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Brenda & Pete (#47232469)
 member for 4 years, 7 months, 22 days
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Bio Photo My name is Brenda (Boyer) Kohr. My husband, Pete, and I are researching his side of the family (Kohr/Smith)&(Minnich/Buxton), as well as my own (Boyer/Grimes)&(Beil/Shott). We are not trying to see how many memorials we can amass so that we can have our numbers posted in the "Top Contributors" catagory. We want to make memorials to pay tribute to our families and friends and hopefully help others to find theirs.

We enjoy helping others by photographing grave markers. There are times that we may photograph markers that are near the ones we were asked to take photos of, or if we see one with our surnames. If there is no memorial for these extra photos that we take....I create one. If by chance I happen to create a memorial for a relative or a friend of yours don't hesitate to ask for a transfer. I don't feel the need to keep memorials that I have created. (unless they are family) I only created them so that someone may find a member of their family or a friend. Guidelines (and that is all they are) and numbers mean nothing....families are what is important. If people asking for out of guideline transfers has caused a problem for you.....stop making memorials. Problem solved!!

Guidelines....not rules, not regulations, not laws....not even an eleventh commandment.

NOTE: - GUIDELINES ....definition of...

A guideline is a statement by which to determine a course of action. By definition, following a guideline is never mandatory. Guidelines are NOT binding.

Your tombstone stands among the rest
Neglected and alone
The name and date are chiseled out
On polished marble stone

It reaches out to all who care
It is too late to mourn
You did not know that I exist
You died and I was born

Yet each of us are cells of you
In flesh, in blood and bone
Our blood contracts and beats a pulse
Entirely not our own

Dear Ancestor, the place you filled
One hundred years ago
Spreads out among the ones you left
Who would have loved you so

I wonder if you lived and loved
I wonder if you knew
That someday I would find this spot
And come to visit you

Author Unknown


Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.
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Diane Simmons
RE: Bearslers in wrong cemetery
Thank you! These are relatives of mine but I was given wrong information on their burial. Let me know if there are any more mistakes. My e-mail was hacked and yahoo has apparently frozen my account. I've tried to call them but have not gotten through. Thanks for leaving a message.

Added by Diane Simmons on Sep 17, 2014 6:21 PM
Peggy Bargen Duey
Helen Wickard memorial
Thanks for transferring her memorial to me; greatly appreciate it.
Added by Peggy Bargen Duey on Sep 17, 2014 3:35 PM
J. H. O'Cain Jr
Hill / Elliott
Thank you again for the photos.

Added by J. H. O'Cain Jr on Sep 13, 2014 5:06 PM
Carl Catherman
Carrie Morris
Thank you very much for adding the links and other information to her memorial.
Added by Carl Catherman on Sep 12, 2014 5:11 PM
J. H. O'Cain Jr
Thank you again for the grave marker photo additions. I appreciate your service to this remarkable site. May I have permission to use your photos on I will note you as the photo holder.I will update the error.

Added by J. H. O'Cain Jr on Sep 10, 2014 5:55 PM
Homrighausen pics
Thank you.
Added by Glenn on Sep 09, 2014 8:02 PM
J. H. O'Cain Jr
Thank you for taking the time to photograph the grave markers. It is greatly appreciated.

Added by J. H. O'Cain Jr on Sep 08, 2014 5:52 PM
Paul S Strine #106758021

Thank y'all for the grave marker photo of:

Paul S Strine #106758021

It's greatly appreciated!

Rebecca Strine
Added by Fluttrbye on Sep 07, 2014 5:56 PM
sharon rickards
Henry, Mary & Addie Herman
Thank you for taking the time to photograph & post the headstone for the Hermans. Your kindness is much appreciated. Sharon
Added by sharon rickards on Sep 06, 2014 4:25 AM
John Morrison photos
Thank you for fulfilling my photo request!

Added by naekat70 on Sep 01, 2014 4:26 PM
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