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Dave (#47976571)
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So many are asking about the bio picture I'm using, it's from a poem written by Monte Leon Manka titled The Shadow on the Wall.

I enjoy working with Find A Grave and I especially enjoy adding photos to memorials so that family members can visit their family member's grave at anytime.

I do not have a problem if you would like to use one of my photo's providing a note of credit is given.

Please REMEMBER I do this in my FREE time out of respect for the families. If mistakes are made, BE KIND and remember this isn't a paying JOB.

We are here to help each other, and it would give me honor to know I have helped one. Thank you for caring about the family I also care about so deeply.


FYI: For our Veterans Graves

While visiting some cemeteries you may notice that headstones marking certain graves have coins on them, left by previous visitors to the grave.

These coins have distinct meanings when left on the headstones of those who gave their life while serving in America's military, and these meanings vary depending on the denomination of coin.

A coin left on a tombstone or at the grave site is meant as a message to the deceased soldier's family that someone else has visited the grave to pay respect.

Leaving a penny at the grave means simply that you visited.

A nickel indicates that you and the deceased trained at boot camp together.

A dime means you served with him in some capacity.

By leaving a quarter at the grave, you are telling the family that you were with the solider when he was killed.

According to tradition, the money left at graves in national cemeteries and state veterans cemeteries is eventually collected, and the funds are put toward maintaining the cemetery or paying burial costs for indigent veterans.

In the United States, this practice became common during the Vietnam war, due to the political divide in the country over the war; leaving a coin was seen as a more practical way to communicate that you had visited the grave than contacting the soldier's family, which could devolve into an uncomfortable argument over politics relating to the war.

Some Vietnam veterans would leave coins as a down payment to buy their fallen comrades a beer or play a hand of cards when they would finally be reunited.

The tradition of leaving coins on the headstones of military men and women can be traced to as far back as the Roman Empire.

Symbols for the Folds of the Flag

The first fold of our flag is a symbol of life.

The second fold is a symbol of our belief in eternal life.

The third fold is made in honor and remembrance of the veteran departing our ranks, and who gave a portion of his or her life for the defense of our country to attain peace throughout the world.

The fourth fold represents our weaker nature; as American citizens trusting in God, it is to Him we turn in times of peace, as well as in times of war, for His divine guidance.

The fifth fold is a tribute to our country, for in the words of Stephen Decatur, Our country, in dealing with other countries, may she always be right, but it is still our country, right or wrong.

The sixth fold is for where our hearts lie. It is with our heart that we pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic for which it stands, one nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.

The seventh fold is a tribute to our armed forces, for it is through the armed forces that we protect our country and our flag against all enemies, whether they be found within or without the boundaries of our republic.

The eighth fold is a tribute to the one who entered into the valley of the shadow of death, that we might see the light of day, and to honor our mother, for whom it flies on Mother's Day.

The ninth fold is a tribute to womanhood, for it has been through their faith, love, loyalty and devotion that the character of the men and women who have made this country great have been molded.

The 10th fold is a tribute to father, for he, too, has given his sons and daughters for the defense of our country since he or she was first born.

The 11th fold in the eyes of Hebrew citizens, represents the lower portion of the seal of King David and King Solomon and glorifies, in their eyes, the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.

The 12th fold in the eyes of a Christian citizen, represents an emblem of eternity and glorifies, in their eyes, God the Father, the Son and Holy Ghost.

When the flag is completely folded, the stars are uppermost, reminding us of our national motto, In God We Trust.
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Teresa J
Ferd Weiler
Thanks for photographing his gravestone - really appreciate that!
Added by Teresa J on Jul 22, 2014 9:20 AM
Tom Glowacki
Charles H. Blackburn
Thanks for taking your time to go and get this photo for me.

Best wishes,
Tom Glowacki Hollister, CA
Added by Tom Glowacki on Jul 22, 2014 8:03 AM
Kim S.
RE: Re: Corp Robert Jursch
Thank you so much for creating yours! Yes, there are three cenotaphs - one at the war memorial in his hometown, St. Helena, one at the National Korean War Memorial, and one in the family hometown, where his mother and maternal grandparents are buried, and where - as you saw - his military marker was laid.

I don't have a clue how to create a link! I wanted to link mine to both yours and Connie's. So thank you, and if you can walk me through what to do from my end to ensure all three cenotaph memorial sites are linked, I would be happy to learn!

Bless you for what you have done.
His story is very moving.
I came across him today while fulfilling a photo request for his mother. Was that from you?

Added by Kim S. on Jul 22, 2014 12:46 AM
Werner Sieber
Thank you for the photo of Werner Sieber and the many others listed on the stone. How very interesting the bio along with the names. A hero's salute to all of them. Again many, many thanks!
Added by YankeeGraver on Jul 21, 2014 8:35 PM
Mary L
RE: Re: Jensen's
I want to get a better picture the one I have has bird stuff on it will take a better picture Tuesday after we mow the grass
Added by Mary L on Jul 21, 2014 5:10 PM
Brenda Caudill Middleton
Vernon J. Black

Thank you so much for taking the photo of his stone.

Added by Brenda Caudill Middleton on Jul 19, 2014 6:51 AM
Donna White
re: Alice Hamden
Dave, Thank you for the pic of Alice Hamden's gravestone. I appreciate it very much. donna white
Added by Donna White on Jul 17, 2014 7:15 PM
Faye Cornett
Richard Carson
Dave,thank you so much for the picture of the headstone for Richard Carson.I really appreciate it.Thanks,Faye
Added by Faye Cornett on Jul 17, 2014 5:48 PM
Skillman photo
Thank you for taking this photo. You must be very familiar with the layout of the cemetery and I appreciate your effort very much.
Added by GrannyPam on Jul 17, 2014 5:10 AM
Ed Breen
RE: Re: Edward. G Breen
I tried your suggestion and I think it might just work. Your a genius. Thanks so much. I have been trying to solve that problem for three days now and I think you gave me an idea that will. I really dislike people who post wrong information and then when you write them back with corrections they never reply back to you. I suppose you also run into that alot. Alot of people seem to do that in this line of work and it's frustrating to those of us who try and be accurate. If you are really interested in the life story of Edward Grimes Breen I did write a book on his life called "Lucky Eddie" and you can buy it at Carroll on Park gift shop next door to the Cemetery. Again thanks for your solution to my problem..Best Ed B.
Added by Ed Breen on Jul 16, 2014 5:55 PM
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