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My Yellow Butterfly (#47641229)
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Bio Photo I am wearing a pair of shoes. They are ugly shoes. Uncomfortable shoes. I hate my shoes. Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair. Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another step. Yet, I continue to wear them. I get funny looks wearing these shoes. They are looks of sympathy. I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and not theirs. They never talk about my shoes. To learn how awful my shoes are might make them uncomfortable. To truly understand these shoes you must walk in them. But, once you put them on, you can never take them off. I now realize that I am not the only one who wears these shoes. There are many pairs in this world. Some woman are like me and ache daily as they try and walk in them. Some have learned how to walk in them so they don't hurt quite as much. Some have worn the shoes so long that days will go by before they think about how much they hurt. No woman deserves to wear these shoes. Yet, because of these shoes I am a stronger woman. These shoes have given me the strength to face anything. They have made me who I am. I will forever walk in the shoes of a woman who has lost a child.

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Jim Gibbons
Peggy Sansonetti

May the spirit of the Easter Season shine on you and your family! Thank you so much for paying your respects to little Peggy!
Added by Jim Gibbons on Apr 05, 2015 10:34 AM
Merry Christmas
I wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and a happy and healthy new year. Thank you with all my heart for visiting my loved ones.
With kindest regards, Monika

~ The message of Christmas: There is no greater power than love.
It overcomes hatred. How to the light of the darkness. ~
Added by Monika♥ on Dec 22, 2014 1:21 AM
Thank you for visiting the memorial of my beloved Dad. A big hug from Italy. Mario.
Added by ITALY64 on Nov 28, 2014 8:51 AM
Valenciaღ Asiaღ Angel of Mine💕
So thoughtful.....

For lighting a candle for our loved ones, I tearfully thank you

~ National Remembrance of Murder Victims. You are a kind soul with a beautiful heart, my friend. God bless

Hugs, Yo

Added by Valenciaღ Asiaư... on Sep 25, 2014 5:27 PM
denise clark
Thank you
Thank you for visiting my brother, Jeff Fleck's page. I am so grateful for people like you that visit him. May God be with you always my friend.
Added by denise clark on Jul 28, 2014 7:54 PM
Valenciaღ Asiaღ Angel of Mine💕
Darko's Mom

Came across this and I thought of you and so many others, hope you don't mind me sharing the poem with you ~ Yo

A Few After.....

A few minutes after his birth.....
I could hear his announcing scream.
I couldn't believe he was finally here,
The realization of my dream.

A few hours after his birth.....
I held him so close to my chest.
Somehow that little boy let me see,
A special love that never left.

A few days after his birth.....
I held his tiny little hand.
I told him there would be lots of things
That I would help him to understand.

A few weeks after his birth.....
He had that sparkle in his eyes,
And when he showed me that little smile,
I thought that I would surely die.

A few months after his birth.....
He was just beginning to learn.
He didn't like me to go away,
And he cried until I returned.

A few years after his birth......
I still couldn't believe he was mine.
We talked and laughed and went for walks.
We had so many special times..

A few after.....

A few minutes after his death.....
I didn't know I needed to scream.
I thought that he was still safe and here...
I didn't know the truth of my dream.

A few hours after his death.....
I felt a strangeness within my chest.
Something was wrong that I couldn't see.
God! I didn't know that he had left.

A few days after his death.....
I held his cold and lifeless hand.
There were just so very many things
That I could not fully understand.

A few weeks after his death.....
That sparkle stolen from my eyes,
No longer to see his beautiful smile.
I never, ever thought that he would die.

A few months after his death.....
There was so much I needed to learn.
I was confused when he went away,
And I still waited for his return.

A few years after his death.....
I still wish that he could be mine,
To talk and laugh and go for walks.
I miss those special moments in time.

A few after.....

A few minutes after MY death......
Once again I will hear him scream,
"Hey Mom, it's me, I'm over here,
And Mom, this time it's not a dream."

A few hours after MY death.......
I'll hold him close again to my chest.
He'll look at me and say... "Now see?",
It doesn't seem so long since I left."

A few days after MY death.....
He will gently take me by the hand,
And show me all the glorious things,
And help me to understand.

A few weeks after MY death.....
I'll see that sparkle in his eyes.
Once again he'll warm me with his smile,
And say... "You see, Mom, I didn't die".

A few months after MY death.......
Together we'll have so much to learn.
We'll never have to go away,
Or long for each other's return.

A few years after MY death.....
Forever he will always be mine.
We'll talk and laugh and go for long walks,
Because we'll have nothing...... but time.
~ by Christine Ross

Added by Valenciaღ Asiaư... on May 18, 2014 5:40 AM

ღ Pгєci۵υѕ Mєm۵гiєѕ ღ

...Thinking of you and your wonderful son on his birthday, wanting you to know my prayers are with you and your family. He will comfort your heartღ.


Added by SSBJ💔 on Nov 13, 2012 4:41 PM
Who Art In Heaven
your generosity and lovely gifts to my husband's memorial are precious and valued. thankyou for your gift and for being a good friend. c.
Added by Who Art In Heaven on Jul 01, 2012 3:30 AM
Florida Boy 64
Michigan state connection
Could you please visit my friend Cynthia gillig (82230731) When she was a freshman legendary football coach Duffy daugherty (24817256) coached his last season. I would apperciate it. You need a favor please let me know.
Added by Florida Boy 64 on May 17, 2012 12:27 PM
Valenciaღ Asiaღ Angel of Mine💕
sorry for some of the typos....too early in the morn for me


Added by Valenciaღ Asiaư... on Apr 13, 2012 7:42 AM
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