There is a marriage license for John Cleveland to Lydia McBride in Lawrence County, Indiana 23 May 1841. The Lawrence records show that Lydia was about 10 years older than John. The census and death record shows that Lydia is 10 - 11 years older than our John Cleveland.
John and Lydia are in Effingham County, Illinois in 1850 and Shelby County, Illinois in 1860. They are in Montgomery County Kansas for the 1880 census and both died in Montgomery County. Both are buried in Elmwood cemetery with unmarked graves. John Krapp took care of both their funerals. No obit has been found for Lydia.
Lydia had children: Caroline, Martha and Mary Jane.