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LTC Stephen Potter "Big Steve" De Mallie
Birth: Jan. 14, 1923
Middlesex County
Massachusetts, USA
Death: May 1, 2008
Bergen County
New Jersey, USA

Stephen Potter De Mallie was a Great American, Lowellian, Christian, Republican, great caring, loving, giving, honest, wonderful gentleman.He served with honor in two Wars. World War II, Korean Actions, and active USNR as a well respected US Naval Officer. He was one of the first ever on Television. His son Jonathan the first on Stereo TV.

He was the worlds very best in his fields of Research / Textiles.

A Judge. An Arbitration Judge.

A son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, Uncle, Great Uncle, Great Great Uncle, friend, and Worldwide Christian leader.

He was schooled at Lowell Public High School, Lowell Textile Institute (University MASSACHUSETTS/Lowell- UML).

Scholarships we have set up here also, Tufts, Harvard, Kimball Union to be a Navy fighter pilot,(USNTC Bainbridge) Port Deposit, Cecil County, Md. for US Naval Officers, and Williams College.

*NOTE*Endowed scholarships eg: (De Mallie Family Scholarship) at the UML where your/our, FULLY Tax Deductable your Contributions are, Donations are put in it for a History/Geneology Student(s).
Another is as well at Longwood in Virginia, named for Glenn Addison Payne, Jr..

Did you know this Massachusetts higher education facility in Lowell, UML, is where Major League Baseball (MLB) tests all the official MLB baseball bats at?

Stephen Potter De Mallie and his wife, Mrs. Mary Lib Harvey De Mallie both were invited to teach in Communist CHINA by both Countries (US and CHINA) Presidents not once..but Three Times. Because of the T.Square problem they chose not to that last fourth time.

He met, his only wife in the exact middle in Delaware ( The First State )exactly between Ma. and Va. (both American Commonwealths) then fell in love, married Miss Mary Elizabeth Bowles Harvey, Honors Graduate of Longwood College, as A respected Nylon Researc Lab Chemist at the Second Baptist Church at Broom and Harrison Streets, officiated by the Reverend R.E.E. Harkness from McGill in Montreal, Vanada as the Reverend Baker was on vacation, nearby was the the E. I. du Pont de Muemours Country Club and University Club on Broom Street (DD: NYSE) , with full US Naval Military Honors and a wonderful standing room only, full house ceremony, in Delaware where they both worked at DD :NYSE and he was called again to report/serve his country as an Officer in the US Navy the day after they married.

They had two planned children, both sons after the marriage, Stephen Mitchell and Jonathan Robert the eldest born in the Brooklyn Borough, NYC, NY and the youngest in Orange at Orange Memorial, he was the first person ever on stereo and color television.

His tombstone now is of a.d. 06/14/2012 at Bethlehem United Methodist Church in Roseland, Nelson County, Virginia 22967-9999 where a special memorial service was held after one at the Watchung Presbyterian Church on Watchung Avenue as well in Bloomfield, Essex County, New Jersey 07003-9999 where he was an respected member and Church Elder.

1947 Stephen Potter De Mallie was chosen for the Navy Goodwill Cruise to England, Scotland, France, Denmark, and Sweden. His ship, USS RANDOLPH, CV/Cva/ Cvs -15 had Three Battle Stars. Dad's ship, on the Goodwill Tour moored in Greenock, Scotland, UK when they invited the then 10th Duke of Argyll Niall Diarmid Campbell (16 February 1872 – 20 August 1949) aboard ship for lunch for which the Duke accepted. The Duke thusly invited my Dad and the other officers to his residence, Inveraray Castle, Argyll and they did well in having a wonderful time. Low and behold my Father Stephen Potter De Mallie and 10th Duke of Argyll Niall Diarmid Campbell they did not know they were so very close of kin and clan.. He went on special leave to Paris on July Fourth also Bastille Day.
Oooh La La.. vie la France..FREE FLANDERS!

Admiral David Potter
Admiral David Potter
Son of
Col William Elmer Potter
Col. W.E.Potter

A few more hundreds of years ago here below:*****

In Alexandre Dumas' novel "The Three Musketeers," Louis XIII and Cardinal Richelieu have been depicted in numerous films as well stories.

Armand-Jean Du Plessis Richelieu
Birth: Sep. 9, 1585, France
Death: Dec. 4, 1642, France

He was first minister of French King (Kin) Louis XIII (1624 to 1642), and the maker of modern France.

Cardinal Richelieu

His only Sister, Nicole du Plessis-Richelieu de Maillé married Marshall Urbain de Maillé.

Marshall of France, Urbain de Maillé

They married on November 25, 1617 Nicole du Plessis-Richelieu (1587–1635)in a lavish ceremony given by the King and attended by all at his castle in the Church at Milly le Meugon Gennes, Dept. de Mainet-Loire , Pays de la Loire, France.

