|Birth: ||Aug. 14, 1899|
New York County (Manhattan)
New York, USA
|Death: ||Jun. 11, 2013|
Kings County (Brooklyn)
New York, USA
Mrs. Kozak was born on the Lower East Side of Manhattan in 1899. Her parents had emigrated from Russia in 1886; they worked their way up from nothing and eventually became quite wealthy. Despite the extreme challenges of keeping Shabbat in America back then, they struggled to raise their nine children as observant Jews – even without Jewish schools or basic infrastructure. They were among the first Jews to live in the Flatbush neighborhood of Brooklyn, at a time when Jews weren't welcome there, and helped pave the way for what would later become a center of Jewish life.
Mrs. Kozak recounted that her parents taught the values of honesty and kindness at all costs – pillars with which she lived her long life. Although he began as a peddler, her father, Yitzchak Jacobson eventually opened a hatbox factory. He cared for his many employees as if they were his own children. Even if he found out that a worker was stealing from him, or arriving late, he instructed the bookkeeper not to deduct anything from their wages, for he knew that they needed the money.
Yitzchak Jacobson used to let a homeless man sleep in the basement of the factory. Decades later, people claimed there was a ghost in the building. When Mrs. Kozak heard that, she knew the answer right away. "Does he wear a fedora hat?" she asked. "Oh, that's just Willie the homeless man. He was happy there and must have stayed long after the factory closed down."
Mrs. Kozak's mother, Katie Jacobson, used to wear 5-carat diamond earrings and a 10-carat diamond necklace. One day a poor woman knocked on the door saying, "The butcher said that you could help me with a problem." Mrs. Jacobson immediately invited her in, and noting how tired she appeared, sent her upstairs to bathe and rest. She then fed her and asked what she could do to help. At that point, the visitor took out a weapon and confessed that she was sent by a gang to kill her and steal the diamonds. "You were so kind to me that I can't do it," she said, and then ran out the door.
"My grandmother continued this tradition of caring for each person, no matter who they were, regardless of race or religion, rich or poor," said her granddaughter Brucha Weisberger of New York.
Mrs. Kozak was married in 1921 and had five children. She suffered through many hardships, including several life-threatening illnesses, the Great Depression, the death of a spouse and two children, and the loss of much of her eyesight. In 1929, when she was deathly ill, she received a blessing for health and long life from Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Schneersohn zt"l. She often attributed her longevity to this blessing. "The Rebbe blessed me too well," she would joke.
Although she didn't continue schooling past 8th grade, she was an avid reader. She was completely self-taught, yet possessed an incredible vocabulary.
In 1944, when her youngest son suffered from asthma, Mrs. Kozak was forced to move down to Florida. There she eventually opened a guest house – an operation that she single-handedly ran for over 40 years.
By Yochonon Donn
Tuesday, June 11, 2013 | ג' תמוז תשע"ג
BROOKLYN - Mrs. Evelyn Kozak, who attributed her longevity to her healthy lifestyle, sunny attitude and a 1929 brachah from a visiting Gadol, passed away Tuesday morning, surrounded by family and basking in a community who frequently came to her for brachos and to hear a rare firsthand account of growing up frum in the early 1900s. She was 113.
Mrs. Chava Rivka Kozak, her Jewish name, spent years breaking records — she was the seventh oldest person in the world, the oldest Jew, and one of only six Americans left who were born in the 19th century.
Mrs. Kozak recalled with perfect clarity where she was when hearing about the sinking of the Titanic in 1912, and she had a photograph of her father with President William Howard Taft at the opening of the first Hebrew Orphan Asylum.
But to her family, Mrs. Kozak was a loving grandmother, solicitous over their wellbeing and an ever-giving woman of fortitude.
"She was an extremely kind person; she always wanted to give and give and give," Bracha Weisberger, a granddaughter in whose house Mrs. Kozak stayed during her final years, told Hamodia on Tuesday. "If someone brought her a birthday present she would ask if she could give it away to someone else."
"She was very well-read, extremely witty," she added. "People would constantly come to her for brachos."
Mrs. Kozak attributed the brachah for her extreme longevity to a variety of factors. She told a janitor at a nursing home that it was since she had "a good conscience." Other times she would say that it was because she liked to help people and that she never harmed anyone.
