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Clarissa Elizabeth Harlow "Clara" Kyser Bailey
Birth: Jul. 17, 1821
Alabama, USA
Death: Apr. 6, 1904
Buncome
Panola County
Texas, USA

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The following is copied in part from an article titled "Pioneer Panola County Women" printed in The Panola Watchman on Wednesday, May 8, 1996, as one of the Panola County Sesquicentennial articles provided by the Panola County Historical Commission. The information was provided by Auvie Bailey her Great Grandson:

Pointing to a picture of his mother on the wall in the Buncombe Community in 1925, Charlie B. Bailey said that his mother, Clarissa Kyser Bailey, was born in Holland*. Her well-defined cheek bones and strong jaw line are facial features still evident in her descendents today. She was of "Black Dutch" descent, as her ancestors were a mix of the blond, blue-eyed, fair-complexioned people of the Netherlands and the olive-skinned, brown-eyed and dark-haired Romans, who conquered the Netherlands centuries ago. The "Black Dutch" were those whose looks resembled the Romans. In Holland, they were outcasts, married one another, and became a subculture in the area.

Clarissa was only five when her family journeyed to the United States in 1826 and settled in Orangeburg County, SC. About 1834, the Kysers moved to Franklin County, GA, where Clarissa met Green Berry W. Bailey. They married in 1839, moved to Bibb County, Alabama, and lived beside Green Berry's father, Wyatt Bailey. By 1841, Green Berry and Clarissa were living on a 602-acre farm on the Pea River in New Hope Community in Coffee County, AL, near her kinfolk.

Clarissa, being of true, study pioneer stock, bore eight children the first ten years of her marriage, and she delivered five more in the 1850's, and two more after the Civil War, bringing the total to fifteen. Despite the size of their brood, the family fared well for themselves, probably due to good health and hard work. Their land and personal possessions were valued at $7,000. Unfortunately, the Civil War and its aftermath would erase all that they had worked to acquire. However, the loss of material goods go hardly noticed by Clarissa, compared to the loss of a son.

When the Civil War broke out in April 1861, Clarissa's oldest son, James Ernest, wasted no time in answering President Jefferson Davis' call for volunteers. Perhaps Clarissa sought solace from a friend and neighbor, Mrs. Terry (Gilly) Presswood, who had four sons in the Confederacy. The Presswood family was also of Black Dutch descent.

In 1863, Clarissa watched as another son, William, 17, joined his brother James' company. That same year, James E. Bailey died in the Battle of Chancellorsville in VA. With General Robert E. Lee calling for every able-bodied man to come and serve in the Confederate Army, in July 1853 Clarissa watched as both her husband and yet another son, John, hardly 16, signed up in the Alabama Infantry. By January 1865, Green Berry had returned to Coffee County. John and William were back home by the Fall of 1865. The war was over, but difficult times lay ahead. Military Reconstruction (1865-1877) under the Radical Republicans after Abraham Lincoln's assassination was profoundly difficult. Taxes tripled, creating an impossible hardship on the ex-Confederates, whose lives were already devastated from the loss of the war. Like thousands of others, Clarissa and Green Berry decided to leave Alabama and sold their farm in September 1871. Two months later, Green Berry and son, William, rode horse back to Panola County, Texas, and paid for a 172-acre farm in the Buncombe Community, where Hebert Koonce lives today. Three days after they returned home to get the family, Green Berry, 52, died of pneumonia. At age 51, Clarissa was a widow in Alabama, could not read or write, had 11 dependent children, a farm in Texas many hundreds of miles away, and very little money. She knew what had to be done.

Clarissa buried her husband in the Kyser family cemetery, marked the top of the grave with a layer of carefully placed brick and a proper headstone, and then prepared to go to Texas with money given by the Pea River Lodge. Clarissa would never know that nearly a century later, the graves in the Kyser family cemetery would be bull-dozed off into a nearby gully by a landowner.

Christopher Kyser accompanied his sister and 11 of her children, the youngest being barely a toddler, to Texas. Seab Presswood, with eyes for Clarissa's daughter, Lucinda*, also went. They traveled mostly by water until they reached Jefferson, Texas, where they came on to Panola County in their wagon pulled by oxen. Christopher helped his sister get settled before returning to Alabama. Clarissa and her children provided for themselves by farming and operating a tannery in the Indian Creek bottom. Hides were sold at a leather shop in the Snap Community west of Carthage.

Life's difficulties that year were compounded when death struck again and stole daughter Surmantha, only 24 years old. The remaining Bailey children grew into adulthood and most settled in Panola and Shelby counties.

Clarissa Elizabeth Harlow Kyser Bailey died April 6, 1904, at age 83 at the home of her daughter, Dora Graves, near the Hopewill Baptist Church in Buncombe. She is buried in Bethlehem Cemetery in Snap Community with Surmantha.

"I don't guess it will ever be known how much Clarissa Bailey did to relieve her family of the sufferings and the hardships, but she will be held in the highest esteem by all of her Bailey and Kyser kin for the courage she must have had," writes Auvie Bailey, great-grandson of Clarissa and avid researcher of Bailey family history.

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*Notes:

Even though family stories passed down tell that Clarissa was born in Holland, the U.S. Census records show that she was born in Alabama and her parents born in South Carolina. I believe she was definitely of Dutch descent, however.

I believe the reference to Seab Presswood having eyes for Lucinda is most likely incorrect and Seabon Presswood married Clarissa's daughter Louisa Eliza in January of 1872 in Clayton, Panola County, Texas, shortly after they settled there.

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Family links: 
 Spouse:
  Green Berry W. Bailey (1820 - 1871)*
 
 Children:
  Barnabas Turner Bailey (1820 - 1911)*
  James Ernest Bailey (1841 - 1863)*
  Nancy C. Bailey Wall (1843 - 1933)*
  Williams M Bailey (1845 - 1913)*
  W C Bailey (1845 - 1850)*
  John B. Wilburn Bailey (1846 - 1922)*
  Samantha Bailey (1848 - 1872)*
  Martha Lucinda Bailey Lindsey (1850 - 1909)*
  Louisa Eliza Bailey Presswood (1853 - 1915)*
  Mary Adeline Bailey Satterwhite (1854 - 1947)*
  Green Berry Bailey (1855 - 1923)*
  Dora Clara Bailey Graves (1856 - 1925)*
  Charlie Buckner Bailey (1860 - 1927)*
  William Francis Bailey (1861 - 1947)*
  Donnie Ella Bailey Fallwell (1863 - 1939)*
  Emma Virginia Bailey Ritter (1871 - 1924)*
 
*Calculated relationship
 
Inscription:

"Every joy to us is dead,
since mother is not here."
 
Burial:
Bethlehem Cemetery
Carthage
Panola County
Texas, USA
 
Maintained by: Mary Fallwell Henderson
Originally Created by: EastTexan
Record added: Apr 04, 2008
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This is pretty amazing! Clarissa is my great, great, great, great grandmother! Thanks for maintaining this page, I will be able to share some interesting information with my family :)
- Madison Tackett
 Added: Jun. 21, 2014
To my amazingly brave great grandmother Clara. May you rest in the love of peace of God in Heaven for Eternity. I know I will see you someday. Love, Mary Ellen
- Mary Fallwell Henderson
 Added: Sep. 19, 2011

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