This union produced Frances first Grand Admiral Jean Armand de Maillé-Brézé, Duke of Fronsac, Marquis of Brézé (18 October 1619 – 14 June 1646)
Grand Admiral Jean Armand de Maillé-Brézé, Duke of Fronsac, Marquis of Brézé and his sister Claire Clémence de Maillé-Brézé (25 February 1628 – 16 April 1694) who at five years old the Cardinal arranged her marriage already to general le Grand Condé, "the Great Condé" Louis de Bourbon, Prince of Condé (8 September 1621 – 11 December 1686).

As Claire Clémence de Maillé she married Louis de Bourbon, Prince of Condé a member of the reigning House of Bourbon, she became a Princess of the Blood and had the style Serene Highness. After his father's death in 1646, her husband became the First Prince of the Blood, which was the most important rank behind that of the members of the royal family.

Married at Palais Royal in Paris February 1641 in the presence of Louis XIII, Anne of Austria and Gaston d'Orléans.
She was now known as Madame la Princesse.

He is regarded as one of the premier generals in world history, whose masterpiece, the Battle of Rocroi, is still studied by students of military strategy.

His descendants include the present-day pretenders to the throne of France and Italy and the kings of Spain and Belgium.

He was portrayed in the film Vatel by Julian Glover.

French King Louis XIII

King Louis XIII

(died 312 years on my, his dad 345 years, JRD, my DOB)

Birth: Sep. 27, 1601
Château de Fontainebleau
Departement de Seine-et-Marne
Ile-de-France, France

Death: May 14, 1643
Departement des Yvelines
Ile-de-France, France

Birth: Sep. 27, 1601
Fontainebleau, France

Death: May 14, 1643
Paris, France

Alexandre Dumas' novel "The Three Musketeers"

(his Dad, King Henri, IV )

King Henry IV
Birth: Dec. 13, 1553
Departement des Pyrenees-Atlantiques
Aquitaine, France

Death: May 14, 1610
Ile-de-France, France
** His son
King Louis, XIV

French King. The longest-reigning monarch in European history, Louis ascended the throne at the age of four.
"(L'etat, c'est moi)."

" GOD Speed Stephen Potter De Mallie! We all love/loved you not in mere words!"
Bio by; Jonathan Robert De Mallie

"May the Lord bless you Stephen as you have begun a new journey."

Mrs. Mary Elizabeth De Mallie

Isaac Ernest DeMallie Grand Parents:
* Rochester, Monroe, NY, 18 Dec 1887
† Lowell, Middlesex, MA, 09 Jun

Father: Isaac De Mallie
Mother: Bernada Mengerink
Marriage: 1914.
Madeline Julia Potter Parents:
* Lowell, Middlesex, MA, 24 Feb 1894
† Greenfield, Franklin, MA, 27 Aug 1962

Campbell DeMallie MA, 05 Jul 1915
William Wilson DeMallie MA, 18 Nov 1916
John H. DeMallie MA, 29 Jul 1918
Peter DeMallie MA 14 Aug 1920
Stephen Potter DeMallie Lowell, Middlesex, MA 14 Jan 1923
Cynthia Ainsworth DeMallie MA, 19 Nov 1927


Isaac De Mallie Parents:
NY, 25 Dec 1856
Rochester, Monroe, NY, 18 Apr 1923.
Father: Abraham de Maillie
Mother: Adriana Steijaart
Marriage: rond 1873

Bernada Mengerink Parents:
* Rochester, Monroe, NY, 10 Nov 1855.
† Rochester, Monroe, NY, 27 Jul 1928.

Abraham De Mallie Rochester, Monroe, NY, rond 1873
Abraham Willian De Mallie NY, 31 Dec 1877
Bertha D. De Mallie NY, 24 Mar 1881
William John De Mallie NY, 06 Apr 1883
Bayard Thomas De Mallie NY, 16 Mar 1885
Isaac Ernest DeMallie Rochester, Monroe, NY, 18 Dec 1887
John Mengerink De Mallie Rochester, Monroe, NY, 13 Nov 1888


Abraham de Maillie Parents:
Groede, NL, 10 Apr 1821
Rochester, Monroe, NY, 03 Apr 1907
Father: Martinus de Maillie
Mother: Elizabeth Bron

Emigratie: 08 Jan 1855 naar North America
Aankomst van Delia op 03 Aug 1855 op bestemming.
Marriage: Groede, NL, 09 Apr 1846
Adriana Steijaart

