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Sandy Rentfrow (#48139471)
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Tami Lee Jensen
RE: Robert Eugene Rentfrow
Hi Sandy,

Thank you for getting back to me so quickly. My relationship with my dad was sporadic at best.

Here is what I know:

My mother (Jo Anne Bothamley) was his first wife which is where I came into the picture. She passed away suddenly 4 months and nine days prior to my father.

His second wife (I have forgotten her name)lives somewhere in Santa Barbara with his first son Bobby. From what I understand Bobby had very negative feelings about my father and proclaimed him dead many years before he actually died.

His third wife, Charlene Vasquez, had two children with my father. I would assume that is the Michael that you are referring to (the girl was a couple of years younger). I saw Charlene and the kids around 1997. They moved on and didn't leave a forwarding address.

Without being disrespectful, I knew my father to be a man that was "high on the hog" or "down in the dirt". When he passed he left his wife and two children with a great big house but no insurance. He worked for a car dealership at the time, I tried to get them to pay his current family for funeral expenses and so forth, as he fell while on the job. With no success.

As you know, he is buried in Houston and we were able to have his service at the VA cemetery. I have only been back to his grave a couple of times.

My Grandad, Clifford, was such a joy! I remember him as being so funny and quick witted and always loving. Grandma Nell always had her cup half empty - never half full. She carried the burdens of life heavily I guess.

I did not know that my dear Aunt Rita passed. She was a beautiful woman with a heart of gold. Nobody informed me. She called me when uncle Terry passed. Aunt Rita took care of me for a period of time in Santa Maria when I was little.

About uncle Rodney, he came out when my dad was in hospice. At that time, he still lived in CA and his wife was a police officer. I do know that they have children. He hasn't reached out to me and I haven't reached out to him.

One question that I do have; my father was always proud of his Indian heritage which I understood to be from Grandad Clifford. Can you verify if this is true, and if so, what origination?

I hope to meet you sometime. It would be nice to know that I have family somewhere.

Tami Jensen

Added by Tami Lee Jensen on Dec 19, 2014 11:42 AM

Tami Lee Jensen
Robert Eugene Rentfrow
This man was my father. I am not sure who you are, as my dad was a unique individual that took life as it came to him. I would like to know if you are related to me or know how I can reach out to his other children. Life is too short to let someone pass through and be gone forever.

Added by Tami Lee Jensen on Dec 18, 2014 4:32 PM

M. Richards
Eleanor Stanton
Sandy,
Thank you for the additions to her Ellie's memorial. I was told that she went by her middle name, Ellie. So she went by her first name? Thanks again for helping to make her memorial more complete.
Blessings,
Mary R.

Added by M. Richards on Jun 26, 2014 9:17 AM

Larry Wales
Kenneth Johnson
you're welcome, I'll check for Kenneth, Larry

Added by Larry Wales on Jun 10, 2014 10:09 AM

Larry Wales
Wolfinbarger
Forgot, Marathon Cemetery

Added by Larry Wales on Jun 10, 2014 12:11 AM

Larry Wales
Wolfinbarger
Added photo's, also an Eleanor Mules buried on this same plot, Larry

Added by Larry Wales on Jun 10, 2014 12:10 AM

Smallantique
Josiah Howard
Thank so much for posting a photo of Josiah's headstone....a photo is a beautiful confirmation of a final resting place.

Added by Smallantique on May 08, 2014 12:24 PM

Judie
Madeleine Molder
Thanks for the links to her parents. Your help is appreciated very much.

Added by Judie on Apr 24, 2014 11:26 AM

Patsy Lubben DiMarco
Bouvier Memeriol
Thank for the update. God Bless Patsy

Added by Patsy Lubben DiMarco on Apr 02, 2014 1:28 PM

Mia Houghton
Ross family- Ivy Lawn, Ventura CA
Just wanted to let you know I added a couple of links to Bill Ross at Ivy Lawn. It looks like you are family

Added by Mia Houghton on Mar 21, 2014 5:51 PM

Phyllis Krueger
RE: Della Nichols
Thank you so much for checking on her marker. Phyllis Krueger

Added by Phyllis Krueger on Feb 28, 2014 10:25 PM

Phyllis Krueger
Della Nichols
Thank you for the photo - was hoping the marker would be in place already. Phyllis Krueger

Added by Phyllis Krueger on Feb 27, 2014 10:39 PM

Linda Crawford
Purhenn
Thank you for your time and for the photo of my Grandfather stone ..

Added by Linda Crawford on Feb 21, 2014 7:19 PM

Linda Crawford
Andrew Reser
Thank you for your time and for the photo..

Added by Linda Crawford on Feb 21, 2014 6:20 AM

Rosalie
McAninch
I made the links and additions you sent. Thanks for the information!

Added by Rosalie on Feb 19, 2014 5:23 PM

Bonnie
Re: Johnathan Hunt
Have made the link you requested. Also added Levi Hunt to the Lincoln Memorial Cemetery per his obit.

Thank you, Bonnie

Added by Bonnie on Dec 13, 2013 5:20 PM

Cheryl Hanson
Martin & Frazier
Hi Sandy,

Both have been connected to their parents.

Thank you,
Cheryl

Added by Cheryl Hanson on Dec 12, 2013 5:44 PM

Nathan Haines
RE: Martha Hunt
OK, sounds good. I shipped her off to you. It appears her maiden name is Perkins. I forgot to add that to her page.
Nathan

Added by Nathan Haines on Dec 12, 2013 4:30 PM

Nathan Haines
Martha Hunt
OK, I made the links for Martha as you requested. I will transfer her to you if you like. I am not related in any way.
Nathan

Added by Nathan Haines on Dec 12, 2013 3:23 PM

Joanne
Ray Vansandt
Sandy, I have connected Ray to his parents memorials. Thank you for sending the information.
Joanne

Added by Joanne on Dec 10, 2013 12:12 PM

Erv & Patty Hudson
Lucille Parrish
Hello Sandy
I have linked Lucille Parrish to her mother, Lula Skinner. Thank you for the information Sandy.
Patty - member #47932711

Added by Erv & Patty Hudson on Dec 02, 2013 8:41 PM

Mike Smith
Tritthart, Rose Mary (Koch)
Dear Sandy, Thank you very much for going out and taking the photo of my families headstone and posting it for all to be able to view. Mike, Oregon

Added by Mike Smith on Nov 19, 2013 2:55 PM

M. Richards
FARMER WHITEHURST
Sandy, the links have been made. Thank you for the memorial numbers and information. This is what makes find-a-grave so great; everyone is willing to assist each other where they can. Blessings in all your endeavors. Mary

Added by M. Richards on Nov 10, 2013 10:18 PM

JayCee
James R.
Sandy, I transferred the memorial to you. I assume that he is a relative. If I hold any more memorials that are relatives please let me know and I will be glad to transfer them to you.

Added by JayCee on Nov 07, 2013 7:24 PM

Clay
Verda Rentfrow
Your requested changes made.

I took the photo and entered the memorial as part of a small photo survey and am not related to Verda. I assume from your last name that you are related to her. I would be happy to transfer the memorial to you; let me know if you so desire.

Added by Clay on Nov 07, 2013 6:47 PM

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