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MaryK4d4 (#46982975)
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Bio Photo Single mother of two sons ~ 1 has 2 legs the other has 4.

Spent my adult life working in customer service and as a caregiver to terminally ill friends and family. I have watched dementia and Alzheimers destroy memories that can never be recovered. It is for that reason I feel that each and every memorial should include as much information as possible. I have been told that this site is merely a database for locations of graves. And it is my opinion that if that were true we wouldn't be posting flowers & messages. We wouldn't be adding photos and bios. We would have nothing more than John Smith row 4 plot 7 Sunny Acres Cemetery.

~~~~~ABOUT PHOTOS~~~~~

Most of my memorials are created from grave photos. I search the site before I create the memorial. If I find that I have created a memorial and subsequently find that it is a duplicate of a BU memorial I send an Edit to the contributor advising them of the grave location and that I have a photo of the grave. If the location is added to the memorial I will post the grave photo and delete the memorial I created.

If the contributor does not respond or update the location within 30 days then I will keep my memorial and it's photo in place. As per the site guidelines the contributor is supposed to update the location within 30 days of creating it.

If I have posted a picture of a grave marker it is a picture that I have taken myself. I place no monetary value on these photos. I took the pictures to create or complete memorials and provide photo documentation of the grave site. If family or friends would like a copy of the grave site photos they are welcome to them.
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Rita & Lee Gordon
Nick Gaskos
Thanks for the photo
Added by Rita & Lee Gordon on Oct 02, 2014 1:03 PM
Everett Mefford
Rev Clara Rose Stoll Chapman
I have corrected the Maiden name to Stoll

Would you like me to transfer her to you?
Added by Everett Mefford on Sep 14, 2014 10:57 PM
Stephen Barneby
Mary Keefer
Thanks for the correction. I deleted the duplicate memorial.
Added by Stephen Barneby on Sep 14, 2014 6:15 AM
Pattie Ford
Fred Gilliam
Hi Mary'
Thank you for the correction on the burial location for Fred. I have corrected it.

Have a great day!
Added by Pattie Ford on Aug 22, 2014 10:43 AM
Sherry (Bowers) Vandehey
George O. Bowers
Thank you Mary for trying to find George Bowers grave...I have such a heavy heart thinking that his grave was moved to a mass grave without a headstone or some sort of acknowledgement of his life. How sad.
Thank you for your time & vigilance on this search for George. He was my gg/gf.

Added by Sherry (Bowers) Vandehey on Aug 22, 2014 1:03 AM
Susan Ann Blakley
RE: Michael Archie Blakey's Tombstone
Thanks Mary for letting me add the photo to my family history!

You're a blessing and doing a great work for those who are searching for their loved ones' grave sites. It's such a great reward to know that your work isn't in vain.

Take care. God bless you.
Added by Susan Ann Blakley on Aug 19, 2014 12:26 PM
Susan Ann Blakley
Michael Archie Blakey's Tombstone
Hello Mary,

I see that you posted a photo of Michael Archie Blakey on Memorial # 117663659. Could I add that to my Family Connections info etc?

Also, I found out that Michael's mother was cremated...

Thanks for taking the photo.
Added by Susan Ann Blakley on Aug 18, 2014 5:46 PM
J. Denise Wilkinson Underhill
RE: Frederick McGregor
I contacted St. Mary's Cemetery 916-452-4831 who manages the Sacrament County Veterans Cemetery. I had them lookup to see if Mr. McGregor and his wife are buried there. They confirmed Frederick McGregor is indeed interred in Row 24, Grave 70.
Added by J. Denise Wilkinson Under... on Aug 10, 2014 12:26 PM
Barbara Wineinger
George E. Gray
Thank you so much for the photo.

Added by Barbara Wineinger on Aug 09, 2014 10:41 PM
Gene Ray
You sent me a plot location for him. Do you know where he is buried? Thank you.
Added by K on Aug 05, 2014 11:53 AM
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