* Zuidzande, NL, 02 Feb 1816
† Rochester, Monroe, NY, 23 Dec 1878
Father: Izaak Steijaart
Mother: Johanna Maria de Boo
Martinus de Maillie Groede, NL, 12 Dec 1846
Elizabeth de Maillie Nieuwvliet, NL, 12 Oct 1849
Magdalena de Maillie Nieuwvliet, NL, 02 Dec 1852
Isaac De Mallie NY, 25 Dec 1856


Martinus de Maillie
* Zuidzande, NL, 23 Aug 1796.1
† Irondequoit, Monroe, NY, rond 1878

Father: Abraham de Maillie
Mother: Susanna Deunink

Emigratie: 17 Apr 1854 naar North America
Aankomst van Isabella op 01 Jul 1854 op bestemming
Marriage: Groede, NL, 04 Dec 1816
Elizabeth Bron Parents:
* Groede, NL, 28 Oct 1794
† Irondequoit, Monroe, NY, 20 May 1883.
Father: Philippus Bron
Mother: Sara Sohier
Susanna de Maillie Groede, NL, 22 Jun 1817
Sara Suzanna de Maillie Groede, NL, rond 1818
Abraham de Maillie Groede, NL, 10 Apr 1821
Philippus de Maillie Nieuwvliet, NL, 23 Oct 1823
Izaak de Maillie Nieuwvliet, NL, 13 Feb 1826
Martinus de Maillie Nieuwvliet, NL, 23 Oct 1827
Jannes de Maillie Nieuwvliet, NL, 12 Dec 1829
Maria de Maillie Nieuwvliet, NL, 27 Dec 1834


Abraham de Maillie
06 Jan 1760.
Nieuwvliet, NL, 16 Oct 1804
Marriage: Oostburg, Zld, NL, rond 1789.
Susanna Deunink
Aardenburg, NL, 06 Mar 1762.2
Nieuwvliet, NL, 25 Aug 1823.3
Father: Willem Deunink
Mother: Susanna de Reu
Izaak de Maillie Oostburg, Zld, NL, 23 May 1790
Maria Johanna de Maillie Oostburg, Zld, NL, rond 1792
Martinus de Maillie Zuidzande, NL, 23 Aug 1796
Abraham de Maillie Nieuwvliet, NL, 16 Dec 1797
Jannis de Maillie Nieuwvliet, NL, 02 Dec 1798
Sentina Jozina de Maillie Nieuwvliet, NL, 29 Nov 1799

Born approx 1855 A.D.

This from the Rochester (Monroe Cp.), NY Times Union, 12 August 1917, p. 5):

DE MALLIE. Entered into rest, Thursday evening, August 9, 1917, Isaac DE MALLIE, Jr., aged 62 years.

He is survived by his wife, Rose FACKLER DE MALLIE, two sons, Arthur R. and Herbert L., one grandson, his father and two sisters, Mrs. Mary VAN DERHAVE and Mrs. Isaac VAN DER WALLE. Funeral services will be held Monday afternoon, August 13th at 2:30 o'clock from his residence, No. 420 Garson avenue. Interment in Mount Hope cemetery. (This Isaac DeMallie was probably the son or grandson of the Isaac DeMallie born about 1825 in Holland, enumerated in the 1880 census, age 55, in Rochester

Stephen Potter De Mallie wanted to benefit/help many.
He would personally say "Thanks" with his New England accent.. if he could he would now to you too.

100 Percent of your gift benefit goes into this Non-Profit Scholarship, not someones pockets.

Instead of flowers/gifts, please send your benefits to:
Attention De Mallie Family Scholarship, only.
University of Massachusetts Lowell (UML)
883 Broadway Street, Room 102
Lowell, Middlesex County, Massachusetts ( Ma.) 01854-5131 USA

Telephone: 978-934-4220 Fax: 978-934-3009
They accept Credit/Debit Cards, Checks, Money Orders, and your Corporate Matching gifts. 
Family links: 
  Isaac Ernest De Mallie (1887 - 1951)
  Madeline Julia Potter De Mallie (1894 - 1962)
  Campbell De Mallie (1915 - 2001)*
  William Wilson De Mallie (1916 - 1980)*
  John Howland De Mallie (1918 - 2008)*
  Peter De Mallie (1920 - 2005)*
  Stephen Potter De Mallie (1923 - 2008)
  Cynthia Ainsworth De Mallie Wadman (1927 - 1999)*
*Calculated relationship
None as of yet 08/14/2010 a.d.
Note: We loved Stephen Potter De Mallie. Thank you Mrs. Debra Dawson for your Sponsorship of this Memorial. Your awesome. GOD Bless you Maam!
Bethlehem Cemetery
Nelson County
Virginia, USA
Plot: Thomas Bland Harvey, Sr. Plots
Created by: A AAA American at Find A...
Record added: Apr 21, 2011
Find A Grave Memorial# 68736758
LTC Stephen Potter Big Steve De Mallie
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