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First, my deepest thanks to those who have kept my spirits up by being supportive friends and who have honored my dear ones so faithfully.|
I still find myself trying to focus on the theme of rebirth, and trying to shake the gloom of the losses of 2012.
2014's start has been rocky with the loss of three of my guiding lights; our Romberger Family Association founder, the gent who found our original immigrant ancestor and his family home in Germany, a friend and genealogical mentor has passed. Thank you if you can honor Dr. John A. Romberger. The day we laid Dr. John to rest, another Doctor left us - my dear godfather, Dr. Edwin R. Baldrige. Not long after that, my sweet silversmithing teacher, Jane Martindell passed as well. It sort of feels like my mentors are all taking flight.
I'm finding using the site difficult right now. Some people have found it very therapeutic after a loss. Unfortunately, it has the opposite effect on me; I see all the losses of my fellow contributors, and it makes me feel terrible. I see your now-gone loved ones, and in a small way I re-live the loss of my loved ones. I think my feelings are still too close to the surface to be so easily stirred.
If you have a moment, would you kindly visit Randall Buckley? This is our friend Paula's brother.
If you are wondering whom else to visit, perhaps you'd kindly look in on my dearest.
If you have a moment, would you please send prayers to fellow contributor Ann H?
And if you have another moment, please consider leaving a token for our fellow contributor, White Light.
Picture use: You are welcome to use pictures for personal use, but I do NOT consent for their use online or on commercial or paid sites. FindAGrave is about sharing what you know, and I will not have my good will co-opted and monetized. I saw some of my pics stolen from here and put on ancestry.com and I am taking action to correct this.
Transfers and suggestions: Forgive me, but experience has been a harsh teacher. I used to be very cool about transferring, but I've had about enough of being easy about this. I'll gladly transfer the memorials of anyone not related or without meaning to me in a heartbeat, and I have hundreds to give away. But on family, I'm adopted, working on both birth and adopted families. I have a lot of family to cover, possibly double the size of yours, and I have not articulated my relationship to the subject of every memorial for privacy reasons. Rather than quibble, I would be gladder still to improve a memorial with your suggestions sent via SAC. Let's do the right thing and make the memorial accurate, suitable and a reflection of that person's life. You can put the improved memorial in a "virtual cemetery" without needing ownership of it, as I have done with relatives that other contributors have added to the site. I can add links or the info you wish, and you are welcome to add pictures.
On the other hand, if the memorial is one I have added by chance or the subject is no one related to me or is one to whom I have no attachment, I will offer to transfer instantly.
FindAGrave memorials are online representations of real graves, not trading cards. I don't collect them for numbers and am frankly relieved to see them go to family if they have no connection and meaning to me. There are relatives of mine another contributor has memorialized on the site that I do not "own" and have not asked for, content that I have added the info I have, and linked them to their kin.
"Many African societies divide humans into three categories; those still alive on earth, the sasha, and the zamani. The recently departed whose time on earth overlapped with people still here are the sasha, the living-dead. They are not wholly dead, for they still live in the memories of the living, who can call them to mind, create their likeness in art, and bring them to life in anecdote. When the last person to know an ancestor dies, that ancestor leaves the sasha for the zamani, the dead. As generalized ancestors, the zamani are not forgotten but revered. Many can be recalled by name. But they are not living-dead. There is a difference." -- from "Lies My Teacher Told Me" by James Loewen
So perhaps the progression of the living to the sasha to the zamani cannot be helped, but we record here those we knew, both sasha and zamani, and leave some record of them. And if they are sashas to us, perhaps our record keeps them sashas longer as we offer our first hand accounts of them.
It bothers me that time passes, because I sense my friends and family members moving out of sight as they pass through the celestial plan, or whatever you like to call it. I am just conscious that our grip on those we know and love is constantly eroding. I think this is why I have been drawn to FindAGrave; I can't stop people from dying, but I can stop them from being forgotten, and can see the lives of people other contributors feel the same about, those they don't want to shift out of focus as time clouds memories and people who knew others pass on. Here, at least, we can freeze them in time and recount all that made them good or special.
Your visits to my loved ones mean a lot to me. They mean my folks here are not forgotten, and honor people I really loved or respected or took the time to research, so thank you. I enjoy honoring people remembered on Find a Grave, and do take the time to read bio info on memorials. I appreciate knowing about the people other folks want remembered.
Every memorial entered here has been done with respect and good intent, in the hopes dear ones will not be forgotten. Any concerns, additions and so on are most welcome here on this page.
