|Birth: ||Jul. 20, 2008|
|Death: ||Jul. 20, 2008|
To start things off, Liberty was my miracle baby that i had always wanted, and i had to lose her due to doctors not listening to me when i told them something was wrong with me and her. I faught for 2 weeks to get them to take my baby girl cause i knew and felt that something was wrong with me and her. So I went to Batesville, Ar. hospital with this problum of pre term labor that would not stop no matter what they done or gave me. They kept sending me home because i was not dialating with her, and when her heart beat started going crazy they didn't even come and check on me or worrie why her heart beat was doing what it did. they sent me home shortly after this happend. If i would not have gone to my doctor down in Newport,Ar. 3 days later I wouldn't have known that my baby had had a heart attack , and my placenta had absobed all of her blood and all of mine too. Which lead to my daughters death. Just because I wasn't with one of batesville's doctors they would not take my baby emergency c-section or transfer me to Newport,Ar. where my doctor was, they told me she was fine and sent me home. Sadly when i went back to my doctor in newport, we made the terifing discovery that my daughter was gone.
To all the mothers that out there that are expecting a child make sure you don't take no for an answer when your doctor says that there is nothing wrong with you child, but you feel different. If it would not have been for me going back to mine. I would have lost my life along with my daughter, and in some cases i wish i would have, but in others i don't.
For those mothers out there who have lost a child such as i have. I am deeply and truly sorry and i know what you are going through. Just to give some advice to all of you out there who are going through this along with me. I know it is hard and you feel like H***, but only time will ease your pain. It helped me alot to have gotten to hold my daughter when she got here even though she was still born. I still looked at her perfect little body, and knew that she was in good hands with God and all of my family members that have passed and went on to heaven with her. So have faith and don't give up as i am trying so hard not to. the best thing that i have found to do though is to go be around the ones who love you, and don't bottle up your emotions let them out, cry when you have to, and talk about it when you feel the need to. It will all be ok with time....
Heather Marie Vallance (1985 - 2011)
Plot: at the end on the left side of the circle turn around in the back.
Created by: Heather Vallance
Record added: Aug 08, 2008
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