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Cindy - Living To Tell (#47061506)
 member for 7 years, 7 months, 14 days
ms. jenkins
Hello Cindy,

I was just wondering if you ask the family members if ok to post there loved ones stones?

Added by ms. jenkins on Mar 17, 2016 7:58 PM

Memorial# 18014039
My name is Kate and I have been putting together a genealogy for my motherís ancestors. I have interspersed various photographs within the text to accent interesting facts about some ancestors. I plan to publish and print hard copy books for my immediate family and their children. I have included the following photo, Robert Swann, Sr. Memorial# 18014039, that you posted and I donít want to use it in my book without your explicit permission. I will include your credit with the photograph and Find A Grave in the citations.

Last week a friend of mine who works in the printing industry approached me with an offer to print and bind my book at no charge if I allow the printer to use the content in a sample print run of approximately 100 books. They would not be sold but instead would be distributed to demonstrate digital ink jet technology. I would like to accept this offer, however, I cannot do so without gaining your permission to use your posted photograph.

Would you please grant me permission to use your posted photograph, listed above, in my book.

Thank you for your consideration, please respond at your earliest opportunity.



Added by Kate on Sep 20, 2015 5:20 PM

Undertaker's Gr-Granddaughter
Doo you know if she ever got a headstone?

Added by Undertaker's Gr-Granddaug... on Sep 15, 2015 5:52 PM

Carolyn Highwood
How wonderful yes I would like to participate in any I can.

Added by Carolyn Highwood on Jul 15, 2015 5:41 AM

RE: The Book You're Putting together
Hi Cindy,
I'd definitely be interesting in participating in the book that you're putting together. It sounds very interesting.

Added by James on Jul 12, 2015 4:50 AM

Butch Cook
Do you have take care of all Butch's entries? I'm finding lots that are posted but it's before they were deceased. So, they have passed and I'm not sure how to go about adding the info. Any help would be great! I sent about 3 edits thru, just wasn't sure where the were going:)
Are you able to transfer the names I mentioned in the St.Joseph's cemeter? pam

Added by pmazo on Mar 30, 2015 4:49 PM

RE: Families in St. Joseph Cemetery
Hi Cindy,
I just entered an obit that has his children in St. Joseph's cemetery.They are under Butch Cook's name. Can you connect them for me? The name is Curtis "Skip" Bouchard and Cathleen A. Bouchard. The Father's name is Curtis C.Bouchard 143404873. Thanks, Pam

Added by pmazo on Mar 06, 2015 5:00 PM

christina daffron
The Daffron Family
I want to thank you for the beautiful job you did for my infant aunt (Mary Daffron's grave). On behalf of our family we greatly appreciate it. xoxoxoxo

Added by christina daffron on Mar 04, 2015 10:42 PM

RE: Families in St. Joseph Cemetery
awesome! Thanks!
All of the payette Family, The bilodeau family, Ronald Brown, Delphina Brown, Charles Brown, Gary Brown, Constance Brown, Kevin Michaud, Annie White, George Fortier, Blanche Fortier, Doris Poley, William WHite.
I wouldn't mind taking over all his in Saint Joseph's cemetery actually, it's up to you.
Also,he had a few listed that weren't deceased yet and they have recently passed.
Pauline Pare 1919- 1-22-15
and Lionel Huberdeau 1920-1-29-2015
I would take those over too if you want.

Added by pmazo on Feb 28, 2015 6:11 AM

Families in St. Joseph Cemetery
Hi Cindy,
Butch Cook has many relatives of mine in St. Joseph's in Haverhill. Is there any way I could take them over? Names are Payette, Bilodeau, Brown, mostly. Thanks! Pam. I think we chatted before, we have a mutual friend on fb:)

Added by pmazo on Feb 26, 2015 5:03 PM

Sarah Wheeler) Spofford Hopkinson
May I have your permission to download the photo of the gravestone of Mrs. Sarah (Wheeler) Spofford Hopkinson (Memorial# 23645431)?
I would like to upload it into my Ancestry family tree.
Thank you for your consideration.
-Ro Fleury

Added by MissKitty on Jan 27, 2015 4:30 PM

Precious Memories
If you ever come arross a grave in St Petersburg for a young teen boy named Kevin Trey, please let me know. Thanks for all you're doing for Findagrave. This is one of my most favorite places on the web. Bless you... (From St. Petersburg) Sandy

Added by Precious Memories on Nov 21, 2014 6:13 PM

RE: Chalking
Thank you so much for the quick response.

