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treerpgmo (#47324296)
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Genealogy has been a serious business for me since I was in grade school. I documented and discovered that my 3rd great-grandmother Laura A. (WHITMARSH) MILLER's parents Horace WHITMARSH & Clarissa Mitchell (WARNER) WHITMARSH were both Mayflower descendants. I tracked the surname GILMORE back to Capt. James GILMORE of Rockbridge Co, Virginia. (Thanks to the late Shelby GILMORE for his ground breaking research in the 1960-70s.) Turns out that he was present at the Battle of Yorktown where poor Cornwallis discovered that yes he would be famous but no not for something to land him in to #10 Downing Street. Other discoveres include proving Mennonite ancestry via the BINKLEY orig BINGELLI and STAUFFER lines.

Corrections & Questions: Use the S.A.C. for corrections and please differentiate facts from from suppositions and might be for the benefit of other researchers. Also if it's a question that I don't have an instant answer for that requires further research remember that the facts are the foundation for the solution. Correction and question e-mails should NOT be deletion requests as those requesting deletions are considered a nuisance and are treated accordingly. Include your e-mail address in the S.A.C. and you must have your messages visible to the public. If you are requesting links include the findagrave code number after each person.

Transfers: Most of the the virtual graves I manage are blood kin in some way. I don't transfer direct ancestors or very close relatives of my grandparents. For others that can happen if you are more closely related than me.

First: leave some kind of flower on the virtual grave in question. Use the correct e-mail (NOT a message on my profile) that includes your e-mail address (required) and tell me how you are related. If the person is someone I'm not related to I usually transfer these type immediately. (Unless you ask if you have other relatives buried in the same cemetery. In that case I might need that virtual grave as a reference point for easy access because non-relatives will not be in my internal database.) I probably know very little about a non-relative so someone who is a relative should manage them.

Second: If I am related but you are a closer relative to that person --- I will look at my internal database --- I may have questions for you! I may have active research that I conducting on that person and/or his/her near relatives. So just because I don't transfer a relative immediately doesn't mean no if I don't say no. Before I transfer a relative I back check my internal database to make sure what I have there matches findagrave. If you send in the "correction" additional facts, crosslinks to parents or other updated data I need to fix BOTH areas. I have also been known to transfer a group of graves for the same family. If I am doing a group transfer I also back check each cemetery to see if there are other relatives of the person who don't have virtual memorials but should. All of this takes TIME which is a precious commodity and when it is done it should be done right the first time.

The type of transfers I absolutely will not do are any type of these three:

#1 Any of my direct ancestors and other close relatives of my grandparents.
#2 To people who are bulk collectors of virtual graves that do not transfer outside of guidelines.
#3 To people who have harassed others on findagrave.

These are direct line known surnames to my 7th great-grandparents. Note that on those from Norge I am trying to use "farm" names because surnames were not generally required by law till about 1900 in Norge. American & Canadian states/provinces are abbreviated in all caps. Other countries are spelled out preferably in that nation's first language. When you see a surname repeated that is because it is actually more than one unrelated surnames with the the surname coming closest to this current time listed first. Several of these families can be accessed through my multiple virtual cemeteries. Most of these, but not all, are public:

Missouri: Mercer County, Lindley and Harrison Twsps and also the neighboring townships of Clay Twsp in Harrison County and Hamilton Twsp in Decatur Co, Iowa: I do have a particular interest and expertise in this area as four of my great-grandparents were from this area. If you need help in this area ask. What I don't know I most likely know who you need to talk to.

Maine: Hancock County, Swan's Island: Make sure you see for any virtual grave in this area that I either entered and/or left a candle on. This is the source for all of the information, including links to parents, gravestone photographs or documentation of the lack of one. If the person in question had the surname JOYCE or married one then they either were themselves or married a direct descendant of the SAMSON, STANDISH, and ALDEN families.

