever since I lost my grandfather when I was 5.

I would like to take this opportunity to Thank everyone who are so kind enough to leave flowers & messages for my Mother & Brother - It helps us tremendously. Thank you & God Bless***
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Esther Kinder
RE: Thank you for remembering John
It is always an honor for me to leave flowers for birthdays and angel days. No thanks are necessary. You have a wonderful day.
Added by Esther Kinder on Sep 28, 2014 11:44 AM
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Me
I forgot to remind you of Patricia's angel day. I got her a few flowers. I thought maybe you would like to visit your friend, if you haven't already. Think of you often. Much love and many hugs...
Added by Blessings *** on Jun 24, 2014 8:11 AM
Blessings ***
xoxoxo
Think of you often. You are still in my prayers. I hope you are doing much better....
Added by Blessings *** on Apr 10, 2014 4:07 AM
Beth.Bailey
Good-Morning...
I added this memorial last night for one of my best friends in the world who passed away on
14 Feb,2012 (#125185914)of cancer.Would you go visit her when you get a chance ?
Thank-you my friend :-)
~ Beth ~
Added by Beth.Bailey on Feb 16, 2014 10:37 AM
pat werthman deyoe radtke
Vincent Capodanno
http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=7018039
I see you added photos for him, and wondered if you are related and/or in charge of this memorial?

I ask, as there is an honorary memorial for him in Champion/formerly Robinsonville, Wisconsin and I am working on completing the cemetery inscriptions and entries for it. I live somewhat nearby, and have relatives buried there and nearby. I am unsure on the protocol for entering in those who are honored and buried elsewhere, and can alter or do whatever is most appropriate in situations like this.

Thank you for your assistance and all you have offered to this great resource and record keeping system for honoring life.

This is the link for what I have entered for him in Wisconsin.
http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GSvcid=446345&GRid=125197950&

Pat
Added by pat werthman deyoe radtke on Feb 15, 2014 9:15 PM
Beth.Bailey
Good-Morning...
Memorial # 122892285
This beautiful young lady & her family need's lots of hugs & love...can you help spread this request?
Thank-you my friend :-)

~ Beth ~
Added by Beth.Bailey on Feb 06, 2014 8:37 AM
Blessings ***
Many Thanks
Thank you so much for remembering my Mama on her Birthday. I appreciate it and it meant so much to me.
You are so special. God Bless.
Added by Blessings *** on Jan 25, 2014 10:39 AM
sofia vokolos-west
god bless
God bless you and your warm heart..
we pray for all our angels of God, escpecially our youngest ones, "Nixzmary"
be well and peace on earth to all
a friend,
Sofia
Added by sofia vokolos-west on Jan 09, 2014 10:27 AM
sofia vokolos-west
god bless
God bless you and your warm heart..
we pray for all our angels of God, escpecially our youngest ones, "Nixzmary"
be well and peace on earth to all
a friend,
Sofia
Added by sofia vokolos-west on Jan 09, 2014 10:26 AM
Sheila Nichelson
Happy Holidays
Praying that you and your family have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Hang in there sweetheart. I know the holidays are the most difficult to get through. Sending hugs and kisses your way.

Love,

Sheila L. Nichelson
Added by Sheila Nichelson on Dec 23, 2013 4:33 PM
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