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Kathy (McPhaul) Cather (#46821758)
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Bio Photo May 2011
Thank you again to all who continue to visit my angel momma and other memorials. Your thoughtfulness is always appreciated.

If you have time, this Memorial Day, please visit my step son's Fallen Battalion Brothers of the 3/25th Marines who lost their lives in Iraq in 2005. (Virtual Cemetery 10) My step son is being re-deployed this summer. Please keep him in your prayers.

May each of you be abundantly blessed!! XOXO


~~ Dear Ancestor ~~
Your tombstone stands among the rest, neglected and alone.
The name and date are chiseled out on polished, marbled stone.
It reaches out to all who care; it is too late to mourn.
You did not know that I exist; You died, and I was born.
Yet each of us are cells of you: in flesh, in blood, in bone.
Our blood contracts and beats a pulse entirely not our own.
Dear Ancestor, the place you filled one hundred years ago
Spreads out among the ones you left who would have loved you so.
I wonder if you lived and loved,
I wonder if you knew
That someday I would find this spot,
And come to visit you.

--Author Unknown


1 Dec 2009: Posted a Memorial for my friend and well known Paralympian, RANDY SNOW. Please pay him a visit if you have the time and keep his family in your prayers. Thank you!!

June 17...Posted my mom's pics. They look AWSOME!!!..Unfortunately had to delete some of her paintings...:-(

June 8, 2009

Thank you so very much for taking so much time to share your insights with me. FindAGrave is a TRUE Godsend!!!! and it is people like you, who reach out to complete strangers, that make it that way!!

Currently researching ALL McPHAULs, CATHERs and FITZWILLIAMs (regardless of Ancestry, Line, Race, Religion, Etc. ) and their descendants. Would LOVE to hear from you!
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Messages left for Kathy (McPhaul)... (707)[Leave Message]
Gone Gravin ♥
RE: John and Nora O'Neill
You are welcome! It was about 35 degrees after a couple of weeks of really nasty cold so I loved being out! Glad they suited you!
Added by Gone Gravin ♥ on Jan 18, 2015 5:55 PM
RE: William Francis Minkowski
You're welcome, Kathy. Hope you like the photo.

Added by Bernadette on Jan 16, 2015 8:29 PM
God bless
Very sorry for the mis spell
Added by Johnny on Jan 11, 2015 3:22 PM
Thank you
Hello again Kathy,
Thank you for the kind words. It means a lot. Gof bless .

Added by Johnny on Jan 11, 2015 3:19 PM
Clara McPhaul Northcutt
Hello Kathy,
Thank you for the catch. I did a search for Northcutt and there wasn't one so i created the memorial. I deleted my entry. Thank you.

Added by Johnny on Jan 11, 2015 9:40 AM
John Wilhite
RE: Marilyn McPhaul!!
You are very welcome. Glad they had not picked up the wreaths. John
Added by John Wilhite on Jan 09, 2015 9:03 AM
John Wilhite
Sorry I did not see the details of the request. I don't remember if there was a wreath or not. Some did have them but tomorrow is the day they will be removed. It may be too late for me to find out but I will check and photograph it and upload the picture. Sorry about the mix up.
Added by John Wilhite on Jan 07, 2015 11:14 PM
Eva Williams
Duplicate has been removed. Thank you.
Added by Hochi on Dec 27, 2014 5:24 PM
RE: Email?

I was hacked. They really did a number on me. I had to get a new e-mail address and they deleted all my contacts in my address book. Odd is I only use this account for genealogy and my college work and church stuff, so I know my contacts. I think I was infected by accident but by someone I know.
Added by Dixie on Dec 23, 2014 9:23 PM
Dave & dee
Margaret McPhaul
Kathy, when we did the memorials for this location we did not know if anyone other than the church members would know about them. We are so glad that we played a small part in your finding the final resting place of your relative. Absolutely, feel free to use the photo, we love to share. If you have any info you want added or any pics please contact us. Happy Holidays!
Added by Dave & dee on Dec 21, 2014 12:57 PM
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