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Barney E. "Elmer" Maynard
Birth: Apr. 18, 1928
Anderson
Madison County
Indiana, USA
Death: Mar. 23, 2010
Anderson
Madison County
Indiana, USA

My Grandpa was born premature and was only 3 lbs. His survival was a miracle. He was the son of Chester Earl Maynard and Jessie Mae Hammond, who died of cancer at the young age of 45. My Grandpa was only 4 when she died. He got along okay. His dad remarried. He married a recently widowed, Edna Foland. They lived happily together until he died in 1965. My Grandpa met my Grandma at a restaurant where she worked. She would make him lunch every day to take to work. They married on October 26, 1956. She was 19 and he was 29. Age difference was a distance, but they were two peas in a pod. On August 23, 1957, my dad was born. He was their first child. A year and six days later, my Aunt Julia was born. My Grandparents were as happy as could be. My Uncle David was born in 1962, my Aunt Beth in 1968, and my Aunt Amy in 1971.

Their first Grandchild came in 1986. They were so happy! There next one was in 1988, then in 1993, 1995, 3 in 1997, 2003, and the last one came in 2005. Life out on the farm for us Grandkids, was all that we could ask for. Grandma's cooking, Grandpa's walks in the woods.

My Grandpa loved to garden, fish, mushroom hunt, read, cook on the grill, and be with his family. We would always have alot of fun with him.

There house was built in the early 60's. It is still there. They built it themselves and lived in it until 2005, when they had another house built right next to the old one. There 2nd daughter now lives in it with her family.

Those were some pretty dang good times. Then Grandpa got sick. He had his heart attack, that only changed his health, not his spirits. He kinda declined from then on, but still did the things that he loved. My parents and my brother and me moved back home, and we saw him way more.

Lets skip ahead a few years.

I consider myself lucky, because I got to spend 12 great years with my Grandpa. On Thursday, March 18, He started to get sick. It seemed that he had pneumonia. Grandma took him to the doctor that day. There was nothing. Later that afternoon, it was full blown. We started to get worried. One of his Granddaughters came to visit him that day. By the next day, he had worsened immensly. Later on Saturday, we went in to tell him goodbye and that we would see him tomorrow and that we hoped that he felt better. He said bye and fell asleep. Later on, another Granddaughter went in to tell him goodbye, and he was acting kind of funny. They ended up taking him to the hospital that night.

We went to see him the next day, and he responded well. By that night, he couldn't talk. Earlier in his life, he got Asbestos particles in his lungs. Later on, he developed Mesothelioma. When the pneumonia hit, his lungs were so weak, that it just took him. Anyway, the next day (Monday, March 22), we were all pulled from school. We recieved the horrible news: he wasn't going to make it. We went to the hospital, where the Rev. gave him his last rites. We were told that he may last only two hours. But instead, he lasted a good 16. We stayed up all night, laughing, crying, and reminescing. We were awoke on March 23, 2010 at about 3:15 a.m., with the news: Grandpa had passed away at 3:05 in the morning.
Although I still miss him more and more, I have accepted that he has moved on.
In the end, he had 19 nieces and nephews, 9 grandchildren, 5 children, a wife who loved him very very much, and 6 dogs who were always following close at his side.


My Grandpa always said, after he had his heart attack and his other health problems, that "I look good for the shape that I'm in!" At his funeral, even, the Rev. asked my Grandma what he always said.

My Grandpa was in the the United States Navy as a gunner's mate during the Korean War on the USS Leary.

I LOVE YOU GRANDPA!

Hobbies: Reading, gardening, woodworking, and making wine.
Married: 54 years to Jacqueline Schweitzer.
Children: 5; 11 grandchildren; 5 great-grandchildren.
Nieces and Nephews: over 40 including great and great-great-nieces and nephews.
Siblings: 1; step-brother.
Other family: special cousin, Margaret, and her children.
Preceded in death: Parents, Chester and Jessie (Hammond); step-mother, Edna (Knopp, Foland); in laws, Arvid and Katie (Garrett)



Thank you Debbie (D C) for sponsoring my Grandpa Elmer. It means so much!






 
 
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 Parents:
  Chester Earl Maynard (1886 - 1965)
  Jessie M Hammond Maynard (1887 - 1932)
 
Burial:
Parkview Cemetery
Alexandria
Madison County
Indiana, USA
 
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Record added: Mar 24, 2010
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