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K Perry (#47324459)
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"The Chosen"
We are the chosen. In each family, there is one who seems called to find the ancestors. To put flesh on their bones and make them live again. To tell the story and to feel that somehow they know and approve. Doing genealogy is not a cold gathering of facts but, instead, breathing life into all who have gone before. We are the storytellers of the tribe. All tribes have one. We have been called, as it were, by our genes. Those who have gone before cry out to us: "Tell our story". So, we do. In finding them, we somehow find ourselves. How many graves have I stood before now and cried? I have lost count. How many times have I told the ancestors, "You have a wonderful family; you would be proud of us".
How many times have I walked up to a grave and felt somehow there was love there for me. I cannot say. It goes beyond just documenting facts. It goes to who I am, and why I do the things I do. It goes to seeing a cemetery about to be lost forever to weeds and indifference and saying - I can't let this happen. The bones here are the bones of my bones, and the flesh of my flesh. It goes to doing something about it.
It goes to pride in what our ancestors were able to accomplish. How they contributed to what we are today. It goes to respecting their hardships and losses, their never giving in or giving up, their resoluteness to go on and build a life for their family. It goes to deep pride that the fathers fought and some died to make and keep us a nation. It goes to a deep and immense undertanding that they were doing it for us. It is of equal pride and love that our mothers struggled to give us birth, without them we could not exist, and so we love each one, as far back as we can reach. That we might be born.
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Amelia Ludlam
I cannot answer your questions as I no longer live close enough to go finger read the stone.It does say she is the wife of Christopher, the date of death is 12/6/1874. Somebody else used one of those programs to calculate the date of birth from the years months days, those programs are unreliable, which is why I noted the birth date was from a member.
Added by Kat on Aug 12, 2015 1:00 PM
Brenda Oathout
RE: Victor Van Middlesworth

If you find the grave on the interment list, I would be happy to go there and take a picture. The cemetery is only 15-20 minutes away.

I checked under Middlesworth (only Eliza listed) and Van Middlesorth and could not find him.

If you find him, let me know and I'll get the pic for you.


PS: You can send an email to the cemetery and they will respond. Use the contact us section on the link above.
Added by Brenda Oathout on Aug 02, 2015 12:29 PM
Barbara Morin
RE: Trying to find a way to contact Northern Neighbors
Having the same problem myself sorry I can't be of help.
Added by Barbara Morin on Jul 26, 2015 6:01 AM
Jeffrey James
Is the K Perry page Inactive? Sent you the 1880 article
I sent you the 1880 article that you asked for, but I don't know if you received it. I hope it helps, if you did receive.
Added by Jeffrey James on Jul 26, 2015 4:41 AM
Marie Bonafonte
Lawrence & Armine Mead (Sleepy Hollow Cemetery)
I finally was able to take cemetery photos of both - sorry it took so long.
Added by Marie Bonafonte on Jul 19, 2015 11:55 AM
Northern Neighbors
births for Thomas, Mary and Alpheus - edits sent by Chris Chapman
You will need to consult with that member if you are seeking primary source info.

Adding biographical info in flowers is against F.A.G. rules. The information should be sent as edits to memorial managers for update. Thanks

I hope the member who sent the edits can point you in the right direction. Good luck!

Added by Northern Neighbors on Jun 21, 2015 10:03 PM
Marie Bonafonte
Elizabeth Smith
I transferred yesterday her record to you so you now have ownership. I can't add anything to her memorial. Marie
Added by Marie Bonafonte on Jun 05, 2015 7:14 AM
Marie Bonafonte
Theodore Hoe Mead
Your request regarding info about birth year has been added.
Added by Marie Bonafonte on May 30, 2015 12:17 PM
Marie Bonafonte
RE: Anna Rebecca (Johnson) Mead 1839-1927 Sleepy Hollow Cemetery
I sent you email message - just let me know you got it and you are all set.
Added by Marie Bonafonte on May 30, 2015 12:09 PM
Taylor Made
RE: Eliza Thoma connected to David N Thomas
Thank for the extra info on Eliza. I type so fast that sometimes I miss a letter or the computer doesn't keep up with me.
Added by Taylor Made on Apr 28, 2015 6:26 AM
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