She told some people that she lived so long since she believed in being straight and truthful. She told a secular historian that the reason was that she walked five miles a day and kept away from fatty foods.
But the family said that they credit a brachah she received from Harav Yosef Yitzchak Schneersohn, zt"l, the Lubavitcher Rebbe, during a visit to New York in 1929.
As one of the few people who owned a nice car that came to the seaport to be mekabel panim the Rebbe, Evelyn's father, Reb Yair Yitzchak Jacobson, drove the Rebbe to his lodgings. He frequented the Rebbe's house over the next few weeks.
When Mrs. Kozak, then 30-years-old, became sick, Reb Yair Yitzchak ran to the Lubavitcher Rebbe for a brachah.
"She should have arichas yamim," the Rebbe responded.
"That was one of the things that we attributed her long life to," Mrs. Weisberger said. She added that her grandmother did not specifically consider herself a Lubavitcher, but "it was significant that she was niftar on the last Lubavitcher Rebbe's yahrtzeit."
The 19th yahrtzeit of Harav Menachem Mendel Schneerson, zt"l, was marked on Tuesday.
Evelyn was born on Aug. 14 (8 Elul) of 1899 in the Lower East Side to Reb Yair Yitzchok and Sarah Kailya Jacobson, immigrants from the town of Nezhin, Russia. They were Lubavitcher Chassidim who came to the United States in 1886 determined to buck the trend of melting into the secular pot.
"Her father remained shomer Shabbos even though that was unusual in those days," Mrs. Weisberger noted.
In Manhattan, Mr. Jacobson helped set up Congregation Tzemach Tzedek Nusach Ari on Henry Street. The family later moved to Flatbush, and Mrs. Kozak used to say that the only two sifrei Torah in Flatbush — and possibly in all of Brooklyn — at the time before the Great War, were located in her father's house.
Finishing eighth grade, Evelyn left school and went to work for her father at his hat box factory. She married Samual [Meshulam] Margereten, to whom she bore five children. She later remarried but upon the passing of her second husband in the 1950s, declined further marriage prospects.
Following her first marriage, Mrs. Kozak moved to Perth Amboy, N.J., later relocating to Miami Beach, Fla., where she managed a boarding house for the elderly. She took care of people younger than herself well into her 90s.
She then stayed in Pittsburg to be near her daughter. In a memorable ceremony for her 110th birthday, Pittsburg City Council President Doug Shields declared her the oldest Pittsburger, and her birthday was declared "Evelyn Kozak Day."
But following the first of two strokes, she moved in with her granddaughter Bracha Weisberger and spent the past three years in Flatbush as the second to the oldest New Yorker.
"She was much happier here, all the people of Kensington were always coming to her for brachos," Mrs. Weisberger said.
"She was able to do everything and walk and remember everything until she was 110. And even when she had a stroke, she was alert and knew what was going on. … She was a very happy person; she had a big simchas hachaim."
Mrs. Kozak spent the past three years in and out of hospitals, escaping medical emergencies several times.
"We just thought that she would live forever because she always pulled through no matter what," her granddaughter said.
Mrs. Kozak had a heart attack Monday night and was hospitalized in Maimonides Medical Center. She passed away early Tuesday morning.
The levayah took place at Shomrei Hachomos chapels in Boro Park. Maspidim included three of her grandchildren, Meshulam Margereten, Yishai Polon and Avraham Weisberger. Harav Yechezkel Weinfeld, a Flatbush Rav the family was affiliated with, was also maspid.
Kevurah was in Washington cemetery near her father and grandparents.
Mrs. Kozak is survived by, ybl"c, her children, Mrs. Paula Lebow of California, Mrs. Ruth Terner of Pittsburg and Reb Yoel Yitzchok Margeretten of Tucson, Ariz., grandchildren and great-grandchildren, all of whom are frum.
Her son is sitting shivah at his son Yehudah's house in Lakewood at 770 Marlin Ave. until Monday morning.
Yehi zichrah baruch.
Isaac J Jacobson (1860 - 1934)
Katie S Jacobson (1865 - 1939)
Kings County (Brooklyn)
New York, USA
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Record added: Jun 28, 2013
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