Begin New Search
Refine Last Search
Cemetery Lookup
Add Burial Records
Help with Find A Grave

Top Contributors
Success Stories
Community Forums
Find A Grave Store

Log In
anne (#47359288)
 member for 5 years, 11 months, 8 days
Chris Enright Snyder
RE: Niles family in Maplewood
Hi Anne,
I've completed my research on the Niles-Trull plot in Marlborough's Maplewood. You might want to copy some of the documents I came up with for William Henry Niles and/or his parents Amos & Ann Niles too. See LYDIA KNIGHT CLOUGH NILES page on findagrave #157619336. Hope this helps. Take care!

Added by Chris Enright Snyder on Feb 02, 2016 2:02 PM

Chris Enright Snyder
RE: Niles family in Maplewood
Hi Anne,
I've completed my research on the Niles-Trull plot in Marlborough's Maplewood. You might want to copy some of the documents I came up with for William Henry Niles and/or his parents Amos & Ann Niles too. See LYDIA KNIGHT CLOUGH NILES page on findagrave #157619336. Hope this helps. Take care!

Added by Chris Enright Snyder on Feb 02, 2016 1:52 PM

RE: Margaret Nash Niles gravestone photo
Regarding our being distant cousins... The longer I look into the lines of my family, the more I think I'm related to everybody in the United States & Canada!
Isn't genealogy wonderful?!?!

Added by MissKitty on Jan 16, 2016 4:56 PM

Margaret (Nash) Niles gravestone photo
May I have your permission to download the photo of the gravestone of Margaret (Nash) Niles (Memorial# 80415534)?
I would like to upload it into my Ancestry Family Tree.
Thank you for your consideration.
-Ro Fleury

Added by MissKitty on Jan 14, 2016 1:30 PM

adeana patterson
RE: Effie Paris Purl
Can you email me at


Added by adeana patterson on Jul 20, 2015 9:12 PM

Larry K
RE: Martin Urban Jackson
Sorry, it's buried. and there is no marker or headstone for Martin.

Added by Larry K on Jul 05, 2015 12:21 AM

Larry K
Jackson & Purcell
Hello Anne
I just added pictures for Charles Jackson & Dorothe, and the Purcells at Holy Cross Cemetery.
Cheers, Larry

Added by Larry K on Jul 03, 2015 10:31 PM

Larry K
Charles Jackson
Hi, transfer made.
I'm not a relative, so am very happy to have family connected to the memorial.
Enjoy, Larry

Added by Larry K on Jun 29, 2015 11:41 AM

RE: Ohoto: Franklin S. Downs
Anne, Not a problem! Glad you liked it! Melody

Added by Melody on Jun 08, 2015 7:59 PM

JBrown, IA, MN, Calif, AustinTX
RE: Virtual Cemeteries
(1) "I guess that I am very likely a distant cousin of your husband."

Yes. i don't think we need to tell our grandkids not to marry, but my mother-in-law would be delighted that cousinsare out there , as she still remembers family talking about her great-grandmother Mary Eliza French.

Grandmothers who married Frenches would be these 7 generations, with Margaret Niles leaving Braintree right ahead of the Amer. Rev.:

The men surnamed French would be:

The "?" represents our not yet being able to determine which son of Braintree-born Abiathar2 is correct. There are land records in Ohio that could help, but, how to go about getting them?? If anybody has tips, I'm listening.

(2) "Did you know that Obama is an Abbott from PA, but can't be placed pre-1800."

No. Cool. More on Abbot/Abbott below, spelling changes and moves make them tough to track

(3) Did you know that one of the Barker-French descendents married into the Fondas, a Douw Fonda, I think? A pharmacist in NY, no actor Fondas out to California yet.

(4) About going in circles-- even an "A" student gets only 95% correct on a test. The wrong 5% is the price paid for the 95% of new stuff that is correct.

My biggest 5% confusion lasted a year due to the old mix-up of the two early Puritans- the John French born too late, 1622, wrong DNA, with the bit-older Braintree John French that I really needed.

If the 1622 John French is still in your Braintree French virtual cemetery, a bunch of people have made changes so you can now fix your virtual.

ADD ONE, DEATH 1692. Go to Grace in your virtual, click on her spouse link, now the correct John, to link him in.

REMOVE ONE, BORN 1622. The too-young 1622 John French was sent off to Bridge Cemetery in western Mass. to be with his true wife, Freedom Kingsley, so you can remove him.

ODD SEARCH "BUG". Due to how findagrave's search works, entering the correct state or county will result in the correct John French NOT being found. OUCH. You have to enter the death year 1692 and leave location TOTALLY blank. i think it is because no cemetery has been entered for him.

The owner of this John French is reluctant to put him in the Hancock Cemetery, as there is no stone. John could have been buried on a farm or tossed at sea. Somebody went through the cemetery in 1879 and wrote down all the inscriptions for a published book now online, with nothing found of a stone that, if it had existed, already almost 200 years old by then, had been easily toppled and buried by dirt from new graves or was broken and discarded.

(4) Some Abbotts used the "Abbot" spelling while in NY and Ohio. That and their many moves do make them very hard to place. After leaving Fort Stanwix NY, David Abbot went westward to Ohio territory, in 1797, with a Peter French who had ties to the Genesee Valley in NY, a frontier place. Abbot built a very early mill near the mouth or maybe a ford of the Chagrin River area, near where it flows into Lake Erie. It's the first river east of Cleveland.

