|Birth: ||Apr. 28, 1981|
|Death: ||Mar. 14, 2007|
Ryan was a 25-year old gay man from Polk County, Florida who was murdered on Wednesday in what authorities called a hate crime. Two men have been arrested in connection with the crime: William David Brown Jr. (20 years old at the time of the incident), and Joseph Bearden, 21. Brown has claimed that he killed Skipper in retaliation for unwanted sexual advances . The men have been charged with first-degree murder and robbery.Skipper's body was discovered on March 15 by a roadside in Wahneta, Florida.
The son of Patricia & Lyn Mulder and Durl James & Trisha Skipper, the brother of Damien Skipper of Las Vegas, Nevada Paternal Grandson of Katherine Newsome of Winter Haven, FL. Maternal Grandson of: Joyce Wilson of Auburndale, FL. Step Grandson of: Wally & Linda Mulder of Winter Haven, FL. Nephew of: Jackie and Pam Wilson of Auburndale, FL. Tim and Debi Wilson of Winter Garden, FL. Kim and Jay Bennett of Winter Haven, FL. Kelly and Beth Mulder of Winter Haven, FL. Sheri and Larry Snider of Ft. Myers, FL. Cousin of several Cousins and Friends. . He attended First Missionary Baptist Church of Auburndale as a child, then Grace Lutheran Church and School in Winter Haven, where he served as an altar boy.
He kept his sexual orientation a secret, though in his final year at Winter Haven High School he came out to a select few friends. At school he was assaulted and often taunted with anti-gay slurs. According to friend Stephanie Strickland, "In high school, people would call him a girlie man, gay boy," push him in the halls and throw rocks at his car. After high school, He moved out of his parents' home. He was arrested twice on charges of possession of marijuana, once in 1999 and again in 2001. At the time of his murder, he was working, living with roommates, and attending Traviss Career Center, a vocational school where he was studying computers.
At 9 pm on March 14, after finishing work in Winter Haven, He met friend Karl von Hahmann for dinner. They left the restaurant at 10:30 pm. He returned home where Von Hahmann spoke to him on the telephone at 11:10 pm, after which roommate Kelly Evans saw him go into his bedroom.
Some time around midnight, according to the Polk County Sheriff's Office, Skipper met Bearden. Bearden is a convicted car thief who also pleaded no contest to a battery charge in 2004. Sometime afterwards, Skipper, Brown and Bearden drove away in Skipper's car; 15 minutes later Brown and Bearden returned alone.
It is not fully known how He met Bearden and Brown, but Skipper's roommate Joyce Fraley claims to have seen Brown at their house on several occasions. Strickland also says that Brown knew a previous tenant of Skipper's home, and lived two blocks away. Allegedly, Brown had visited the home a few times just weeks before he and Bearden murdered Skipper. Skipper was beaten, stabbed 20 times and his throat slit. His body was dumped by the side of a road in Wahneta, a small town outside Winter Haven. His car was abandoned at Lake Pansy, and the fingerprints of both accused were found inside.
The first trial in the case is set to begin in October of 2008. The murder has caused outrage among gay rights groups, who see similarities between Skipper's murder and that of Matthew Shepard, a gay college student who was murdered in Laramie, Wyoming in 1998. They have also decried the lack of mainstream attention to Skipper's murder, which has been attributed by some to claims by Sheriff Grady Judd that, according to Bearden and Brown, Skipper was cruising for sex when he met his attackers, that he had consumed illegal drugs with Bearden, and that Skipper and his attackers were allegedly planning a check forgery scheme using Skipper's laptop computer. Skipper's family and friends all have agreed that this scenario is highly unlikely, as it was uncharacteristic of Skipper to approach men randomly, and he did not own a laptop computer. According to Brian Winfield, spokesman for Equality Florida, "They've characterized Ryan as a pervert, a drug addict and a felon. In the eyes of the media, it didn't carry the human interest that it should have". The Sheriff's Department has since admitted that the account of the events leading up to the murder that was originally given to the media by Sheriff Grady Judd was based solely on the unsubstantiated statements given by Bearden and Brown upon their arrests. Chief W.J. Martin acknowledged in an article in The Ledger that the two were probably attempting to "minimize their involvement and make themselves look better.".
Auburndale Memorial Park
Created by: Nita
Record added: Sep 08, 2008
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Wish I could have known you, Ryan. You are a beautiful soul--inside and out! Looking forward to being friends in heaven.|
Added: May. 13, 2015
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I'm sorry that your life was cut short. No one has the right to judge you. I hope you get justice, but if not here... they will stand before God & answer for what they did to you! Rest in peace.|
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