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Gertrude “Tootie” <I>Stech</I> Bickham

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Gertrude “Tootie” Stech Bickham

Birth
Orange Grove, Jim Wells County, Texas, USA
Death
13 Aug 2014 (aged 80)
Burial
Odem, San Patricio County, Texas, USA GPS-Latitude: 27.9587899, Longitude: -97.5835798
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Gertrude “Tootie” Bickham – our beloved Tutu – was called home after a brief but courageous battle with cancer on August 13, 2014. She was born September 21, 1933 in Orange Grove, Texas to August and Martha Bues Stech. She was the thirteenth of fourteen children and was preceded in death by her brothers, Adolph, Herbert, Ed, Bill, Augie, Bob, and Marvin and sisters, Dora, Emma, Lily, and Hilda. Tootie grew up in Orange Grove, Texas and attended Orange Grove High School where she played basketball, softball, volleyball, and played the drums, and was a majorette with the marching band.

Tootie married her first husband, Ben “Bob” Bickham on March 21, 1953. Bob and Tootie had three children, sons, Robert Bickham (Helen) and Allen Bickham (Terri), and daughter, Cheryl Fair (Pete) all of Corpus Christi, Texas. She cared for Bob throughout a lengthy illness, never leaving his side until his death in October, 1996.

On January 21, 2000, Tootie married Larry Bickham, and the two of them enjoyed many happy years together, checking the crops, feeding the cows, traveling (especially trips to Coushatta), and most especially Sunday dances at Community Hall.

Tootie is survived by her adoring husband, Larry; her three children, Larry’s children, Brad Bickham (Sarita) of Odem, Texas, and Sheri James (Scott) of Corpus Christi, Texas, whom she loved dearly. She is also survived by her grandchildren, of whom she was so proud; Jessica, Brady and Ben Fair, Erin and Hailey Bickham, Drew, Weston and Baileigh James. and Brin and Blake Bickham, Amber Prince and Ryan Flores as well as great grandchildren, Emma, Wyatt, Cooper, Dalton and baby Paige, expected in November. She is survived by sisters, Sis Bickham of Corpus Christi, Texas and Butch Laird of Livingston, Texas and numerous nieces and nephews and cousins and close friends.

Tutu always had the prettiest yard on the block and found so much joy in the outdoors. She especially enjoyed the arrival of a new calf, her fish pond, and watching the birds from her back patio, a cup of coffee in hand. Mom will be deeply missed, but the family takes comfort in knowing she’s with the Lord, dancing across Heaven.

Burial will follow services in Evergreen Cemetery in Odem, Texas.

Pallbearers will be Brady Fair, Ben Fair, Drew James, Weston James, Spencer Davis and Rob Adair.
Gertrude “Tootie” Bickham – our beloved Tutu – was called home after a brief but courageous battle with cancer on August 13, 2014. She was born September 21, 1933 in Orange Grove, Texas to August and Martha Bues Stech. She was the thirteenth of fourteen children and was preceded in death by her brothers, Adolph, Herbert, Ed, Bill, Augie, Bob, and Marvin and sisters, Dora, Emma, Lily, and Hilda. Tootie grew up in Orange Grove, Texas and attended Orange Grove High School where she played basketball, softball, volleyball, and played the drums, and was a majorette with the marching band.

Tootie married her first husband, Ben “Bob” Bickham on March 21, 1953. Bob and Tootie had three children, sons, Robert Bickham (Helen) and Allen Bickham (Terri), and daughter, Cheryl Fair (Pete) all of Corpus Christi, Texas. She cared for Bob throughout a lengthy illness, never leaving his side until his death in October, 1996.

On January 21, 2000, Tootie married Larry Bickham, and the two of them enjoyed many happy years together, checking the crops, feeding the cows, traveling (especially trips to Coushatta), and most especially Sunday dances at Community Hall.

Tootie is survived by her adoring husband, Larry; her three children, Larry’s children, Brad Bickham (Sarita) of Odem, Texas, and Sheri James (Scott) of Corpus Christi, Texas, whom she loved dearly. She is also survived by her grandchildren, of whom she was so proud; Jessica, Brady and Ben Fair, Erin and Hailey Bickham, Drew, Weston and Baileigh James. and Brin and Blake Bickham, Amber Prince and Ryan Flores as well as great grandchildren, Emma, Wyatt, Cooper, Dalton and baby Paige, expected in November. She is survived by sisters, Sis Bickham of Corpus Christi, Texas and Butch Laird of Livingston, Texas and numerous nieces and nephews and cousins and close friends.

Tutu always had the prettiest yard on the block and found so much joy in the outdoors. She especially enjoyed the arrival of a new calf, her fish pond, and watching the birds from her back patio, a cup of coffee in hand. Mom will be deeply missed, but the family takes comfort in knowing she’s with the Lord, dancing across Heaven.

Burial will follow services in Evergreen Cemetery in Odem, Texas.

Pallbearers will be Brady Fair, Ben Fair, Drew James, Weston James, Spencer Davis and Rob Adair.


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  • Created by: LJCL16
  • Added: Aug 14, 2014
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  • Find a Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/134340446/gertrude-bickham: accessed ), memorial page for Gertrude “Tootie” Stech Bickham (21 Sep 1933–13 Aug 2014), Find a Grave Memorial ID 134340446, citing Evergreen Cemetery, Odem, San Patricio County, Texas, USA; Maintained by LJCL16 (contributor 47878768).