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Phil & Donna Whitaker (#4308835)
 member for 15 years, 8 months, 8 days
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Bio Photo Phil is a retired systems analyst and a Vietnam veteran serving 4 years with the US Navy and 2 years with the Air National Guard. Donna is a retired RN with 44 years in the medical field. First as a nurse's aide, then EMT and finally an RN for the last 35 years. We live in Oklahoma City.
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Carolyn Bradley
Shawn LaCoe
Agree with what you had sent me. Shawn was quite a colorful young man who I had know since birth. His father was in the service with my husband and we knew the family.
Thanks and sorry it took me so long to write you back.
Carolyn Ladd Bradley
bradleys@wildblue.net
Added by Carolyn Bradley on Feb 09, 2016 1:44 PM
Carolene
Hoeltzel bio
Thank you very much for the correction. I did not have the info at the time I made the memorial. I might have forgotten so I'm glad for your help in the heads up.
Many thanks,
Carolene
Added by Carolene on Feb 08, 2016 12:07 PM
Karen Wiedemann
RE: Declined SAC
But I'm not talking about a title. I agree with you on that. I was a Spec 4 but that is not what I am now. But I would want the transcription of my army marker including my rank to be shown, as that is my accomplishment.
Added by Karen Wiedemann on Feb 07, 2016 10:45 PM
Karen Wiedemann
RE: Declined SAC
I totally agree that the rank is not used with their name (if they had not retired with rank) , which I fight a losing battle trying to tell someone else that. But the military marker can and should be used to show the rank, branch of service, medals, etc that is shown on the marker.

Karen
Added by Karen Wiedemann on Feb 07, 2016 10:02 PM
Karen Wiedemann
Declined SAC
May I ask why you are declining my changes to add the military marker transcriptions? The military marker is a great example of showing what their service was!

“Add marker transcription” is to be used for words, phrases, or sentences that are found on the headstone, other than the person’s name or birth and death dates. Examples of these would be “Loving mother”, “Here my love lies”, Served in Company 212, etc

Karen
Added by Karen Wiedemann on Feb 07, 2016 9:41 PM
Nikolai Thompson
Project help
Hi, Donna and Phil my name is Nikolai Thompson and I was wondering if either of you knew James Robert Smith as it seems you put together his virtual grave.

I attend Westlake High School and our English class is reading The Things They Carried and we are beginning a project memorializing servicemen whose names are on the Vietnam Memorial Wall. We are commemorating lost servicemen, and I received Corporal James Smith's name.

I was just trying to contact you in case you knew him to see if you would be willing to share any memories, experiences or photos you have of him that I can include in my memorial to make it more personal.

If you would like to see similar projets to the one I'm working on and where my memorial will eventually be posted, please visit virtualvietnam.eanesisd.net. Also please feel free to contact my teacher, Rebecka Stucky at rstucky@eanesisd.net

Thank you very much for your time,
Nikolai Thompson
Added by Nikolai Thompson on Feb 07, 2016 1:29 PM
Mimi
Grateful
Thank you for all you do. You are very special people
Added by Mimi on Jan 21, 2016 6:51 AM
Ellen Maynard
RE: Gladys Darnell
Thank you very much for updating your memorial for Gladys Darnell. I understand that it's preferable to keep the earliest memorial when there are duplicates. When I notice duplication .. I try to point it out to both memorial owners and let them work it out among themselves.

I did submit some edits to link her to her parents.
Her maiden name was Drake and her mother's maiden name was Slead.
Her husband would have been 3rd cousin or so to my husband, so not a close relation.

Thank you! - Ellen M
Added by Ellen Maynard on Jan 16, 2016 11:25 AM
JewelsOK
Martha Pauline (Elkins) Bodmer
Would you please transfer Martha Bodmer over to me (1943-2015). She is my mother. The obituary you posted were the words that I wrote and the picture you posted I took with my own camera. I was waiting to post this myself when I was ready. Kind of a surprise to see it done by a total stranger.

Thank you for your consideration.

Julie
Added by JewelsOK on Jan 15, 2016 2:01 PM
Alice P.
Funeral Homes
I mainly do Muskogee, Ft. Gibson, and Tahlequah Funeral Homes. Sometimes Shipman and Ada Funeral Homes.
Added by Alice P. on Jan 14, 2016 1:07 PM
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