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Robert Edward "Rob" Lee, Jr
Birth: Oct. 27, 1843
Arlington County
Virginia, USA
Death: Oct. 19, 1914
Fauquier County
Virginia, USA

Robert E. Lee, Jr. was the sixth child and third son of Confederate General Robert E. Lee and his wife, Mary Anna Custis Lee. When his father first laid eyes on his namesake he said: "He has a long fine nose like his father, but no whiskers." Rob, as he was called, was a favorite of his father and he used to get into bed with the General in the mornings for talking sessions. A rather laid-back person, with simple tastes, Rob attended boarding schools during the 1850s and, unlike his two older brothers, he did not want to have a military career. However, when the Civil War was in progress, he enlisted as a private (1862) and then he was eventually appointed a Captain. He inherited the Romancock property from his grandfather and he retired there after the war, later writing Recollections and Letters of General Robert E. Lee which was published in 1904. This work remains an important source for reference to this day. Rob married twice; he married his first wife, Charlotte Haxall, in November of 1871 and then, after Charlotte's death, he married Juliet Carter (April 6, 1860 - Nov. 17, 1915). Juliet is buried beside Rob in the Lee family crypt in Lexington, Va. 
Family links: 
  Robert Edward Lee (1807 - 1870)
  Mary Anna Randolph Custis Lee (1808 - 1873)
  Charlotte Taylor Haxall Lee (1848 - 1872)*
  Juliet Carter Lee (1860 - 1915)*
  Anne Carter Lee Ely (1897 - 1978)*
  Mary Custis Lee DeButts (1900 - 1994)*
  George Washington Custis Lee (1832 - 1913)*
  Mary Custis Lee (1835 - 1918)*
  William Henry Fitzhugh Lee (1837 - 1891)*
  Anne Carter Lee (1839 - 1862)**
  Anne Carter Lee (1839 - 1862)*
  Eleanor Agnes Lee (1841 - 1873)*
  Robert Edward Lee (1843 - 1914)
  Mildred Childe Lee (1845 - 1905)*
*Calculated relationship
Lee Chapel Museum
Lexington City
Virginia, USA
Created by: Kathleen
Record added: Nov 15, 2003
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Robert Edward Rob Lee, Jr
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Robert Edward Rob Lee, Jr
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Robert Edward Rob Lee, Jr
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- Birdgirl
 Added: Apr. 26, 2016

- Clydie
 Added: Dec. 22, 2015
Thank you Sir for your service to the Confederate Army...never forgotten.
- Linda Newbrough
 Added: Sep. 7, 2015
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