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William E Flickinger & Clara Mae Heasley Flickinger
These are my maternal great grandparents and I have posted memorials for William's parents, which I would like to have linked, and for their daughter Alice, my grandmother. Would you be so kind as to transfer William and Clara to me, and their daughter Dorothy, too. You have done a very nice job with them, but I have some more details to add. Thanks.
Karl Shaffer, alias KRS
Added by KRS on Aug 25, 2016 9:39 AM
Thanks, have that, know a great deal about the family. The omission by his grandfather is just strange, makes you think it was deliberate. He does not name all of his grandchildren, but he does name all of those who are Thomas' children except for John.
Added by Ellen on Aug 17, 2016 6:12 PM
Thanks for the edit. I am trying to figure John out, because he is the only son of Thomas who was NOT listed in his grandfather's will. Interesting.
Added by Ellen on Aug 17, 2016 3:48 PM
Ephraim Wales
Sorry I was in the Randolph Central Cemetery today for a quick lookup
when I got home I realized I had the wrong Ephraim Wales

So can you resubmit your photo request for him for Randolph Central Cemetery.

I did get another Dr Ephraim Wales and added him
If you are related I will transfer to you

Do you know if any of these Wales were from CT or travelled to Ct or Northern NH (named for Wales Gore)
Other names are Cone
Added by OUTANDABOUT on Aug 07, 2016 7:18 PM
Jen Metcalf
Samuel Stodder, etc
Hi there,
I came across your listing for Samuel Stodder, (74412995) and his wife Elizabeh Gill Stodder (77413060).
Samuel and Elizabeth are my 9th great grandparents.
I wanted to say hi, see how you are related, and find out if you had any information on the Stodder (or Stoddard) line of family, or if you were just taking photos of cemeteries.
Either way, I look forward to hearing from you.
Thanks, Jen Metcalf
Added by Jen Metcalf on Aug 01, 2016 7:45 PM
Jamie Shannon Vitale
James D Vernon #6598152
Hi,I am looking for information on James D Vernon. He is my great great grandfather and I am trying to locate is parents. He was married to Elizabeth Gaffney. I would appreciate any information you have on either of them. Thank you for your help. Jamie Shannon Vitale
Added by Jamie Shannon Vitale on Jul 23, 2016 3:25 PM
Fulton County (OH) county seat
As far as I know, Fayette was never the county seat of Fulton County -- the county seat of Fulton County (OH) has always been Wauseon, OH. At least that's where the County Courthouse is and has been for several decades. If SARAH WHALEY COTTRELL was buried in the Fulton County Seat, she would not be found in Pleasant View Union Cemetery in Fayette, Ohio, USA. There are a fair number of Whaleys (all related, I think) buried in Pleasant View Union, so it would not be surprising to find her interred there. -- Linda L. Pitford -

P.S. Sarah Whaley Cottrell was an older sister to
my Great-Grandfather, Franklin Curtis Whaley
Added by LLPitford on Jul 21, 2016 12:06 AM
Russell Alan Babcock
Spencer POOLE #143293856
Treerpgmo, Your request can only be filled if you contact the cemeteries main # 510-658-2588, as this is a very large cemetery over 500,000 souls resting on over 150 acres of land. You will need to give them the correct first and last name and year of death. They in turn should provide you with the Lot#, Plot# and Grave#. Then reply to my message with this info. and I will go out there and see what I can find.
Added by Russell Alan Babcock on Jul 10, 2016 5:31 PM
Jim Hamren
Elizabeth Kipping Jewson, Memoria l# 63375958
Hi. Would you mind sharing your source for her date of death as 1649? It would be greatly appreciated.
Added by Jim Hamren on Jul 02, 2016 2:41 PM
Sara Jane "Sadie" Atwood Trumble 67714156

Thanks for the edits regarding Warwick Cem. Warwick Mass. You had me make Sadie's birthplace Warwick, Mass. I was able to find her husband William C. Trumble on find-a-grave. So I corrected the spelling of her name which I had as Trumbull. I used SSDI to find her birth date and death date. It's not totally proven or great genealogy but I adjusted her dates to match the SSDI. I did look her up in the 1900 US census and it did give June 1882 for her birth. I could not find her in the Warwick birth records.


I tried finding an obituary for Marjorie Whipple 21035416 to sort out her 3 marriages that you sent me a suggestion for. But could not find one. I tried to find Fay Whipple's as well and failed. But I searched for a fay whipple in Massachusetts and he is the only one that popped up. Ever. So I liked Marjorie to the Fay in Orange, Mass.

Thanks for the help. I need all I can get.

Added by Ryan-O on Jun 13, 2016 10:01 AM
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