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|Todd Leiss||RE: Thomas J Dixon, Find A Grave Memorial# 34325633|
I was unable to get the link to work. Is this for Thomas Dixon the father? That would be great!
|Todd Leiss||RE: Thomas J Dixon, Find A Grave Memorial# 34325633|
Thank you for the speedy response to my message. I think it is a great photo and wished it was for Thomas J. Dixon but I'll work to see if I can find his father's information and will get back in touch so you can include it there! Thanks again!
|Todd Leiss||Thomas J Dixon, Find A Grave Memorial# 34325633|
Hi, Thank you for all you do for Findagrave and for the photos and memorials you have entered. On memorial #34325633, Thomas J Dixon there is a photo added by you for Thomas Dixon who is the father of the person from this memorial Thomas J. Dixon. Would it be possible for you to remove this photo? I believe that Thomas Dixon is also buried in the same cemetery but does not have a Findagrave.com memorial. Thank you in advance. I can be reached at firstname.lastname@example.org Todd Leiss
|Maurice Marvi||George Boyer|
I read and enjoyed your remembrance of George Boyer, and since I was a member of the Chorale in 78/79 thought I would reach out.
Mr Boyer (34 Years later, I still can't call him George) was a great influence in my High School life. It was tough for a young jewish boy to sing, considering so much of the repertoire was sacred christian music. However GB made me feel comfortable. Of course, it didn't hurt that he played the organ at my synagogue, and actually played for my Bar Mitzvah. I eventually sang with him all through High School, and also went to Europe with him on an American Music Abroad tour.
I also caused him and his wife Susan a lot of agita. While I wasn't wild, I was not exactly the most decorious member of his choirs.
We actually reconnected a couple of years ago, as I was working in NYC, and could actually see his apartment from my office. We were to meet for coffee or lunch, but procrastination led to us never making the date. That was a shame.
I have trouble remember a lot of High School, but your notes had me confused. I would have remembered a trip to Nashville. I thought we went to Ottawa that year. I think Nashville was 77/78.
I am trying to figure out who you are. I do remember the Big Altos. You mentioned Miriam P, and the writing doesn't remind me of Honor M (both seniors that year), or Sue H (A Junior like myself). Of course, I don't remember much (am I repeating myself?). I think I remember a Senior that year named Sue R. Is that you?
Anyway, that year I was the second best looking Junior Tenor in the group (It was hard to beat David Armstrong in that department).
I am hoping to eventually convert my Chorale and Choir Albums (And a "bootleg" tape ) to MP3. If it doesn't come through on the screen name, my name is Maurice Marvi, and you can find me with a basic google search. Drop me a line if you can. It may help me get off my end and get those files completed.
|Ash Montagu||Franklin P Geyer|
My cousin loaned me a copy of Devil in the White City and I read the author's notes and saw he took a historian's approach but not that of genealogist.
I am a subscriber of ancestry,com but much information (sometimes better) is free on Familysearch.org by the Mormon Church.
I entered the name Frank Geyer from Philadelphia with Franklin and Francis as variations. I quickly came up with his findagrave listing, marriage record, death certificate and census records.
His marriage was listed under "Pennsylvania and New Jersey Church and town records, 1708-1985". I clicked on it and read the handwritten church records. He was listed as age 31 of 1649 Cadwalader St, born in Philadelphia, and she age 27 of 2417 Orianna St, Philadelphia, born in Hartford, Conn.
I didn't look at city directory records which Ancestry.com also has nor other family members.
|Angie Robinson||Pvt Ernest Oscar Fleck|
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|McHunter45||George Copenhaver FAG#9733372|
Thank you for adding "Copenhaver Remembered and Restored". My grandfather, Frank Welsh Copenhaver was a half-brother of George's. George's half-brothers and sisters remember having dinner with Prudence and George where they lived at the Milton Hershey School. Mary Copenhaver Hunter
|RMW||RE: thank you...|
You are welcome.
Added by RMW on Jun 15, 2014 12:21 AM
|michael ||RE: thanks for your note|
Thank you very much for the connections. I showed my mother the sight of her Aunt and she was very happy to see the sight. However, I'm still new to grave finders and I'm learning more about grave finders. I am not sure what it means to sponsor The sight or what responsibilities are required. I am not on the computer that often. I am still thrilled with what you have done for us. Thank you Mike Haggerty
Added by michael on Jun 12, 2014 5:53 PM
|LeRoy Wilcox||RE: Amending previous note...|
Thanks for the data on the Ettingers. Wondering if you have a list of Milton's children. If I find more info will certainly send it. thanks again.
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