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Melissa Strobel (#47687800)
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Bio Photo I blame my mother for this.

When I was a young girl, my mother was our girl scout troop leader. One of our projects was to learn how to read headstones in a local cemetery. Not only did she get my hooked on genealogy, but I've harbored this love affair with cemeteries ever since.

During my teen years my best friend's house was right next to a cemetery, and take a wild stab at where we spent a lot of time? But I loved those places, and that was where I would go to think things through, or just to have some time to myself. Fortunately I had a boyfriend (now my husband) who was amazingly tolerant of my odd interests, and eventually started to share them. He can read a stone when others would have given it up long before.

I am now a historian by training, and an archivist by profession. When I first found Find A Grave it was in its early years and I didn't have a lot of use for a site that just did "famous" gravesites. During a research stretch I discovered it again, and it appealed to me on several levels. This site seems to solve several "problems" that I've had over the years, mostly involving indexing, photographing and presenting in some coherent fashion graves of one sort or another for one purpose or another. I've enjoyed my stay so far.

My philosophy with this project is: everyone deserves to be remembered. From the oldest to the youngest, the greatest to least. All deserve to have a memorial. I tend to focus on damaged and eroded gravestones, and cemeteries that appear to be "at risk". Generally that means (to me) the places and stones that are quickly eroding, have taken undue amounts of damage due to the environment or vandalism, or are neglected in some other way. Given my background and specialization in early regional history up to the Civil War period, these tend to be what catch my eye as well.

Having said that I'm like a sugared-up kid in a candy store armed with a camera and a notebook when presented with a cemetery of any form. It keeps me out of trouble. Usually.
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Antonia Demaris Collins
RE: Rebecca Weaver
Your're so welcome. Thanks for all you do on Find A Grave. Take care, TONI
Added by Antonia Demaris Collins on Jun 14, 2016 4:38 PM
L. Suzanne Kellerman
Frederick Kellerman, Sr

Was greatly surprised at what you had found out about Frederick Kellerman, Sr. Especially his military services as a member of the Specht-Brunswick regiment. Can you search your references with me? Thank YOU. Sue Kellerman
Added by L. Suzanne Kellerman on Apr 05, 2016 3:19 PM
Sandra McLoud
Your post for William Maiers #118731014. The parents died before the children were born? Could these be grandchildren? If so who are the parents?
Added by Sandra McLoud on Mar 22, 2016 9:52 AM
Rachel Gillooly
Jane Kiser
Jane Kiser buried in Pennsylvania do you know if she was married to a Seaborn Abbott at on time. I am working on my moms fathers Abbott Family Tree and trying to find connections. Thanks.
Added by Rachel Gillooly on Mar 01, 2016 11:22 PM
Frank Marsh FAG # 118083193
I sent you an edit for Frank Marsh's parents. His parents Joseph # 129234610 & Mary Ann Mascia # 129234611. Their names are different because somewhere along the line they have changed it many times. Some of the sons kept Mascia, one has Marsh & some use to have Mush. This is my husband's uncle & grand parents. My husbands father was Anthony Wilbur Mascia who is all ready connected to Joseph & Mary Ann. I just wanted to let you know in case you were thinking the edit was wrong because of the different name. Thank You.
Added by NJMascia on Feb 16, 2016 11:06 AM
gene digger
Spahn edits
Thank you for processing the edits for Clair Spahn.
Added by gene digger on Jan 08, 2016 9:57 PM
J Leazenby
Thank you SO MUCH for adding the info to the Vince's memorials. I really appreciate all the work you've done :)
Added by J Leazenby on Dec 04, 2015 4:05 PM
RE: Dates
OK Thanks. Happy Holidays
Added by Franny on Dec 01, 2015 10:18 AM
RE: Amos Baird
Thanks. If you can post that then we have proof.
Added by Franny on Nov 20, 2015 9:04 AM
Kim and JM Talboo
Kline transfers
Thanks so much for the Kline memorial transfers. This will make it so much easier for us to get the family members linked.

Added by Kim and JM Talboo on Nov 12, 2015 8:52 AM
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