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MaryK4d4 (#46982975)
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Bio Photo Single mother of two sons ~ 1 has 2 legs the other has 4.

Spent my adult life working in customer service and as a caregiver to terminally ill friends and family. I have watched dementia and Alzheimers destroy memories that can never be recovered. It is for that reason I feel that each and every memorial should include as much information as possible. I have been told that this site is merely a database for locations of graves. And it is my opinion that if that were true we wouldn't be posting flowers & messages. We wouldn't be adding photos and bios. We would have nothing more than John Smith row 4 plot 7 Sunny Acres Cemetery.

~~~~~ABOUT PHOTOS~~~~~

Most of my memorials are created from grave photos. I search the site before I create the memorial. If I find that I have created a memorial and subsequently find that it is a duplicate of a BU memorial I send an Edit to the contributor advising them of the grave location and that I have a photo of the grave. If the location is added to the memorial I will post the grave photo and delete the memorial I created.

If the contributor does not respond or update the location within 30 days then I will keep my memorial and it's photo in place. As per the site guidelines the contributor is supposed to update the location within 30 days of creating it.

If I have posted a picture of a grave marker it is a picture that I have taken myself. I place no monetary value on these photos. I took the pictures to create or complete memorials and provide photo documentation of the grave site. If family or friends would like a copy of the grave site photos they are welcome to them.
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Messages left for MaryK4d4 (92)[Leave Message]
RE: Wilma Bass Scanlon
Thank you MaryK4d4. This information is most helpful.
Added by dms98 on Apr 13, 2014 4:17 AM
Jasper Chambers
Thank you for the picture!
Do you know if this was a special grave marker with all of the people listed from a pauper section or something else? I've never seen anything like this!
Thanks for your help,
Added by Diana on Mar 27, 2014 4:38 PM
Pam's memorial
Thank you for leaving flowers for Pam. It means so much to me.
Added by ncsearch on Mar 10, 2014 12:23 AM
Everett Mefford
Richard Michael "Augie" Augustino


I have changed the cemetary and I thank you for the correction
Added by Everett Mefford on Mar 03, 2014 12:52 AM
Sheila Ruiz Harrell
Lopez, Gus "Kito", Jr #120067942
Thanks so much for posting the photo, our family is very happy to see this beautiful marker!
Added by Sheila Ruiz Harrell on Feb 16, 2014 4:25 PM
Randy Largent
James Largan photo
Thanks a bunch for filling this request.
Randy Largent
Added by Randy Largent on Feb 16, 2014 12:37 PM
Dorothy Akers
Hi Mary - since you've done so much already with the Akers, I transferred Dorothy to you. Thanks for sending me the corrections, and for all the work you do for findagrave! Barb
Added by BJW on Feb 09, 2014 8:52 AM
Kay Neutz
Leon Chamberlain
Thank you so much for taking a picture of my great Uncles name. It is nice to finally see where he was laid to rest.
Added by Kay Neutz on Jan 21, 2014 8:51 AM
Melvin Hill
Thank you very much for taking the time to take and load the photograph :)
Added by ResearchRansom on Jan 19, 2014 5:02 PM
Eric Watson
RE: Sacramento County Cemetery
I think I have only made it to the D's in putting the names on Find a Grave. I have not been able to work on it in a while because of real Job. LOL
Added by Eric Watson on Jan 17, 2014 12:32 PM
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