This Peter French may not be the same DNA, ancestry unclear, but he is always smack dab in the middle of the Braintree-descended bunch that went to Lake County, OH.

Added by JBrown, IA, MN, Calif, Au... on May 14, 2015 9:03 PM

JBrown, IA, MN, Calif, AustinTX
RE: John French
Anne--You're welcome. You have virtual cemeteries for names I've seen repeatedly in my husbands Puritan side of the family as related to them or neighbors. I'll have to study them. Are you aware of any Abbot/Abbott that married any of the Braintree Mass. bunch, especially the Frenches? in Mass. or maybe after they migrated into western NY or eastern Ohio? I might have some other questions later, Most of my virtuals are not yet ready for prime time. I've been researching this stuff for a few years, and am now ready to start putting things at findagrave, but am still learning

Added by JBrown, IA, MN, Calif, Au... on May 13, 2015 2:01 AM

Valerie Liles
RE: Nathaniel Dikeman
Thanks, Anne! Forwarded your response, and your email address to my cousin, Bev, who wrote you using my Find A Grave account... Val

Added by Valerie Liles on May 04, 2015 2:55 PM

Valerie Liles
Nathaniel Dikeman
Hello, I am a descendant of Nathaniel and will be in CT in July. I will go by the cemetery and take a photo of the gravestone. Please feel free to contact me. I am also on and happy to share any info.

Added by Valerie Liles on May 03, 2015 10:02 AM

Krista AQ & Tommy Thompson
RE: Matthias Saint John
Hi, Anne!

I did some more digging, and you're right--while I find a few sources that give his date of death in December, they're smaller family tree-type sources, and they likely mistook "dec'd" for "dec'r". However, his widow was declared administratrix of his will (and his possessions were inventoried) September 26, 1732. So barring some fancy Dr. Who action, he died earlier than December--likely September.

Thank you!


Added by Krista AQ & Tommy Thompso... on Apr 03, 2015 7:41 AM

Linda Burton Kochanov
RE: Dikeman and beyond
My pleasure..And I know you'll take very good care of them. Let me know if there are any other family members in the area. I will hunt them down for you!!! Take care!

Added by Linda Burton Kochanov on Jan 19, 2015 2:19 PM

Linda Burton Kochanov
RE: Dikeman / Allen / Selleck
They're obviously your family...and family stays with family. Take good care of them..Edmund and Hester are buried next to Joseph and Angelina you want them, too? Just let me know..happy hunting.

Added by Linda Burton Kochanov on Jan 18, 2015 2:29 PM

Lt John Olmstead
John is my 9th great grandfather. I was wondering what his military service included, years, branch, wars, etc.

Do you have any information you could pass on?


Added by RoMoJo65 on Nov 16, 2014 2:01 PM

RE: Thayer/ Nash / Niles
Hi Anne - so sorry for the delayed response. I hear you re the NYH&G Society Publications carrying weight. I generally used to just follow them until I found this weird thing about my grandmother's family and it turned out that they had mis-transcribed a letter from my uncle and deleted a couple of commas -- which ended up transferring my grandmothers brothers to her mother!!! It took quite a while to straighten out.

I will dig through and send you what I have on Thayer/Nash/Niles!!


Added by CAS56 on Oct 29, 2014 8:09 AM

John M
east Sweden cemetery is a poor dup of east lake cemetery

Added by John M on Oct 18, 2014 6:27 AM

John M
east lake cemetery
I don't see the dups you are talking about.
if they are redundant than just delete them.

Added by John M on Oct 18, 2014 3:54 AM

Allen Niles
RE: Amos Niles
He's not in my line. Sorry, I don't know anyone who is. But thanks for your effort.

Added by Allen Niles on Oct 17, 2014 2:50 PM

Jim Childers
RE: John Hoffman
Thank you, but John Hoffman is not related, I was just making links and adding history to memorials, which I di a lot of, just to make the memorials better for everybody.
The new edit tab is for making corrections, all you have to do is click and approve, no typing or adding things in manually. If you don't reply to them within a certain amount of time, Findagrave will step in an do it for you. They have taken over much more control of the site since Ancestry bought it over a year ago.

Added by Jim Childers on Sep 30, 2014 6:28 PM

Thank you Anne. Bergen-op-Zoom Canadian War Cemetery is not far from my hometown. Love the picture of Pvt Lefurgey.

Added by Astrid on Sep 08, 2014 3:29 AM

RE: Duplicates
I know I still have several duplicates, even though I thought I had cleaned them all up at one time. I wish the program could detect them somehow, but I don't think it can. Oh well, better 1, 2 or 3, than none. LOL

Added by Eliza on Sep 08, 2014 2:06 AM

RE: Anabelle Lefurgey
Hi Anne,

I hadn't realized I'd created a duplicate of your memorial. My intention is always to add just the photo to a memorial already created. This happened to be one of the duplicates I overlooked and didn't catch. So I went ahead and deleted the memorial I created and added the photo to your memorial. No, she is not related to my family that I know of. I definitely like them consolidated whenever possible.

Take care.


Added by Eliza on Sep 07, 2014 1:25 AM


Privacy Statement and Terms of Service