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BHayw (#47847309)
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Kathy McNamara
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RE: Suggestion for Wiley Hilbinger
Excellent! Will add now. :)

And thanks for the kind words. I wish I had more time to do more in this area. I started as a favor to someone who lived out of state, as those that have done favors for me, as my ancestors are out of state also. Unfortunately life has gotten in the way of my hobby and I don't have much time to do it anymore.
Added by laelliott on Jul 07, 2015 7:13 PM
RE: Suggestion for Wiley Hilbinger
Yes, many people copy and paste obits on the site, too many for the admins to keep up with, unless someone actually points them out or makes a complaint. So it's an ongoing problem. I actually do not know Wiley, just transcribed the entire cemetery years ago. I will keep the information and re-write at a later date when I have more free time. Thanks!
Added by laelliott on Jul 07, 2015 3:43 PM
Suggestion for Wiley Hilbinger
Sorry for the delay in getting back to you. Per Find A Grave guidelines, obituaries are not allowed unless you have permission to post, and should not include individuals that are still living (without permission). A lot of debate has gone on about this guideline, but as it stands, I do my best to follow the guidelines, whether I agree with them or not. If you care to re-write the obit, in your own words, I will gladly add it to the memorial.
Thanks so much for your understanding.

Take care,
Added by laelliott on Jul 07, 2015 12:08 PM
RE: Mary W. Jester
Thank you for your help. We thought that couple at Trinity (that's what I meant (ignorantly) when I said East New Market; sorry about that) were ours but they're not. We even have an obituary for her. They are the same names and were contemporaries but in our case the wife died first (which we can prove, thanks to you) and the husband is in Delaware in 1900 (not found buried anywhere yet; my guess is Cambridge). I don't know that any of the others belong to us either, but thank you for your offer.
If Mary belongs to the family we think, she has a brother at Cambridge, buried with his wife and 2 daughters, all on one upright stone. He has a brother who owned a large plot at Hurlock which is almost completely bare except for corner posts but it is known that there are burials. It may be that Mary has unmarked family around her.
Would you mind changing her photo caption to 54?
I looked for your other address but this works.
Your work is appreciated.
Added by Anonymous on Mar 13, 2014 3:24 PM
RE: Mary W. Jester
Thanks again. If you decide the 4 is correct, will you change the caption transcription? You've been a great help, especially as it doesn't appear likely that I will find the husband or any of the 9 known children. This should help because some people have a couple buried at East New Market as these people so there are wider results.
Added by Anonymous on Mar 08, 2014 9:05 PM
Anna B. Jones
Thank you so much for that picture and also the inscription reading.
Added by Anonymous on Feb 22, 2014 10:44 PM
RE: Arthur & Sophia Brede
You may use the pictures anyway you wish, and credit is not necessary. I am not managing their memorials so you will have to request a transfer from the one who set them up. Good luck!
Added by Annie on Feb 21, 2014 6:25 PM
Kathy McNamara
Again another big thank you
for transferring John Stewart McNamara!

We are thrilled!

Love the pictures on the page and of course they will stay and we will add some more neat stuff. I am going to make it ad free so I can add more.

Kathy and Phil
Added by Kathy McNamara on Feb 14, 2014 8:17 PM
Kathy McNamara
Thanks so very much...
for the transfer of Henry Lake McNamama! We really appreciate it!

Will be in touch for sure!

Kathy and Phil
Added by Kathy McNamara on Feb 14, 2014 1:22 PM

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