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Delita (#47315206)
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Bio Photo Amelia, Debbie's granddaughter

Debra Lynn Barwick Birthday June 22

Our 31 yr old grandson TJ (Debbie's son) was found dead April 17 from suicide. Have no idea why he chose this. Still find it so hard to accept. Grief seems to grow instead of lessen. I appreciate all your thoughts, visits and prayers.

Grandson TJ Parham

Our daughter Brenda is recuperating from disc surgery on May 5.Brenda got the neck brace off on June 21. The x rays looked good and now she is learning to turn her head again. Not going so good with that. She is in hospital with depression problems. The 22nd was her sisters birthday and she started talking about going to be with her sister and TJ. She still needs prayers. It seems our life is in such a turmoil. Thanks for prayers for her and for us also.

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Esther Kinder
Keeping you in my prayers
I am so sorry for the loss and the turmoil you are going through. Life is just not fair sometimes. I know I have a lot going on right now with my family as well. Please know that I care and if you need to release pain by talking please feel free to do it. I hope your daughter does well and comes out of her depression soon. Love and Hugs
Added by Esther Kinder on Jun 30, 2016 11:10 AM
Glenda Emerson
Dear Delita,
Haven't been on here much lately, work and everyday life, so I'm out of touch with what's going on with you, but I am so sorry for the death of your grandson. I can't even imagine the grief and devastation you and your family have been going through.
I will be praying for you, that God will heal the hurt and give you and all the family peace. Praying for God's sweet healing grace over all of you.

Added by Glenda Emerson on Jun 29, 2016 7:18 PM
Delita, you are in my thoughts and prayers. It is just not right that your family is having to go through all of this. Hugs, Rosie
Added by Rosie♥Mooch on Jun 28, 2016 3:18 PM
rosie mcnaughton
I am so sorry to hear about your grandson's untimely death. One can never quite grasp the meaning of suicide. It leaves so many questions and feelings of guilt for those left behind. Will pray for you and your family that you can sometime find peace of mind.

Hope your daughter, Brenda, completely recovers from her surgery.
Added by rosie mcnaughton on Jun 25, 2016 4:04 PM
Zina ♥︎ Bee
Thank you ♥
Hi Delita,

I just wanted to thank you for leaving such a nice token for Zachary Killinger, my featured memorial for June 2016. He was such a brave young man, fighting a disease which has no cure and is 100% fatal - Batten Disease. It really warms my heart to see him get so many visitors.

I hope you're doing alright, and that your weekend is peaceful.

Thanks again,

Added by Zina ♥︎ Bee on Jun 17, 2016 5:59 AM
Shirley M. Strickland
So Sorry
Hello Delita,

I am so sorry to learn of your terrible sadness. I can only say, I know there are no words to explain what happens in one's lifetime.

Time will not heal this great loss that you have had but time will allow you to adjust. I know, I have been there twice although not in this vein but they were my sons.

Try to stay busy and cry when you feel the need. The release of emotions do help for a time....Take care of yourself...
Warm regards and my thoughts are with you.

Added by Shirley M. Strickland on Jun 12, 2016 4:17 PM
Thinking of you!
Hello Dear,
Thinking of you and your family. Sending prayers and well wishes! Hang in there Dear.
Sincerely, Debbie.
Added by D&D on Jun 07, 2016 9:24 PM
Thank you
Thank you so much for remembering my Father, Cosimo Riccio's birthday. You thoughtfulness touched my heart. I am so sorry to hear about your
Grandson. I am sending extra prayers to you at this difficult time. Blessings to you & your family...Hugs...Your friend..Anna

Added by ANNA on May 23, 2016 12:39 PM
I am so sorry about your grandson. Please know I have been thinking about you.I pray God will be with you and your family during this difficult time.we dont understand why things like this happen's. Please take care knowing our God will be with you all the way.....Love Allie
Added by Broken~♥~Heart on May 21, 2016 7:27 PM
Loretta Sampson
RE: Dear Loretta
So so sorry to hear about your grandson. My heart goes out to you . We never know what life has in store for us all, but I can't think of why such a young man would think life is not worth living.
I just hope by now your daughter is on the road to recovery. I will say a prayer for her.
For me, I am not doing that good,I just take one day at a time. I still think so much about your daughter Debbie, she is always in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care of yourself, my friend. Love,
Added by Loretta Sampson on May 18, 2016 6:57 PM
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