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CryptoGrammy (#46897564)
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Bio Photo Grief never ends,
but it changes.
It is a passage,
not a place to stay.
Grief is not a sign of
weakness or lack of faith...
it is the price of love.

I don't make more than a couple memorials a day on average, but have done research into the families of lots of them...same for many whose pictures I post...making me gladly able to help with most anyone's ancestral brick walls however I can.

While Google-ing along roads we biked over 50 years ago, I've noticed some homes, buildings, and even streets in my elementary school neighborhood missing while others are basically unchanged...made me think I should keep add/linking together those families I grew up with...sure wish my home-town newspaper archives were online so I could find the details of a murder that involved the Green Wing Grocery!

Obviously FindAGrave is like any other pyramid-type as the membership increases, memorials and pictures left to be added decrease. There are already over 125,000,000 memorials; so considering that half the people who ever lived on Planet Earth are living now, and that it's unknown where over 90% of the dead many does that leave? -LOL and go figure.

The picture "request" function started around mid-2007, and pix were limited in size to 250K: a comparatively tiny 1/32 of 8M now allowed; at first there was only one guy and me taking pix in Arlington National (all that white granite for matching military markers comes from Vermont...not China :^), and there weren't many requests, so you can see how membership and contributions have exploded! I've had to tell my eager grandboy that there will probably be little picture-taking left to do when another seven years pass, just always recent deaths to add.

Fodder is running lower, but there are still helpful and personally-rewarding "angel" tasks to be done...2015 is bringing FaG-ers the ability to upload pic from onsite, and then others to help with the transcriptions.

ANY information on privately-owned and defunct burial places is still ALWAYS appreciated by those seeking the trails of their ancestors...are they still there lying unmarked and disrespected? Were they moved elsewhere? Are they near other family and/or friends? I was gladly able to do this for the cemetery nearest to me in kidhood that I never knew about way back then ~ when I held my breath in passing cemeteries ~ as it was already defunct...altho' one of my brothers once found a toppled headstone while bike-riding (him, not the headstone) dirt roads there.

Those who are willing & able: little burial grounds usually need cleaning and repairs; but don't go alone, and be careful ~ I myself have encountered snakes and Black Widow spiders...and been told creepy tales about the LIVING I might encounter. Which reminds me I did visit one cemetery that had a homeless? person living in it...not there, but I didn't want to bother his? belongings.

You many kind, prolific contributors might try adding people from their death records found online...including where you got the data from and that they probably have no marker so the living don't get false hope for a picture.

Other Less-Important Stuff:

Some might think others of us are too possessive about pictures we take and post, but you probably haven't encountered a self-aggrandizer who deletes memorials after lifting the pictures others added to them then remakes the memorials with same pictures claimed as their own. It takes just one wormy rotten apple ~ plus a few manipulators, stalkers, and egotistical game players (especially the ones who post wrong pictures on purpose and/or put burials/cremations willy-nilly into incorrect cemeteries just to inflate their "contributions" and then get upset when other people notice the obvious, duh) ~ to require rules for the rest of us in the barrel.

COMMENTS ON MESSAGES TO ME ABOUT COPYRIGHT ISSUES, INCLUDING FindAGrave's OWN rules and regulations, found here ~ FindAGrave FAQs ~ which admonish, among else: >>The copyright of all photos posted to Find A Grave remains with the original submitter. No use of photos for any other website or personal use is given without prior consent of the original submitter.<<

You can use pictures I've taken and posted on this site in your online family trees by making a connective link to the original and/or including " FindAGrave member #46897564"; none may be sold and/or exchanged for any type of payment.

I found including biographies & obits helpful, but they are against site rules unless I/you own the copyrights so do not ask me to add any to memorials unless you can include ownership assurance.

My Reasons for Being on FindAGrave:

I oversaw the newsletter of Colonel David Hackworth, military author/ commentator/ columnist with 8 Purple Hearts, for several years until he died from the effects of Agent Blue (used along with Agent Orange in Vietnam) while my husband was off in a war zone; at which time I needed a new focus and determined to pin-point our then-totally-unknown ancestors: at least 28 Revolutionary War Patriots, his Mayflower and Salem "witch" ancestors, my Swedish "hanky-panky in the palace" & Scottish Robert the Bruce people...and many *ships who pass in the night* ~ then sometimes remain friends ~ who have been great fun, challenges, and blessings to find.

So, at the onset in 2005, I was first able to find basic facts of the missing Major James Powell, and began a two-year mission to restore his legacy which was lost upon his death at Shiloh 145 years ago today as I write this 06APRIL2007. This long walk, still being shared with both living and non-bodied souls, is what educated me in how to usually quite rapidly find pertinent data for you "strangers," which I still remain happily willing to do!

My biggest peeve in research was seeing my favorite greatgrandmother constantly referred to as "Mrs. G.: husband's first initial and married name" ~ most ALL females losing their identities up into the 1960s; so I'm elated whenever I successfully work the puzzles ~ better than word math, sudoku, or cryptograms ~ of finding and posting ladies' maiden names as the most appropriate and long-lasting FLOWERS to their memories, and alas, I still have just ONE nee name in my own Heck(ofA)family to dig up. May all of Granny Vance's roses perpetually bloom bright and happy!🍹

The book of life is brief,
And once the pages read
All but love is dead:
That is my belief.
(Bobby Goldsboro, 1960s)

God is Love.
(1 John 4:8)
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Georgiana Kuykendall
Thank you so much for photographing the marker at the grave of my Great Grandmother. I really appreciate it.
Added by Family Historian on Apr 12, 2015 5:24 PM
Linda Albrecht Maret and Gary A Maret
flora baca
I got the picture of the family plot. Thanks so much. At least we have some information on her. Thanks again. Linda Maret
Added by Linda Albrecht Maret and ... on Apr 07, 2015 5:41 PM
RE: VirginiaLowery/Albuquerque
Thank you very much for taking the photos. Too bad there are no markers but that's the way these things go. Thanks for making the effort and for the transferring of Velma Lowery's memorial to me.

Thanks again!

Karen Hugo
Added by KH on Apr 05, 2015 4:48 PM
Nathan Foulds
Decker Photographs
Thank you so much for taking time to photograph my relatives resting place. It is greatly appreciated. If you need anything in northern New Jersey, reach out to me. Thanks again, Nate.
Added by Nathan Foulds on Apr 03, 2015 8:31 AM
John G. Hall
RE: Memorial# 16463635
Thank you for all you do! They'd be proud of you!

Added by John G. Hall on Apr 03, 2015 7:45 AM
Cherokee Rose
David Wells McCarty
Thanks so much for adding the grave photo for David Wells McCarty -- it's perfect! Marlene
Added by Cherokee Rose on Apr 02, 2015 6:06 PM
Jefferey David Johnson
Thank you so much for the photo of this headstone. It is the brother of my brother-in-law and he couldn't remember where he was buried.

Theresa Johnson
Added by TJohnson on Apr 02, 2015 5:15 PM
Bruce Wertz
George H. Perea 1888-1912
You sent me a findagrave message that Indicated tha
George H. Perea was killed in Pennsylvania in 1912.

Do you know the circumstances of the death or where
I can find the information.

Thank you
Added by Bruce Wertz on Mar 31, 2015 10:00 AM
Bruce Wertz
The Perea's
Thank you for the information about the Perea family
Added by Bruce Wertz on Mar 30, 2015 10:07 AM
Greg Volk
Thanks for the photo of the Westerfields
Wow! You are a real Find A Grave producer. Thanks for all you do.
Added by Greg Volk on Mar 29, 2015 3:31 PM
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