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Don & Mary Cavender (#47985243)
 member for 3 years, 11 months, 5 days
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Bio Photo We are both retired Air Force members. We were looking for something to keep us busy and Mary found this site while working on the Family Tree. We decided to become volunteers to help others be able to see the grave sites of family members in a far away place.

We are working on the family names:
Cavender & Stark - Kentucky and Tennessee
Kasper & Bartz - Michigan and Illinois
Costa, McGurr, & Vose - Massachusetts
Nieforth, Slade, & Sinfield - Nova Scotia Canada & New England

Please consider this as permission to copy or repost any headstone/marker photo we place on Find-A-Grave for your personal use only. Any personal photos of individuals please send me a request for the photo and how you are related.

Any memorial that we add, we will gladly transfer to anyone who wants to manage it.
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RE: Jewell Lillian Harns
Thanks, the obituary must be wrong.
Added by Judie on Oct 20, 2016 1:02 PM
Jewell Lillian Harns
Harns, Jewell Lillian Stark 65698292
b. Apr. 19, 1895 d. Dec., 1989

Her obituary has that she was born in Neosho, Newton County, Missouri. Is it possible that she was born in Joplin, Newton County, Missouri? There is an area of Newton County that the mailing address is Joplin. In fact the The two main hospitals in Joplin are now in Newton County,
Added by Judie on Oct 19, 2016 10:53 PM
Thanks !
Added by MATuley on Oct 05, 2016 8:58 PM
Jean Jorgensen
Rilla Clement
Thank you for placing a photo of the grave stone for W. Everett Clement and his wife, "Rilla." There is a duplicate memorial #151374343, Verna Sarrilda Nalley Clement (1900-1976). Would you place a copy of your photo on this memorial page.

A note on the memorial where you did place the photo tells that the original person who set up the memorial is ill and unable to continue working with Find-A-Grave. I, or you, could send a message to Find A Grave asking them to delete #112030764; but not until you have placed your photo onto Verna Sarrilda Nalley Clement's memorial.

I am hoping it is a simple process for you - just add your photo to Vera's and delete it from Rilla's.

Thank you,
Added by Jean Jorgensen on Oct 05, 2016 8:43 PM
Jean Smootz
Roger Paris' headstone
Dear Don & Mary,
Thanks so much for photographing my cousin Roger Paris' headstone & posting it - I am forever grateful! I thought that the birthdate listed on his memorial was incorrect & the headstone photo helped to confirm that. I've sent in a suggested edit to the owner of the memorial. Thanks very very much for your kind efforts!
Jean Smootz
Added by Jean Smootz on Oct 05, 2016 6:01 PM
Bonnie Morris Conrad
John Stark
I processed some of your edits because I already had documentation for them but the one deleting his 2 wife or 1st wife which ever is the case would change information without documentation. What do you have as proof for this request? and please please, please when you send edits also send some form of proof for the changes. We are a team trying to make find a grave better and better. Thanks for all you do.
Added by Bonnie Morris Conrad on Oct 03, 2016 7:01 PM
Mrs Fenton
RE: Faye Perry # 116222933
I'm not related to this one. I had duplicated her and caught it today.
Added by Mrs Fenton on Sep 27, 2016 6:32 PM
Mrs Fenton
RE: Raymond Edward Bennett # 116453417
Agreed...I was posting records I was finding so I could see it all at one time. Hopefully I will get them figured out. The relation would be distant to me. Both babies had names but the tombstone doesn't reflect that so I thought it should at least be in the bio anyway. I would be fine with leaving it as the tombstone indicates or how you have it now. If you want to transfer them, that's fine too, and I'll work on them again over the weekend.

Added by Mrs Fenton on Sep 27, 2016 6:29 PM
RE: Ada Huse 156732375
You're welcome. Sorry it took so long to get posted.
Added by maine on Sep 11, 2016 3:54 PM
m g
RE: William & Mary Vose #162122568 & 162122762
You're welcome and Thank you!
m g
Added by m g on Sep 09, 2016 6:33 PM
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