I do appreciate your opinion...though we may still have to agree...that we disagree....on some issues.

I will always try other methods...water, photography, etc to see if it helps illuminate information but sometimes I think chalk helps.

I will keep your opinions in mind if, and when, I decide to chalk and always remove it as soon as I have recorded the data.


Added by KKoch on Oct 06, 2014 8:12 PM

RE: Chalking
I was very surprised to see your comments.

I do agree that chalking leaves a very abnormal sense and perhaps is damaging to the the stone. I always try to brush off and then wash off (not an easy task) chalk from stones that I feel are important enough to be chalked.

For a short period of time, I believe the benefit of being able to read the data from the stone is more important than any possible damage to the headstone. I have learned that it is important to try to remove chalk from the stone before I leave the cemetery.

FYI --Most of the stones that you see on my website were not chalked by me. I copied pics from others on Find A Grave (with their permission) and I think the information that was obtained was crucial. Every year, every decade -- these stones become less readable. I can't verify information unless I can palpate..(which I do directly from the stone) or read or chalk....

I think that those that have passed would be happy with what I have done to illuminate their lives and not destroy their past. I hope we can find an understanding.

Kristin Koch

Added by KKoch on Oct 06, 2014 7:24 PM

RE: transfer from Butch Cook
Hi Cindy,

I will send them a message. Thank you for getting back to me.


Added by Deborah on Sep 21, 2014 3:47 PM

transfer from Butch Cook

Butch Cook has ownership of my family's stones from the St. Joesph's cemetary in Haverhill. One of the stone is 9066726. A lot of my husbands family is in this cemetary. Do you have access to be able to transfer these memorials? Thanks Deborah Boisselle

Added by Deborah on Sep 20, 2014 9:00 PM

Gosslin family of Haverhill Mass.
Hello I would like to know how I can connect the Gosselins to their children and parents. I am in the process of getting some obit ordered so that they can be put with the person they belong too. Thank you

Added by I on Jul 13, 2014 3:12 PM

Paul Bradley
Robert & Donna
I've obtained and uploaded a photo of Robert and Donna - Wildwood Cemetery in Seabrook, NH

Added by Paul Bradley on Jun 03, 2014 2:54 PM

Re: Moses Pettingell Photo
Hi Cindy-

Could you please attach your photo of Moses Pettingell # 128294800 and his wife Mary Haskell #128294326 to their Memorials when you have a chance. It is currently attached to one of their children Moses Stuart Pettingell # 38368812. Both photos that you took are wonderful. Thank you so much for finding them. The Pettingell's are my 6th generation cousins.

Best Regards-

Added by SusanG on Apr 21, 2014 1:20 PM

Florida Boy 64
Calvary Catholic Cemetery
Cindy Calvary Cemetery needs a lot of pictures taken. Famous grave race driver Dan Wheldon 78554652 in the same row a few graves over Dr. Elizabeth Koscho 43197968 ( I sponsor her ) since you are living in Clearwater you will have a field day taking pictures and posting them they really need it. And please leave them flowers thank you :)

Added by Florida Boy 64 on Apr 05, 2014 2:15 AM

You are AWESOME! <3 :)

Added by David on Mar 10, 2014 5:07 PM

Paul Bradley
Donna Soucie

Would you add Donna's mom, Gladys...#25417987.


Added by Paul Bradley on Jan 16, 2014 7:24 PM

Paul Bradley
Cindy, could you add Donna's mom #25417987


Added by Paul Bradley on Jan 16, 2014 7:22 PM

Headstone pic
I would like to add the photo of Elizabeth Jane Rogers Strout's (# 15689223) headstone & her husband Ebenezer Strout(#15689277 to my family tree on Ancestry. She was my 5th cousin 3x removed,not close but still family.

Thank you,

Ann Rogenski # 47180359

Added by ANN ROGENSKI on Sep 22, 2013 5:08 PM

Florida Boy 64
How have you been
I just want to know how have you been? I have sponsored some more new people Jessie, laura, candy when you can please leave them a flower and let me know how you are doing

Added by Florida Boy 64 on Aug 04, 2013 1:40 PM


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