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GerbLady (#46637511)
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Bio Photo Rules are rules, and in this case, guidelines are rules. Please abide by them. They aren't that difficult.
A J Marik, Apr 13, 2013, Help Forum

The FAQs are definitely guiderules...or are they rulelines? No matter. The FAQs *absolutely* detail site policy and all members are expected to follow them and abide by them.
A J Marik, Nov 30, 2011, Help Forum

Having been a beta tester for the new EDIT system, have nothing but praise for this new feature! Can get through updates in minutes what used to take hours. This new edit feature is also proving to be a huge leap in getting the name fields clean up per the naming conventions found in the FAQs (these are not optional nor subject to interpretation):

Memorial Naming Conventions:

If a hyphen or an apostrophe is part of the name, use the punctuation.

A period should be used after names where only an initial is known. If the full name is known, use the full name and not the initial.

No other punctuation should be used within any Name Field.

Full capitalization (ALL-CAPS) of names should not be used in any Name Field.

Suffixes and Prefixes do not belong in any Name Field.

First Name - First name of the deceased. Put the entire first name (if known), even if the grave marker is only an initial.

Middle Name - Middle name of deceased. Put the entire middle name (if known), even if the grave marker is only an initial.

Nickname - Nickname of deceased, if known; the nickname is automatically placed in quotes.

Maiden Name - Maiden name of a married individual, if known (otherwise leave blank); the maiden name is automatically italicized and should only be used if the individual was married and took the spouse's surname as their new surname. If the deceased was never married, then the surname should be placed in the "Last Name" field, NOT in the "Maiden Name" field.

Last Name - Last Name as you would find it on the tombstone, if the interred had more than one marriage or other possible spellings please place this information in the bio and use the family links. Do not include honorary or other suffixes in the Last Name field.

Any photos I've added to this site are open for anyone to use, no permission or credit needed.

I strictly adhere to the Find A Grave guidelines regarding transfers. No exceptions. Requests made outside of the guidelines, or do not state relationship, are no longer being acknowledged. Virtual cemeteries are the way to "gather" your ancestors together.

Copy-and-paste census, military and other data is not a "bio". Please don't send these type of bios because they will not be added.

Finally, I will NOT add a link to a burial unknown memorial. This site is named Find a GRAVE for a reason. Not a difficult concept.
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Re: Miss Muttle
First name: female? Ridiculous.
Added by Lavidaloca on Aug 21, 2014 6:45 PM
Beth Homan
Emma E Heller
Thank you for the relationship updates to Emma E Heller. She was my great grandfather's sister.

I've also requested name and dates to be updated. The location option for the dates is not working. Per her death certificate she died in Williamsport, Lycoming PA. She was born in Danville, Montour, PA.

Thanks again,
Beth H. nee Middleton
Added by Beth Homan on Aug 21, 2014 2:44 PM
I Remember When
Clean your own house first
Why don't you work on your own listings first. You obviously have plenty to do besides stalking everyone else's listings.
A period should be used after names where only an initial is known. If the full name is known, use the full name and not the initial.
Get busy on your own, then worry about the rest of the members on Find a Grave.
Added by I Remember When on Aug 21, 2014 12:09 PM
Kathleen Oster
Period after an initial
I have been submitting spreadsheets and part of the instruction on the blank sheets are NOT to use a period mark after the initial. How is that to be corrected in a speedy manner?
Added by Kathleen Oster on Aug 20, 2014 2:44 PM
Jill Nelson
# 106344850
Mrs A L Lockheart this is the way it is listed in cemetery records. Unless you know her first name its best to leave it like this. If there is a problem you can contact findagrave.
Added by Jill Nelson on Aug 20, 2014 1:26 PM
LaDon Brennan
I have been moving "Mrs." to the prefix field, per your edits, and in most cases it isn't a problem. However, when the cemetery entry is Mrs. John Smith, and John Smith is beside her and I have linked them, it now shows on John Smith's page that his spouse is John Smith, whereas before it was Mrs. John Smith. I have done extensive research to find her name, (I hate when women aren't accorded the dignity of being buried as their own self), but have not found it. Do I leave it as you requested, or are there instances when it is O.K. to have Mrs. in the name field?
Added by LaDon Brennan on Aug 18, 2014 4:14 PM
Amy (Decker) Veenendall
Oakridge cemetery in Marshall, Michigan
Thank you for sending me your recent edits in Oakridge cemetery in Marshall, Michgian. We have obtained the complete burial list for Oakridge and have been transcribing it for a few years. I add the names to findagrave as it appears listed in the burial records. Once a headstone photo is added to the memorial, (or I find other sources to verify it) then I update that person's memorial as on the stone. Some of the burials are only listed in the records as Mrs. W.G. Franklin. In that case, if I didn't put the Mrs. in front of it, you wouldn't know who you were looking for. I have the Mr's listed as in the records so then people know the person is an adult if an age isn't listed in the bio. Per burial records.
Added by Amy (Decker) Veenendall on Aug 17, 2014 6:05 PM
Jill Nelson
# 106437828
Mrs W A Gowen Unk Unk plot 1-54-3 this is whats in cemetery records, that why I put it in this way. Do you have a first name or anything?
Added by Jill Nelson on Aug 17, 2014 11:16 AM
Pos error

Are you Certain that this memorial is correct with its dates and spouse?. I have been looking for the grave of My 5x Great Grandfather Johannes Kunkle who was born in Gelnhausen, Hessen, Germany He came to America with brothers David and Michael as Hessian Soldiers and were all of the 15% of Hessian Troops who switched sides and became Patriots for the Revolution and became American Citz. name was Johan or Johannes Heinrich Kunkle (I keep seeing different spellings? but he took on a nick name "Henry"after becoming an American. He was married to Elizabeth Christina Kleinfelter who is buried in this cemetery also.

I have Henry's birthrate as 1751 and his death date 1827

Henry and Elizabeth had these Children

Michael Kunkle
1784 1864

Johann Henry Kunkel Jr.
1785 1860

Christiana Kunkle
1799 ?

Added by KKidd421 on Aug 17, 2014 6:24 AM
Fanell Richards Earl
Find A Grave Memorial# 51054879
This is my Maternal Grandmother, would you please transfer this memorial to me. Thank you so much, Beverly
Added by Stokley on Aug 16, 2014 5:29 PM
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