I am a homeschooling (unschooling) parent that spent two years (From Aug 2013) traveling America as part of a homeschooling project for my then 8 year old. Our first 6 months was along the old Route 66 "Mother Road" where we visited lots of old cemeteries.My daughter and I get away as much as possible and visit many cemeteries in search of history and a story.We keep a pocket full of pennies when we enter a graveyard, for "Our Fallen Heroes". SEE STORY FURTHER BELOW.-------------------------I am NOT related to most of my entries, but hope I am able to help someone else out as I visit gravesites across America. I have added local cemetery gravesites in Virginia as well as cities I visit. I NO LONGER ADD OBITUARIES FROM NEWSPAPERS AS OF JAN 21, 2013. Headstone photos added by me ARE ALL MY OWN PICTURES. If you have any information I could add to ANYBODY I manage, please feel free to e-mail it to me so I can add it.TRANSFER REQUESTS: I am happy to transfer any memorial outside of my family, if you are a DIRECT decendant as per FINDAGRAVE rules. You may also ask me to update any memorial, just e-mail/message me the information or photo (that you own the rights to) and I will be glad to do that too.Making My Dreams a reality.....JipSea Dreamer - AKA Jackie Lynn Bell--------------------------------------COINS LEFT ON TOMBSTONESWhile visiting some cemeteries you may notice that headstones marking certain graves have coins on them, left by previous visitors to the grave.These coins have distinct meanings when left on the headstones of those who gave their life while serving in America's military, and these meanings vary depending on the denomination of coin.A coin left on a headstone or at the grave site is meant as a message to the deceased soldier's family that someone else has visited the grave to pay respect. Leaving a penny at the grave means simply that you visited.A nickel indicates that you and the deceased trained at boot camp together, while a dime means you served with him in some capacity. By leaving a quarter at the grave, you are telling the family that you were with the solider when he was killed. According to tradition, the money left at graves in national cemeteries and state veterans cemeteries is eventually collected, and the funds are put toward maintaining the cemetery or paying burial costs for indigent veterans.In the US, this practice became common during the Vietnam war, due to the political divide in the country over the war; leaving a coin was seen as a more practical way to communicate that you had visited the grave than contacting the soldier's family, which could devolve into an uncomfortable argument over politics relating to the war. Some Vietnam veterans would leave coins as a "down payment" to buy their fallen comrades a beer or play a hand of cards when they would finally be reunited.The tradition of leaving coins on the headstones of military men and women can be traced to as far back as the Roman Empire.-------------------

I am a homeschooling (unschooling) parent that spent two years (From Aug 2013) traveling America as part of a homeschooling project for my then 8 year old. Our first 6 months was along the old Route 66 "Mother Road" where we visited lots of old cemeteries.My daughter and I get away as much as possible and visit many cemeteries in search of history and a story.We keep a pocket full of pennies when we enter a graveyard, for "Our Fallen Heroes". SEE STORY FURTHER BELOW.-------------------------I am NOT related to most of my entries, but hope I am able to help someone else out as I visit gravesites across America. I have added local cemetery gravesites in Virginia as well as cities I visit. I NO LONGER ADD OBITUARIES FROM NEWSPAPERS AS OF JAN 21, 2013. Headstone photos added by me ARE ALL MY OWN PICTURES. If you have any information I could add to ANYBODY I manage, please feel free to e-mail it to me so I can add it.TRANSFER REQUESTS: I am happy to transfer any memorial outside of my family, if you are a DIRECT decendant as per FINDAGRAVE rules. You may also ask me to update any memorial, just e-mail/message me the information or photo (that you own the rights to) and I will be glad to do that too.Making My Dreams a reality.....JipSea Dreamer - AKA Jackie Lynn Bell--------------------------------------COINS LEFT ON TOMBSTONESWhile visiting some cemeteries you may notice that headstones marking certain graves have coins on them, left by previous visitors to the grave.These coins have distinct meanings when left on the headstones of those who gave their life while serving in America's military, and these meanings vary depending on the denomination of coin.A coin left on a headstone or at the grave site is meant as a message to the deceased soldier's family that someone else has visited the grave to pay respect. Leaving a penny at the grave means simply that you visited.A nickel indicates that you and the deceased trained at boot camp together, while a dime means you served with him in some capacity. By leaving a quarter at the grave, you are telling the family that you were with the solider when he was killed. According to tradition, the money left at graves in national cemeteries and state veterans cemeteries is eventually collected, and the funds are put toward maintaining the cemetery or paying burial costs for indigent veterans.In the US, this practice became common during the Vietnam war, due to the political divide in the country over the war; leaving a coin was seen as a more practical way to communicate that you had visited the grave than contacting the soldier's family, which could devolve into an uncomfortable argument over politics relating to the war. Some Vietnam veterans would leave coins as a "down payment" to buy their fallen comrades a beer or play a hand of cards when they would finally be reunited.The tradition of leaving coins on the headstones of military men and women can be traced to as far back as the Roman Empire.-------------------