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Dale (#48179900)
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Bio Photo Moved Back to Garland, Texas recently. Looking to find family.


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James
Good Morning
Hello My Friend,

Just to let you know about what action can be done about the unwanted, messages your family member keeps sending to your sister. The law starts very clearly about internet stalking, I have read some of the messages and have reported them myself. I have sent a link to you (www.haltabuse.org/resources/laws/texas.shtml) to inform you what can be done, posting her name and yours as well, violates the laws in Texas and sending this to Oklahoma (tribal territory) which has their own laws. It would be the same as if this man is calling her, sending her unwanted mail or driving by her home. Trying to imtimidate, harass or offend is in violation of the anti-stalking law. She could also report the abuse to his internet service provided. They could ban him for a period of time or all together cut his service off.

You told me she has made photos of all of the abuse, before he deletes it. Just because he deletes his messages the same day, Findagrave would still have access to them on their server and once you post any info( good or bad) to a public site, they still have copies of it. Apparently this individual is not aware of the laws, or just doesn't care. I would recommend her to do what she needs to do in this situation. Contact the proper authorites and they them she fears for her and her families safety.

Did you say he even sent a e-mail to your nephew, telling him to get even with someone? That should have been reported to the police immediately, you can't incourage someone to commit a crime. If she have photos of all of this then she would have a case.

You told me she has no contact with him, changing her phone number, blocking her e-mail, etc. Then she has done what she could do, but still if he continues, after recieving no response from her, it would state what thought patterns, actions, words, and behavior he has, is so reprehensibly sick. This stalker is not only heavily obsessed with her, and your family members, but is clearly unbalanced and out of control of his emotional feelings towards her. This man is not only completely deranged and delusional but may be extremely dangerous. I would tell her to call the police and at the least make them aware for her safety. So she can have something on file with them.

Call me and let me know if your would like me to get in touch with Ron, he has worked with these types of cases, and I know he would be happy to help, or direct you to a lawyer. No woman should put up with this abuse.

Wishing you and your family blessings.

James
Added by James on May 03, 2014 9:28 AM
maggyislove God bless you!! till we all meet again
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Added by maggyislove God bless you... on Aug 17, 2013 8:27 AM
Broken~♥~Heart
Hello.Dale.
Welcome to Find A Grave would like to be your friend. Allie From Tenn.
Added by Broken~♥~Heart on Jul 20, 2013 2:29 PM
 

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