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Mary Standridge (#47037674)
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Bio Photo Rude and unkind people usually have the capability to leave messages on their (FAG)Find A Grave site disabled, my guess is they do not want to be treated as they have treated others. They also send ugly emails instead of leaving a note on FAG so they can try and hide their ugliness.
My intentions are not to disrespect anyone living or deceased. Myself, like most people on FAG add information for genealogy purposes and personal reasons. Obituaries are public information and are easily found. Our local newspaper told me obituaries are not the property of the newspaper because they are 'paid' for by the family and the family wants the information to be public knowledge, therefore it is not a copyright Infringement. If you want privacy, my suggestions is to not publish a public obituary at all. I can and will delete memorials and information if approached nicely, but I can just about guarantee you that someone else will add it later.

FYI: Most everything I have entered on FAG was taken directly from the "Cemetery Records of Yell County" which is available on line. Sometimes there are mistakes, sometimes I make a typo mistake,I will correct it though if you will let me know. There is no need for you to send me an email and be rude and ugly. This statement only applies to one person. Also, sorry you got mad because I sent you corrections and additions to make in your FAG entries, but that is the beauty of FAG, it is like a big puzzle that we all work on together.
To the Rude Person named "_ _ _"(She only uses a first name)and she has her capability to leave messages turned off:(wonder why that is)_ _ _ why do you find it necessary to critique my contributions to FAG. Freda is my cousin, I put her obit. on her site and intend to keep it there just the way it is. Who made you the FAG Police. Why was it necessary for you to tell me not to use abbreviations. J.W. is what Freda's husband went by, few people knew his real name, so I chose to do his FAG in the name that he was known by so that he could be located by those that knew him. Also, Ft. Smith is just what it says, Ft. Smith. Look at a map of Arkansas, it has Ft. Smith as Ft. Smith not Fort Smith, and most folks know that Okla. is Oklahoma. You manage your sites and I will manage mine. Ugliness is not at all necessary. Do not send me anymore ugly e-mails, I don't have time for your ugliness. I will delete all correspondence from you, I will not waste my time with your pettiness again. Thanks also for removing my name from your list of friends. In case you could not figure it out FAG is the site you are on(Find A Grave)
I started on Find A Grave on a mission to find out information on my Grandmother(Dollie Coffer Apple)and her family, I am at the same place now that I started, but hopefully that will change one day. Along the way I hope to help create a historical recording of those who have passed, especially for those with nothing but their name on a piece of paper somewhere to mark their final resting place. Hopefully my effort will help with not letting them be lost forever.

THANK YOU to all of you for your many kind visits and messages. I so very much appreciate our wonderful family here at Find-a-Grave and every visit and token left at my family FAG sites! I would like to say very special "Thank You" to Patty Valentino. Patty makes many many visits to my family members and leaves some of the sweetest notes. It really makes my day to see her visits.

Remember me as you pass by,
As you are so was I.
As I am you soon will be.
Prepare in Life for Eternity.

If you come across an Angel..

Every day, in the world around us, real-life angels are doing the things they do... and bringing more smiles to the world around them.

Real-life angels build bridges instead of walls. They don't play hide-and-seek with the truth, and they don't have hidden agendas. They tend to be the only ones who understand what you're going through. if they sense that you're hurting, they do whatever they can to help you.

Real-life angels understand difficulties and always give the benefit of the doubt. They don't hold others up to the standards they can't live by themselves. Real-life angels are what "inner beauty" is all about.

Real-life angels don't hold things against you; the only thing they hold... is you. They take your hand in theirs when you could use a little reassurance. They walk beside you when you could do with a little guidance and direction in your life. And they support you in your attempts
to do what is right.

Real-life angels multiply your smiles and add to your integrity. They make you feel like, "Hey, I really am somebody who matters." Then they quietly prove to you how beautiful and true that feeling really is.

If you come across an angel like this, you are one of the luckiest people of all.

If someone in your life is wonderfully like an angel to you, it's important to let them know. It's the nicest compliment you could ever give... in all the days of your life and in all the years that you live.
- Douglas Pagels

Time may hide our sadness like a smile can hide a tear, but memories last forever no matter how many years

When the tears start falling and you dont know what to do, Think of all the tender moments your Angel spent with you


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Ida Birkhead
Ida Birkhead #63580597 Elizabeth Hall Cemetery
Added by bill sullivan on Oct 17, 2014 9:51 AM
Nancy Jane Faulk White Adams
Thanks so much. I should have know that. I have lots of them in my family.
Added by Nancy Jane Faulk White A... on Oct 16, 2014 12:33 PM
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Miss. Daniels
We just transferred Miss. Daniels into your loving care. Be kind to her as she was to you.
Added by Ronnie & Marjeana on Oct 15, 2014 5:49 PM
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Aleen Daniels
Thank You so much for all the information for Mrs. Daniels
Added by Ronnie & Marjeana on Oct 15, 2014 9:58 AM
Nancy Jane Faulk White Adams
John Turner
Hi, thank you so much for the note. But I don't understand what WoW stand for or where you want it put.
Added by Nancy Jane Faulk White A... on Oct 14, 2014 1:52 AM
RE: Momma
Thank you so much Mary. We really appreciate it.

Added by Daddys♥Girl on Oct 13, 2014 2:02 PM
Helen Cook
RE: Curosity
That would be so wonderful. Thank so much! He has been a puzzle to me for years that I've been trying to unravel. I was thrilled to find his photo on a few days ago in someone's tree with a positive ID attached to it. I can see his daughter Martha's image in him. I'm not sure if my Cherokee blood comes from him or Malinda Morris Lee's family. My mother claimed 1/16th. It had to come from there.
I haven't found evidence any place that Robert's middle name was Edward, only that it was the initial "E" on Malinda's gravestone. Can you verify it when you search the records?

Several of Martha Ann Lee Falls older descendents have given their handwritten recollections and records to the Pope County Library in Russellville where they are kept under lock and key. That's where I found much of my information when I started my search. You have to sign for them and return them back to the librarian before you leave the building.
Added by Helen Cook on Oct 13, 2014 12:59 PM
Helen Cook
RE: Robert
I only have his photo on Malinda's page. I don't have a page for him because I don't know where he's buried. Her # is 15551768
Added by Helen Cook on Oct 13, 2014 12:31 PM
Helen Cook
RE: Robert E. Lee
Do you have information as to where Robert is buried? I've always wondered. I would think he was buried on their place near Big Flat since their young son William Allen was the only male there when they hung him, and no one else to help with him. He had to climb up and cut him down from the tree. I also saw where someone posted that he was buried in Little Rock. I have to question that, though.
Thanks. Helen
Added by Helen Cook on Oct 13, 2014 12:05 PM
Helen Cook
Robert E Lee
Thank you Mary. If you will double click on Robert's photo you will see what I have written about him. I am his 2nd great grand daughter. Are you related, too? Helen in Franklin County
Added by Helen Cook on Oct 13, 2014 10:04 AM
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