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"When God sends forth a special living soul to learn the ways of the earth, an earthly mother's love is waiting; we call this wonder birth. When God calls home a loving earthly soul and stills a fleeting breath, a Heavenly Father's love is waiting; this too is birth, not death."
I am willing to transfer any memorials which are not my ancestors or relatives and will try to help anyone with information or research. I think it is important to identify persons, when possible, so we can know who they are and who their families are, for historical and personal reasons.
Sixty seven years ago I started looking for lost graves as Grandma sent me, at age 8, to find "the indention by the pine tree, near great great grandpa's headstone" so she could place flowers where a baby was buried in 1869 with no "marker". From her, I learned to look for that tiny "frosted" spot when the night before had been chilly (the ground is still warmer at a burial site which has no vault, even after 100's of years!)
I first knew grief when Grandma died, 60 years ago. To honor her, I began genealogy research from her precious family records. Fifty five years ago the death of my young first husband, at the hands of robbers, nearly caused the loss of my first unborn child. Years later, a miscarriage took another son and now, for the past 31 years, we have also grieved for our youngest son, lost to a freak accident. Brad
Writing personal histories has been a passion for over 40 years, since I found my relationship to Mormon Battalion soldiers and an early U.S. President.
Being an unpaid cemetery sexton for the past 25 years has required mapping and recording (handwritten) of over 3,000 birth & death locations and overseeing burials and settings of gravestones for some 950 persons. During this time, the birth and death records from 1854 at one cemetery and from 1869 to date, at another, were located and recorded; exact grave locations had never been written down for 155 years! I'm still hand drawing family lot maps for the latter cemetery for all owners.
For over 30 years, I have composed poetry and short stories about loved ones' passing, both for my own and others.
So, am I a "graver" ?, a "griever", a "genealogist", a "historian", a "sexton", a "poet" or just kind of "nutty"?? (We ALL could have, instead of this, been lounging on "sum beach sum where", ya know!)
Anyway, I feel sad when an unkind remark is posted, or it is stated that Find a Grave was designed for one purpose and that "newcomers", who want to use it for genealogy, or some other reason than it was originally intended, should go elsewhere. I hope it is intended to help us all find burial locations, which should include photos, dates, and family links, if possible for proper identification.
Short bios also help identify specific individuals and search data sources can help us verify the positive location. That is why I believe that a gravestone, with poor or misinterpreted information, should be supplemented with the best historical facts available, if possible. After all, it is Find a Grave, not "Find a Stone". Sometimes, nothing else is available, but that is a sad case; unknown, with unknown dates does not tell us much, especially when there is no stone or it is illegible.
I hope to help & will gladly transfer, edit, delete or correct anything I contribute; I'm slow, but I'm OLD, please have patience!
Suprise! Thanks so much to Renee for the Sponsorship of Our Sweet Rose...what an honor to be cared for by such a dedicated animal lover.
I am grateful AGAIN to Love Always, Renee for the sponsorship of my beloved Daddy - what a generous contributor she is...check out her loving memorials!
PLEASE NOTE: Check the top center of your profile page - if an "edit" tab is there - you need to click on it and check to approve or reject any edits that may have been sent to you - only a few email "edit" notices are coming from fag since this new feature was added.
Sorry, I have to laugh.... recently seen on a gravestone, (wife's, Jo Ann's stone) "DO NOT STAND AT MY GRAVE AND CRY, I AM NOT HERE, I DID NOT DIE" ...alongside on the husband's stone, "JO ANN - IF WE DID NOT DIE, WHAT ARE WE DOING HERE?".... [ I SAID I'm sorry! ]
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|Nancy Berntson||RE: Mary Evalee McBride Fackrell Paxman|
Not a problem at all I can add the other name to the bio, that is not a problem. Thank you for the information.
|Nancy Berntson||Mary Evalee McBride Fackrell Paxman|
I made the changes and added your note to the site, but was wondering if you would you like me to transfer her site to your care?
You are very welcome. We all get busy and life comes at you fast. Hope you will be feeling better soon.
|Valenciaღ Asiaღ Angel of Mine💕||Shirleen,|
No need for thanks are ever needed. Hope you are feeling better. Take care of yourself
Much love and hugs, Yo
|Patty Valentino||Thank You Shirleen.....|
.....lololol....that was a good one, I love it.... :) ... I hope many beautiful girls ARE blowing kisses to both Brad and Sgt. Manno.
You absolutely made my day...
Enjoy your Sunday, and have a great week.
With Love and Blessings,
|Rosie||RE: Thanks so much....|
Always a pleasure to visit Brad, you never have to thank me for that.
Hope you are feeling better soon Shirleen, take care - wishing you a good week.
With Love, Rosie-
Added by Rosie on Jul 17, 2016 11:06 AM
No Thanks are needed, hope you get to feeling better soon
Added by Mary on Jul 16, 2016 11:01 PM
|Laurie||Joseph Twive Gould|
Memorial 69549816 has been transferred to you to make corrections and manage.
Added by Laurie on Jul 13, 2016 10:10 PM
|Linda||Baby Birch photo|
Hi! It sure was fun to find this cool little cemetery. We have relatives in the Wanship Cemetery nearby.
We are going to the Rockport reservoir in about two weeks and I'll get a closeup of the inscription. Take care
Added by Linda on Jul 13, 2016 4:38 PM
|Love Always, Renee||RE: God Bless....|
Hi, so great to see you here visiting again. I have to take breaks from here also. I cry so much for people I don't even know, and still cry often for missing my best friend, Sandy, my Dad and my dogs.
Be careful on this website. I can't stay on for long periods of time because I have been getting virus warning and just log off fast. This has happened before a Find A Grave took care if it in a week.
I am blessed to sponsor so many memorials and it makes me feel helpful to support this free website.
Stay cool and don't work too hard. So hot here, I can't even take my dogs for a walk. XoXo
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